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Hey everyone my name is Calie. I am 13 years old and I am from Oregon.I have auborn blonde hair and blue eyes. I have a boyfriend and alot of friends,lol. Oh yeah and I am an only child. Also I play the drums.My friends always ask me for advice and whenever I do give it to them it does usually work. I mean I love to help people with problems. I promise you I will help so feel free to ask me for advice. Ciao for now!
~Calie~

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at my school everyone wheres short mini skirts and all and the fat girls NEVER get in trouble. and i have thys frend we'll call A she is very skinny and she had on a skort that when she put her hands down it was the right length. then theres thys other girl we'll call K and she is rather over weight and she never gets in trouble for her short skirts. what should we do? is there anything we can do?

Idk, but maybe talk to your councelor and maybe they can tell the principal about it cause it's really not fair. ~Calie~

There's this girl in my p.e. class, and I think she might like me. She hugs me every day, and she seemed really excited today when she told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. We always joke around, and she's kissed my neck before, just playing around though. The question is, do you think she likes me, should I ask her out, and a random question I'm throwing in: I just got braces, how would making out with someone work?

Well if you like her definately go for it. Also I have braces and if you try to keep your mouth closed and put your lips over your teeth it will be okay. Well Good Luck! *Calie*

I need a new word to substitute for "amazing" because I use that wayyy too much. Any ideas?

tight, cool, of the hook, pimpin, awesome, fantabulous(lol i Know, kinof odd), carazy, remarkable. Hope i helped, btw I always say fantabulous. I know strange, lol. ~Calie~

is it possible to get a guy to like you that barely knows you..i mean i have been talking to him more and he knows my name and what not..but like what are some signs that a guy likes you, and what are some ways thats you could get him to like you.

Well he needs to hang out wi th you more to get to know you. Just don;t force yourself on him. *Calie*

ok so im dating this guy well call him ryan but i used to be best friends with this other guy well call him tyler and me n tyler used to stay up on the fone til like 4 in the mornin every nite 4 a year and he was like in love with m e but i was always to busy trying to make him jealous wen i really did like him so anyways last january Tyler pretty much gave up on me and we decided to be friends but it mademe sick i relized what a big mistake ive made and yea then not that long ago tyler told me he loved me but he likes this other girl wat the hell does that mean and i no me n him belong together wat could i do to get him bak and o yea im dating that 1 guy and weve been goin out for like 3 months and he really likes me but all i can think about is "tyler" but i really wana no how i could get him bak

Well first of all you need to tell the guy you're dating the truth. I know it might be hard, but it's the right thing. Then tell Tyler the truth and how you really do like him. Apologize to him and you never know if hes sweet and really does love you. He will consider it. Good Luck and I hope everything turns out Okay. *Calie*

could someone give me a screen name for aim that has to do with summer?

SummerLuver or funinthasummerfun.
~Calie~

I really love to sing and my friends think i'm really good at it....but i refuse to sign in front of crowds or even my parents....wat could i do 2 get rid of my stage fright?

Just try singing in front of people. Maybe try singing with other people that helped me in when i was in choir. Sing with like a group of friends and when you are confident enough, sing alone. Good Luck. ~Cal~

I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks!

Try Ross, Target, or Mervyns. They have really good prices. Cute Skirts too. ~Calie~

ok there is this kid rick at my school that is touching me inappropriately and i've told him several times to stop it. well the other day he was definitely touching and i told him to stop me friend keith was near by so i yelled to him so he could tell rick to get off me. i yelled his name and he just turned around and said bye. keith claims that rick is just kidding around be he is not. i question if keith is my friend or not cause a friend wouldn't just leave you like that. i need help ASAP!!!!

Well you need to talk to him and tell him that rick wasn't just kidding around and that you seriously feel uncomfortable and also tell him if he is your friend he should know that. ~Cal~

how do you put holes in your jeans but not to where they look like you just randomly cut them?

Well most people do them on their knees and well you just kindof make a cut and rip them. Hope i helped. ~Cal~

Well I meet this girl from Duke University who is like a mirror image of me but some things I tell her she has a haard time believing. She is such an amazing girl who I really wanna know everything about and im already falling for her. Any one have ideals on how I can prove myself to her and make her happy cause the number 1 thing I want is her happy. Btw she lives 8 hours away while in school but across the US when not. Hope to hear from ya cause your all such a great bunch of helpers :)

Ask her why she doesn't believe you, and why she would think you're lying. Also tell her if she doesn't believe you that's her problem and that you know what you're saying is true. That might make her realize that you probably aren't lying. Good luck! ~Cal~

well i like my bf... kinda the think is i just broke up with him and hooked bak up..... and now i am having second thoughts... what do i do?

Well go out with him and see how it turns out, if you still have second thoughts it's probably not the right ting to keep going out with him. Good Luck! ~Calie~

Picture this:
There's a 7th grade girl and her 8th grader boyfriend alone in the hall at the end of the school day. His mom gives her a ride home so they're waiting on her to arrive. They start teasing each other and wrestling around and find themselves in the perfect position to kiss. They stare into each others' eyes for a momment, neither having kissed anyone before. The girl turns away with sudden fear.
What do you think the girl (me) was scared of? I wanted to... I just was nervous for some reason. Also, what do you think my boyfriend thought? We've been going out 5 months and never kissed. I need advice on how to overcome my fear of my first kiss or whatever I'm so scared of.I also would like to know what you think my boyfriend might have been feeling. I don't understand boys... lol. Thanks!
~Elyse

hey you are just not ready, it took me along time to before i first kissed my boyfriend. The thing is I am in 8th grade and I didn't kiss my boyfriend last year so yeah maybe you should wait more. I hope I helped. ~Calie~

I'm turning 14 and im throwing a big guy/girl party. im just burning CD's for the party and i need some good dancing music. Can anyone list some really hot music to dance to including slow songs, rock, and hip hop/rap? i would really appreciate it. the list can be as long as you want!!! THANKS!!

Yeah- Usher, 1,2,step- Ciara, Burn- Usher, This Love- Maroon 5, and just songs like that. have Fun. ~Calie~

Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do?

If you like him just say yes if you feel weird about the age difference don't go out with him. but don't say no if you are worried about what people think. ~Calie~

theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!!

You need to just tell him. In a nice way, but still seriously. Like just say "How come you keep lying to me?" Or be like "Please stop lying to me, I don't mean to be mean, but you reall y need to stop okay". hope I helped. ~Calie~

What are some new years resolutions?!

Mine was to get straight A's and beat more people in tennis competitions.lol. I know alot of people who are saying they will get better grades for their resolution also to be nicer towards people. One of my friends says shes going to be more posotive towards things. ~Calie~

whenever i flirt with other guys my friend Mark seems to be bothered! he looks really sad! what's wrong with him?!

He likes you. That's sweet. Just talk to him. ~Calie~

New Years Eve, aka tomorrow night is my friend Lisa's birthday. She is throwing a small party that starts at three thirty. My friend Jenny and I want to go to another party that is kind of late at night. Lisa never really articulated when her party was over and doesn't really seem to express interest in late night stuff. So me and Jenny are confused if it's rude to leave her party at 11 or so to go to the other one because we really, really, really don't want to hurt Lisa's feelings.

You know it's true the party would be over by 11:00. ~Calie~

okay im 13/f and my 14th bday is in january and i have no idea what to do for my party cause its girls and guys and its in the middle of winter. please i need some ideas!!!--o ya and i live in texas
thanks!

Ice Skating is cool. I mean if your guyfriends are cool with it. You could also have a movie party, you can rent a bunch of horror movies and chill out and watch. Since it's guys and girls you can have fun and relax. Or if you have a big house have a dance party. Good Luck and have fun.
~Calie~

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