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Perfect but wasted!
Picture this:
There's a 7th grade girl and her 8th grader boyfriend alone in the hall at the end of the school day. His mom gives her a ride home so they're waiting on her to arrive. They start teasing each other and wrestling around and find themselves in the perfect position to kiss. They stare into each others' eyes for a momment, neither having kissed anyone before. The girl turns away with sudden fear.
What do you think the girl (me) was scared of? I wanted to... I just was nervous for some reason. Also, what do you think my boyfriend thought? We've been going out 5 months and never kissed. I need advice on how to overcome my fear of my first kiss or whatever I'm so scared of.I also would like to know what you think my boyfriend might have been feeling. I don't understand boys... lol. Thanks!
~Elyse
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oh wow you have been going out for 5 months and havn't even kissed. hun, you need to get over that fear. there is nothing to be afraid of, just put your lips to his (unless he wants to like french and stuff) but if its a normal kiss then just go for it. the only way to get over your fear is to face it. so JUST KISS HIM and you won't be afraid anymore!!
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ok in my opinion if the 8th grader hasnt kissed before then he must be scary!!!!!!! any
ways he might have been scared you didnt wanna kiss so maybe you should wait untill you both no your both ready
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How can you have a boyfriend and not understand boys? lol. You should talk to him about how he felt when you turned away from a kiss.
Before I went out with my boyfriend I was afraid of getting "intimate". That was part of the reason why I didn't say yes to him. I postponed my answer for a month...lol. But then finally we were going out. We hugged and held hands, but that was it. One day, he was going to kiss me. Before I even took the time to think, I had a rip of fear going through me and I refused his lips and kissed his cheek instead. I did this AGAIN a few times without wanting to. Finally one day, he was trying to kiss me again, and I kissed him back. It all happened so quick, but I was so relieved and happy.
I think you should share your first kiss with your boyfriend. It will definitely relieve you of any fears. I think you were just afraid of how your first kiss would go. Don't think about the negatives...think about the positives. Just let it happen. Kissing is just another way to show your affections for someone.
Your boyfriend probably might feel a little rejected, so you need to talk to him. If you just don't feel ready, just tell him how you feel and he'll understand. If he's in love with you he can wait until you are ready.
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that sounds like a fairy tale or in a movie,i hate when that doesnt happen to me,grrr.ok well you sound like you care about him but theres someone else or you dont really want to get your heart broken.he might be feeling rejected,like a turn off or his heart just broke.hope everything goes well
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getting her heart broken.
dont worry about the time, i was with my boyfriend that long before we kissed too, and it was really REALLY special that way!
talk to him about it!!!
he should help you!
maybe the mood wasnt right!
it is school!
well, God has something in plan for you with everything, so maybe it wasnt right. and this is Gods way of helping you wait until the time IS right, by mkaing you nervous or scared,
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Maybe your afraid you dont know how to kiss right or what if its all wrong and seeing how this is your first kiss it kinda freaked you out a bit going to a different level in a relationship. dont be worried. its your boyfriend and since you both have never kissed before than you both can learn together. and plus theres no special way to kiss it just comes to you naturally :)
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hey you are just not ready, it took me along time to before i first kissed my boyfriend. The thing is I am in 8th grade and I didn't kiss my boyfriend last year so yeah maybe you should wait more. I hope I helped. ~Calie~
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