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What should I do?


Question Posted Sunday January 2 2005, 3:58 pm

Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do?

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XoCraizedCutie answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 8:02 pm:
Age doesnt matter at all! i went out with a guy last summer and he was 15 and i was 13 and we broke up bcuz he went bact to NJ but every summer we end up going back out like this summer he will be 16 and i will be 14, i asked him if it botherd him that he was going out with me considering i was 2 years younger and he was like, "age doesnt matter it all that matters about how much i love you" so yeah Go with him

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xXSunSweetie17Xx answered Monday January 3 2005, 10:17 pm:
go with him! thats all i got to say who cares about the age

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josiechick0289 answered Monday January 3 2005, 2:52 pm:
don't matter the age man! go for it. and who cares if people talk. let em'

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dolceXeuore answered Monday January 3 2005, 12:02 am:
if you really like this boy then ignore your head and follow your heart. your age may seem BIG now but most people end up marrying people up to 10 yrs apart. 2 years isnt really bad . id say go for it !

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aNgeLxfOrEvEr answered Sunday January 2 2005, 6:17 pm:
If you both like each other--the age shouldn't matter. It's only two years anyway. If you're worrying so much about your age difference, then maybe your just not ready to go out with him.

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moneyman651 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:54 pm:
If he likes you & If you like him, go out.
If you do go out don't worry what people say.
because that mean when they talk thier mad because they don't have a bf/gf!!

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Helper1994 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:50 pm:
My advice is if you don't want to go out with him JUST SAY NO! If you do JUST SAY YES! Who cares if people talk about you it's your life and your desisions. Just remember do your own thing!

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MegaQueen answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:49 pm:
Don't hold back girl if it doesn't hurt go for it. If he's cute don't pass that up alright!! Hope i helped!!!

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soccrchick answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:40 pm:
If you really love him then you shouldn't care what other people think. You should go out w/ him.



~soccrchick~

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S2BaBiDawLS2 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:15 pm:
many people have different aged relationships. dont worry about it. but if you dont think you could get over the fact of what people think, you dont have to go out w/ him. ""going out with sum1" is just a title, if you already talk to him and hang out w/ him a lot, then what is going out w/ him going to do?

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AdviceMistress answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:12 pm:
who cares how old he is! if you like him and he likes you go out1 and don't listen to what other people say about your age difference!

*BeSs*

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mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:02 pm:
Well if you really like him go for it, its not upto anyone else to chose for you its upto you ignore what they say there just been silly talk to him and mabe you'll realise that you really like him roxie xxx

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 4:42 pm:
i think that you should go for it.. my boyfriend is 14 and im 16 which people thinks he's older then me but i get shit from people like hes too young.. but like i think you should go wit him and don't care wha people say.. if you like somebody you shouldnt care how old they are.. age is jus a number.. sounds dumb to say but it is.. at first people might have something to say but they will eventually get over it and not care.. but like i said don't mind what people say and don't let em get to you hun.. ~*DEZ*~

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xxxxxx answered Sunday January 2 2005, 4:38 pm:
well something like that shouldnt hold you back. if you really like the kid then thats all that matters. i know you probably hear that alot, but think about it. if you go out with him and people make fun of you because you're older, sure it'll suck for like... 2 days, then people will just GET OVER IT. the reason why it's weird is because usually older guys go out with younger girls, not the other way around, but i think you're old enough and mature enough to know that it doesnt matter. but i do guarentee that people will get over the fact that he's younger and start accepting it.

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sohojules26 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 4:35 pm:
If you really like this guy, you should go out with him. Who cares about his age??? What if someone said that about you? If you are really soo concerned, then forget about him, because thats such an awful thing to accept. Best of luck to you=)

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caliexoxo13 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 4:33 pm:
If you like him just say yes if you feel weird about the age difference don't go out with him. but don't say no if you are worried about what people think. ~Calie~

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crazybrunet09 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 4:22 pm:
just dont worry about what everyone says. but if you feel weird around him because of his age i would say no. but if you do really like him dont worry about what everyone says- they'll get over it.

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Karen answered Sunday January 2 2005, 4:16 pm:
Sweetie, it doesn't matter about what other people think of you. There are so many people that are going out with other people and they are about 3-5 years apart. Don't worry about the age difference. If you really like this boy, say yes, and start a relationship with him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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christina_ashley answered Sunday January 2 2005, 4:15 pm:
well if you really like him and he likes you then you shouldn't care what other people think about you guys getting together. if you guys
want to be together then what other people think shouldn't matter to you its your guys relationship no one elses and what other people say or think shouldn't matter if you like eachother. good luck!

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jesuschick answered Sunday January 2 2005, 4:12 pm:
Who cares what other people think. If you like him a lot and you think it's okay then you should totally go for it!! And what if you wanted to date a guy who was 2 years older than you? That would be socially acceptable. I say if you can date up, why can't he?

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