Member Since: January 2, 2005
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Last Update: March 12, 2005
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i really liked this guy, then he cut his hair and i just dont have any feelings for him, but i think he does for me... hes still nice and all, but do i sound jujmental? (link)
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Don't worry, your feelings will come back (I promise!) You just took a shock to your system with his "new look" when your into his "old look"! Things will get better!
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I've started using a gothic appearence. (I dressed in black a lot and use dark black make-up on my eyes and either brown or red lipstick.) Nobody even understand why I'm doing it. I'm sort of doing it as an expirement. (Sorry if I spelled that wrong.)It freaks out my teachers, classmates call me a vampire, my boyfriend acts scared of me, and my parents don't like anything about my new look. All I've changed is how I look. I don't want to lose my friends just for the sake of looking gothic. But, if they can't accept how I want to look, are they real friends? What should I do? Advice please! (link)
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Maybe your friends are just suprised that you suddenly changed so wildly! Try explaining to them your experimenting, maybe that'll work.
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i used 2 always see matthew in school and hes always stare at me and smile. then i met him and he was friends with my boyfriend and whenever my boyfriend would go to the bathroom matthew would say mike if i was you i wouldnt get up your girls kind of cute i wanna sit with her..so it was sort of weird.. all the time in school he always says hi to me and yesterday i was in lunch and hes in the same one but i was walkin out of the caf to go to the bathroom and he was walkin in and like hugged my hips with like one hand and was like hey beautiful where are u going.. then later i was walkin by and he said hey and i said hi and kept walking and he was like how come you always walk away from me? so i stayed and he was like call me tonight if you want to hangout.. do u think he lykes me (link)
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If he always does this to u...then he doesn't just like u...HE LOVES U!
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ok... i have a wonderful b/f and we don't fool around or nethang which im not that kinda person to fool around like that lets say his name is "todd". Todd is a very funny person and like the attention but then sometimes he can be the sweetest guy ever. the thing is i don;t like how he flirts with all of my best friends which thats jus the way he is but i wish he didn't do that cuz when he talks to them he's like "Hey sexy" and stuff and he doesn't really say jus kiddin, ya know? what should i do? (link)
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My advice is ask him if he is joking or not. And if he says he is just tell him to say kidding after he says "Hey Sexy" to someone. An if he says "No I'm not kidding" or something...Well, use your imagination.
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I have the weirdest problem. Everytime I have a little sickness, I think it's huge. Like if I have a headache, i think it's a brain tumor. If I have a stomach ache I think I'm gonna hurl or that I have the flu. Yes, I know it's weird and freaky. But I need help!! i wanna stop. Please help me (link)
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Just think to yourself, "If I was REALLY sick I would know or feel it not just THINK it" and also someone would probally notice something strange about you and tell you to go to the doctor (or hospital).
GOOD LUCK! -Sarah
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Hey sorry its kinda long guys if you can help go for it den and please dont judge me by this question and say something mean.. well okay um i'm wit this guy.. i've been wit him a while and have had sex wit him i love him wit all my heart and he means everything to me.. abd i enjoy bein wit him.. but when i have sex wit him its like i dont enjoy it or something.. but i love bein wit him.. and i don't wanna tell him like i don't like having sex wit you.. cause its not like that.. and he's not small or anything.. and he's the first guy i've had sex wit.. i dont know whats wrong wit me or if he's not doin it right or what which really i dont think its that.. i think its me.. so if you have any advice on like how i can enjoy it as much as he does let me know please.. and oh yea well he gives me oral i like that and thats like about it... so please help thanks BUNCHES! (link)
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Maybe its because he's the first guy you have ever had sex with and that may be uncomfortable to you? Try new positions that might work a little.
GOOD LUCK! -Sarah
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ok lately my boyfriend has been telling me hell call me back in 10 minutes...and he wont for like 3 hours...i know things come up and ive talked to him but he still does it...we were on the phone pretty late last night an d he was like hey can i call u right back?? and i was like ok and we hung up...and he never called back...he still hasnt called...im supposed to call him @ 12:30 and we were goning to make plans..but i dont know if i should just call ..or if i should just do what he does to me and not call him....but the thing is i dont know if his dad said he couldnt call me back last night...because it was pretty late...what do i do?? (link)
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Try calling him is what I would do first and if he doesn't answer well don't go out with him! Try calling him again the next day and see if he says "Can I call you back?" or something like that. If he does then talk to hum face to face and ask him what is going on!
GOOD LUCK!
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hows does a person shed some weight quickly?? ive been trying to lose weight for along time now and nothing seems to work. i work out 3 hours a day and that doesnt help much either.. and im not good for holding diets. i do eat healty thou... any advice?
and my friend has bulemia.. im trying to help her.. how can i help her stop and how on earth does she make her self throw up? (link)
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Working out is great! Thats a good atart to lose weight and you should eat fruits and vegtables every time you get. Eat salads ocasionally and eat meat. Tell your friend to do the same!
GOOD LUCK!
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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do? (link)
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My advice is if you don't want to go out with him JUST SAY NO! If you do JUST SAY YES! Who cares if people talk about you it's your life and your desisions. Just remember do your own thing!
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I've had a hamster before (when I was really young) and since have gotten into reptiles a lot, and have snakes and lizards and all that. So I'm pretty used to handling a lot of animals, (and, well, I wouldn't do something idiotic like holding a rodent before handling my snakes.)
I think rats are one of the most intelligent species of animals, and make great pets. I've always loved them, and I'd like to get a young rat. - I'm not sure how to take care of one, though. Are they OK in a regular cage? In a tank? Is taking care of a rat more complicated, or about the same as a hamster? If I do get one, I want it to have a full life. How long do they usually live?
I tried looking info up on these guys but everything was contradictory, depending where I got it from. Thanks for anyone who helps, and please - no comments on rats and snakes being "gross! eww!!!11oneone!!". They're really nice animals and beautiful creatures.
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I've taken care of a rat before. It probally needs a medium sized cage, with water and food. And maybe soem play toys (just make sure they are small enough they don't hog the cage and make sure there big enough so they don't swallow them whole). I would recomend the rat that "comes to you" ask the employees if you can hold some of them so you can see wich one you enjoy most. Make sure you hold them ocasionally because of you don't they might not get used to vbeing picked up and might bite you! When you buy your rat put him in his cage and leave him alone for a bit to let him/her adapt to their surroundings. If you want to get 2 make sure they are both female not 2 males (males don't usually get along) TRY not to get a boy and girl because if they mate they won't live very long after and plus you'd have lots of little bald things running around! GOOD LUCK!
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ok so you met this guy and you like fell in love with him and he liked you for awhile but he lives in a different city and you talk to him all the time and you see him occasionally but then he starts liking this other girl who is a slut and your still like in love w/ him and you cant get over him even though you have tried.and then you thought you were finally over him and then you saw him for a weekend and fell for him again and that is what happens everytime you see him. what do i do? (link)
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Well, my advice is to try to stay away from him much as possible. But if he keeps showing signs he loves you...then ask him out or something, MAKE IT THE BEST DAY (or night) OF HIS LIFE!
GOOD LUCK!
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Well, in my free time, i like to create routines for songs that I like. Well, I do hip rolls in a song, and my question is, why do my hips get so sore after im done doing them??? Its not the first time i have done them, I used to do them a lot, now all of a sudden they hurt a lot. Has this happened 2 any1 before or do any of you know what it is??? Much help is appreciated! (link)
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Hi!
Maybe the reason is your not taking enough breaks while your hip-rolling? My advice is just to take a break for at least a day or so...CHILL OUT! If your hips still hurt once you try "rollin" again, go to a doctor so he can check it out. GOOD LUCK!
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My mom was an alcoholic, everyday she would drink. DUring christmas even more, just because she hated using all of her money and was afraid we'd be moneyless after christmas. On 12/23 I came home from school, all happy because it was the last day and now I have a 2 week vacation, and I came home to my mom being drunker then hell! I was sick of it and I went upstairs because I didn't want to talk to her. About 2 hours later my dad got home and yelled me from upstairs ( I was sleeping ) .. he said that we had to go to the hospital because my mother had passed out.. she had overdosed on anti-depression pills and was drinking ALOT of alcohol at the same time. when we got to the hospital we waited about 30 minutes and they came out and told me my mom was dead. I can't stop thinking that this is all my fault, like if I would've stayed downstairs maybe I would've stopped her from OD. I've been to a psychiatrist about this, but nothing seems to be working. What should I do?? Thanks for any help in advance! (sorry its so long) (link)
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Hi.
Sorry 'bout your mom. Listen, it's not your fault that your mom died. So don't blame your self about it. Time will soon pass by and your mom will be in memmories.
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okay, my dentist said i might need to get a "screw-in" tooth, im only 14, and I have no idea what he was talking about, has anyone ever got one, or known anyone who got one? Did it hurt? What happened. THANKS (link)
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Hi!
I've had a screw-in before. Before they do ANYTHING to you, the dentist are SURE to tell you what they are going to do to you. I PROMISE! NO I WILL NOT HURT! trust me it didn't hurt me so it'll probally not hurt you. Avtually it'll help you
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I have this friend named Heidi, and shes a really fun girl to hang out with. I know she has a rough time at home because her brother and her are really close and when he does pot and crap she gets super mad and cries really bad because he soon before stopped. Her sister also drinks and she has to babysit for her 1 year old neice (sisters baby). By the way the sister is not married. Or w/ the boyfriend w/ the baby anymore. Um, yeah, anyways, i thought that backround info might help, but, she is such an energized person at school and to hang out with. very fun to hang out with. but sometiems most of the time she can be snotty. its her personality. she will be like your a bitch! and stuff as a 'joke' and she knows ALL the swear words possible.. cock sucker pussy licker, bitch, hoe, skank, etc. yeah, so shes realy good at comebacks. anyways, yeah, im the kind of person thats sorta dumb and stuff like slow on things, they call me a total dumb blonde and the most blonde i have is highlights bcuz im a brunette. anyways, yeah, she'll be like ERIN SUCKS shout that when i bowl like the other day, and then she'll randomly hit me and stuff like punch me and then she started hitting me HARD and it hurt im like what r u doing she goes IM BORED im like ummm ok... and the whoel time she was walking around in her tightest jeans and tighest shirt and she has a big butt big boobs shes pretty kinda and idk, she was walking around like she was the king of the world, queen i mean, and she was stickingher chest out and crap. it just annoys me so bad. and she'll make fun of me as a quote joke unquote and shell laff and im like no.... not funny that hurt. but i cant confront her w/ all the stuff she does because this other girl that did she got totally ditched by her and isnt friends w/ her. im in the popular crowd and part of me doesnt want to lose being in there because u know everyone wants to be in it. im in 8th grade by the way, and im sick of her pushing me around. i mean by "ignoring" herpunching me and crap, part of it is just letting her do it and push me aroudn more. idk. my screen name is takemeaway032 on aim. ill give you more info ifyou would like. thanks os muhc, please give advice!!!!! :-\ (link)
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Hi!
If you REALLY like this 'friend' of yours, it's probally best to stay away from her just for a little bit and hang out with a DIFFERENT friend. If her attitude raises up to a 7 from a scale from 1 to 10, maybe she shouldn't be your friend anymore? and one more thing...IF SHE OFFERS YOU BEER OR SMOKEING OR ANY THING LIKE THAT SAY NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I always look at myself and see how not pretty I am. I hate it. Then I look around at all my friends..why do they get to be automatically pretty? No makeup for some--but still not ugly. I have kind of chubby cheeks but not huge. I have dark blonde, almost brown-ish straight hair a little past my shoulders. I'm sort of tan, but not much. My eyes are hazel, mostly green. If I go out or to school, I wear eyeliner and that's it. I also have a little bit of a belly. I really think I'm not pretty. I've never had a boyfriend, and maybe that's why? Any ideas for makeup that's not too drastic, that will make my face look better? If you have ANYTHING..please tell me. (link)
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Hi!
You know what? You sound just like me. But I figured out that it's not what is on the OUTSIDE, it's what is on the INSIDE that counts. But if you want to wear makeup, GO AHEAD. But if you do make it look like you don't have ANY on. GOOD LUCK!
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all of a sudden i got this horrible pain right below my boobs, like and when i breath deeply it hurts even more, i've eaten like 3 cookies since i woke up. do u think its that? and what do u think it is. thanks \
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Hi.
I'm not a doctor but...maybe you should go visit one. Maybe the first day just REALAX and sip some coffee or tea, lay on the couch with a nice, WARM blanket watching some television or reading a book. If it doesn't feel better in the morning...go to the DOCTOR.
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