Hey sorry its kinda long guys if you can help go for it den and please dont judge me by this question and say something mean.. well okay um i'm wit this guy.. i've been wit him a while and have had sex wit him i love him wit all my heart and he means everything to me.. abd i enjoy bein wit him.. but when i have sex wit him its like i dont enjoy it or something.. but i love bein wit him.. and i don't wanna tell him like i don't like having sex wit you.. cause its not like that.. and he's not small or anything.. and he's the first guy i've had sex wit.. i dont know whats wrong wit me or if he's not doin it right or what which really i dont think its that.. i think its me.. so if you have any advice on like how i can enjoy it as much as he does let me know please.. and oh yea well he gives me oral i like that and thats like about it... so please help thanks BUNCHES!
mysticpixie05 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:45 pm: it may be just because it is your first couple of times that it is a little uncomfortable or that you are just feel a little weird about it yet. it will prolly get better the more you do it. if not then you have to tell him. dont just be like i dont like having sex with you becuase i dont get any thing outta it, but tell him to do something different to try and spice it up a bit. and if that works then tell him you like that much better and weould prefer it. that way it doesnt sound so bad to him. and just have him continue to eat you out. [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
sparklethenfade answered Sunday January 2 2005, 4:04 pm: Well if hes the first guy you've had sex with, you might still have the feeling of it being a little weird or you might feel uncomfortable, maybe if you continue to have sex him and get use to it, it might change, but it really depends on your feelings about it.
Hope this helps, and best of luck
-Kelly [ sparklethenfade's advice column | Ask sparklethenfade A Question ]
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