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Age: 16
Member Since: January 1, 2005
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Last Update: January 9, 2005
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there was this girl that was pretty attractive sitting by me at the movies the other day and she goes to my school and i dont really know but ne way every time something scary popped up during she would grab my arm. So what do you think i should do. Do you think i should try to get to know her better or was it just nothing and i should forget about?

Are you kidding? She was scared and it was a reaction, of being scared. I could be wrong, but I don't think there was a emotional force between her grabbing your arm because she was scared. If you like her, then get to know her. It's that simple.
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-Kelly/sparklethenfade

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I hate school so much! Like its crazy how much i hate it. So does anybody have some advice on how i can enjoy it more? Or at least get some kind of motivation to do my work. Its not really school i hate, its just the work part of it. Please help, thanks.

Well I don't think anybody really likes the work. I know I do not, but if you aspire to go to college, You just have to suck it up, and do it..unfortantly. What the youth of america does not understand is that the education system is FREE EDUCATION. The media likes to tell us that, but in all honesty our parents have to pay taxes on it. But I am sorry, unless you have in mind what high paying job you are going to get, then drop out, get your GED later, and go in the work force or join the army.
Tell all your friends about me.
-kelly aka Sparklethenfade

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Hey sorry its kinda long guys if you can help go for it den and please dont judge me by this question and say something mean.. well okay um i'm wit this guy.. i've been wit him a while and have had sex wit him i love him wit all my heart and he means everything to me.. abd i enjoy bein wit him.. but when i have sex wit him its like i dont enjoy it or something.. but i love bein wit him.. and i don't wanna tell him like i don't like having sex wit you.. cause its not like that.. and he's not small or anything.. and he's the first guy i've had sex wit.. i dont know whats wrong wit me or if he's not doin it right or what which really i dont think its that.. i think its me.. so if you have any advice on like how i can enjoy it as much as he does let me know please.. and oh yea well he gives me oral i like that and thats like about it... so please help thanks BUNCHES!

Well if hes the first guy you've had sex with, you might still have the feeling of it being a little weird or you might feel uncomfortable, maybe if you continue to have sex him and get use to it, it might change, but it really depends on your feelings about it.
Hope this helps, and best of luck
-Kelly

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Ok I have been suicidal for a while, and haven't had an episode for about a month... I have scars on my stomach and arms.. but I can't stop thinking I need more cuts... I have had alot of stuff going on lately... what should I do, should I tell someone! I just don't wanna go to a mental hospital! thanks I'll rate high

Yes talk to someone. Please. You need some help, but talk to someone you trust. Your in the right mind set right now, because you want help, I say your going down the right road about wanting help, just ASK now!
hope this help.
-Kelly

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ok well next year i want to do track or croscountry are there any ways i can get fast but not make my muscles really big on my leg but i want them to ghet thinner and pleaze do not delete this question i really need advice....thanks
jess

Try to go for a run, don't think miles, think time. Start off with a run for 5 minutes, and gradually increase the time, you will be in running shape in no time. But you also what to think distance, because Cross country is distance. So start with a mile, and increase. Hope this helps. -Kelly

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ok i have dark circles uner my eyes... i get a enough sleep but i still have them... ive tried concealer and foundation n crap but it gets so annoying because it comes off throughout the day and i hate reapplying... anyone know any way to get rid of dark circles for long periods of time? i rate high =)

I would try drinking more water and eating more protein your diet.
Hope this helps.
-Kelly

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that is the website... what is it called? and how do i do a lunge

I'm not exactly sure of the website, but I'm sure you can check a search engine and type "weight and height chart" or something the along the lines. As for Lunges, If I try to explain it, you will be confused, but I know you have done them before, basically if you ask your parents or a friend, they might be able to tell you.
Hope this helps.
-Kelly

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I want to workout my legs. i have no idea how though. im not even sure how to do squats right. pleez help! ( i also want ot kno a website that tells you if u are underweight/overweight... i used to have it but i lost it)

Lunges help with the legs. And if you run, it burns tons of calories. I think the website you might be looking for is that it gives a height, and a specific weight you should be at. Personally, if you just want to work out the legs, then your like the rest of us, we all want to perfect anything that makes us all unhappy. But if its your legs? Your doing good.
-Kelly

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i have little acne break outs from time to time, and i was wondering if any one knew anything over the counter to use to get rid of it and some of the scars from it? i will rate 5's~!

What you need is to see a Dermatologist. That is your best bet. Over the counter drugs are risky, you don't know if there right for you. Dermatologist can help with the healing of acne and the scars that you have. And if you are scared about the current pills that are used for acne today, such as accutane, they have many other treatments that can heal the scars and clear the acne.
This should help you.
-Kelly

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Hey, i am monkeygirl friend. I am not sure what to do. Cause i have this ex boyfriend and he hits me. He tells me that it won't happened again, but over the 4 years that i dated him it just got worst. And know i got myself more in to it. He has kids and everytime he gets bored with with the other he comes back to me. I hope that some one can help me. Michy

I'm sorry that you are a victim of abuse. You are not the one to blame, and don't even think that. and If you continue to see him now that you are broken up, you can never know what this man will still do. You need to talk to someone you trust, and FAST. This man has a problem and you are never the one who is in fault. What you really should consider is to cut off any communications with him, and you need to talk to someone you trust about this. Hope I could help. -Kelly

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