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ok so you met this guy and you like fell in love with him and he liked you for awhile but he lives in a different city and you talk to him all the time and you see him occasionally but then he starts liking this other girl who is a slut and your still like in love w/ him and you cant get over him even though you have tried.and then you thought you were finally over him and then you saw him for a weekend and fell for him again and that is what happens everytime you see him. what do i do?
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This is what happens everytime we fall in love =/ It's hard to get over a boy that you truly liked, very hard. But the best I could tell you is to find another guy because when you do, he will bee OFF your mind completely cause this new guy will be sooo much greater and soo much better. And if this girl is a slut, they won't be together for too long and when they aren't together go for your chance!
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shut him out of your mind.. if he starts liking another girl he aint worth your time full stop! dont see him ever again.. tell him you dont want to know him :P then you are free to forget about him.. also try and find another guy a "Rebound Guy" and just use him till your over the other guy.. although youll lose respect.. im a guy so you know... i have done this once or twice but i dunno if gals do it :P but good luck
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Well, if you met him and he fell inlove with the sluttiest slut around, then you fell for him again, that obviously means you have uncontrollable feelings about him. Trust me, I would know. You are not alone in your situation. I get hundreds of emails a daysaying similar questions to the one you have asked. Perfectly normal, girl. All you have to do is tell him the truth or does he know? If not, let him know. If so, tell him again. This is the advice that was given to me by everyone I knew. Tell him how long you've liked him and if you're lucky, you'll go out with him. Or do some prank on this slut and TRY to break them up and if it doesn't work, try to steal him. I'm a naughty girl. LOL. I do pranks and crap in order to get him to like me. No biggie. Your situation? EASY! Just sit back, relax, and let her have it!!! Write me with updates!!! Soon!
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Tell him that you've fallen for him, and it upsets you to know that he likes another girl (don't mention she's a slut, he might get mad). See what he says, and if things don't work out, try hanging around other guys, because that'll get your mind off of him. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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First of all- does he know that you're fallin' for him? If he doesn't, go ahead and tell him!
He could be secretly in love with you, and you don't know it. If so, (if you can drive,) go and see him. If not, catch a ride to meet him somewhere in the middle, and just talk. Tell him how you feel about his slutty g/f, and if he really doesn't like you, try and get a hobby or flirt w/ other boys, try and get your mind offa him; no boy is worth going crazy for. (who knows... you might make him jealous;)
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Why are you still seeing him? He likes another girl, and just seeing him hurts you. Stop seeing him, and find another guy, unless this one starts to like you again, then give him another chance.=)
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Well, my advice is to try to stay away from him much as possible. But if he keeps showing signs he loves you...then ask him out or something, MAKE IT THE BEST DAY (or night) OF HIS LIFE!
GOOD LUCK!
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I cannot tell you how to handle this situation. However, I would advise you to talk to him and ask him how he feels about your situation. Then you will have an idea about how he views the whole thing. It is very common to have feelings ONLY when you see him. Is this simply a physical infacuation? Ask yourself this question. It is very important to distinguish a real connection from a physical one.
Best of luck.
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Well um tell him how you feel first off.. i mean you cant tell somebody how to get over somebody.. if i had the answer to that i would of told everybody by now.. but like talk to him.. or you can try to move on which i dont think you wanna do that im sure.. but im sorry if i didnt help much tried my best...~*DEZ*~
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There are two ways to do this, 1) try not or never to see this guy then you will stop thinking about him 2) When you see him pretend to not seen interested and just think about something else
I hope this works
~soccrchick~
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i would say try and find some guys closer to you because chances are hes not gunna wanna go out with a girl who loves far away and he doesn't see often. It would probably hurt him too much because he prolly liked you a lot bu figured he shud go out wit someone near him so he doesn't get hurt with hyou cuz he knows he can't see you often but he wants to. If for some reason he breaks up with this girl who is a slut, you could try to be friendly with him andbring up the idea of going out..if he doesn't seem excited about it then after that i'd say try and find some guys close to you. Hope this helped
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do whatever you can to get him back. if you think you are really in love w/ him... give it all you got, DO NOT try to get over him if you think u could be with him for a long time. Try to visit him as often as you can to remind him how good for him you are.
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