Name: Molly
Age: 13
Location: Texas
About her: Well there isn't much to say about me. I love helping people out. You guys can ask me anything! Anything you want! I've been through it all: love, suicide, heartbreaks, deaths, family issues, friendships, self issues, eating disorders, anything. If you want to ask and know more about me then IM me (I have AIM) on WTFman its molly. Or you can email me at x0_taint3d_l0ve@yahoo.com
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E-mail: x0_taint3d_l0ve@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
AIM: WTFman its molly
Member Since: January 3, 2005
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im a cutter. i have scars all up and down my arm. only 2 people know about it. but every time i see my boyfriend i have to cover it up, and make sum sort of excuse. i HATE lying to him! i feel like i should tell him, but i dont want him to think im crazy and dump me! but like.. i cant stop cutting. its always been my way of calming myself down... (link)
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Cutting doesn't calm ANYONE down. It hurts you so bad and it hurts everyone around you. If your boyfriend would call you crazy if he found out he's doing it because he cares, think about it I mean he would be alll "oh big whoop you cut yourself." Please talk to someone about this before you go very deep to the point you cut your veins and you die. And who knows, maybe he could help you if you told him because I'm sure he loves you with all of his heart. Seriously, cutting doesn't help what so ever. I don't know why you think that =/ Do you think scarring yourself and making yourself bleed and hurting yourself and people that lovee you feels good? It doesn't. I hope you make the right choice and I think you should tell your boyfriend.
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ok so you met this guy and you like fell in love with him and he liked you for awhile but he lives in a different city and you talk to him all the time and you see him occasionally but then he starts liking this other girl who is a slut and your still like in love w/ him and you cant get over him even though you have tried.and then you thought you were finally over him and then you saw him for a weekend and fell for him again and that is what happens everytime you see him. what do i do? (link)
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This is what happens everytime we fall in love =/ It's hard to get over a boy that you truly liked, very hard. But the best I could tell you is to find another guy because when you do, he will bee OFF your mind completely cause this new guy will be sooo much greater and soo much better. And if this girl is a slut, they won't be together for too long and when they aren't together go for your chance!
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These past 2 years i've been feeling really depressed and its reflecting the way i act towards people now. I feel as if i can't trust anyone, and unpleasant things have been going on. Since 6th grade i've been cutting (im in 8th now). And now, It's like i always want to,and i cant stop, but its gotten to the point to where i dont even know it. I cant concentrate because i've lost most of my friends, and the 2 friends i have now act like they dont even want to be around me. All this anger is built inside of me, and i have no one to talk to about it and so i take it out on myself because i feel like its my fault even though it may not be. Im losing almost everything, and i always feel like my friends talk about me behind my back. I want help, but i want help from people who understand me, and who actually want to listen and care about me, but it seems none of my friends can really fill those needs. (link)
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Obviously, you're going through alot of pain. I bet at some point you think God hates you, well the reason all this pain is to make YOU a stronger person. That might sound gay but it's true. If you cut yourself it's not relieving any pain and it won't help but hurt others around you. And you've probably lost all your friends because they don't want to be around you when you're cutting. And your family isn't caring cause they don't know how to help you and no matter what kind of professional help you get, no one can truly help you but yourself. Seriously think about it. You seem like you are such a bright person and don't throw away your life by cutting yourself! People out there really love you and care about you. Trust me.
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Hey, I feel really stupid asking this question..But I have been having a hard time trying not to cut myself. I've been trying to find other ways to cop with it and I picked a bad way to to it by taking pills. Does anyone out there know any ways to deal with it? Is there somthing I can do to take it off my mind?? I'm already seeing a theripst and it doesnt help it all. If there is any advice u can give me I would really appreicate it! -Jenny (link)
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Cutting won't help at all. I don't know what's your life story or why you do it but I know you have a whoooooole life ahead of you. Cutting just hurts yourself and hurts yourself inside. It doesn't take pain away it doesn't help at all. I'm sure you are such a doll and everyone loves you but think, what if you went to far deep day and you actually DIED. Realize that you only have one life to live and look at the people that love you. And pills won't help either. Just don't cut! It doesn't solve ANYTHING and it deffinietly doesn't take pain away.
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My mom was an alcoholic, everyday she would drink. DUring christmas even more, just because she hated using all of her money and was afraid we'd be moneyless after christmas. On 12/23 I came home from school, all happy because it was the last day and now I have a 2 week vacation, and I came home to my mom being drunker then hell! I was sick of it and I went upstairs because I didn't want to talk to her. About 2 hours later my dad got home and yelled me from upstairs ( I was sleeping ) .. he said that we had to go to the hospital because my mother had passed out.. she had overdosed on anti-depression pills and was drinking ALOT of alcohol at the same time. when we got to the hospital we waited about 30 minutes and they came out and told me my mom was dead. I can't stop thinking that this is all my fault, like if I would've stayed downstairs maybe I would've stopped her from OD. I've been to a psychiatrist about this, but nothing seems to be working. What should I do?? Thanks for any help in advance! (sorry its so long) (link)
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Oh my god, I am sooooooooo sorry. Your mom should have checked herself into a rehab =/ And this is NOT your fault. I know you're thinking "what if what if" but this isn't your fault sweetie. And look on the bright side, your mom is watching over you and she is watching out for you and she is looking at what a wonderful daughter you are. Just don't think this is your fault. Your mom is not with you physically but she is there for you mentally and spiritually.
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Im 5'4 and I weigh 115 lbs. Im going to be in 11th grade this year so im 16 yrs old. I cant help to think im fat. Im not trying to be annoying but its so true. I stress my self about it EVERYDAY! My friends tell me "im so skinny, I have a tiny waist and big boobs " thats them talking. I want to believe them I just cant I look in the mirror and see disgust, Hatful FAT! I want to just accept my body. How can I feel better about myself? Please Ill take any advise. Its just been giong on for so long and Im tierd of worring day in and day out! I have other things to worry about like helping my mom with her boyfriend But thats a whole other story. (link)
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You're 16...11th grade....115 lbs. and you think you're fat?! I don't know what kind of mirror you are looking in but you're soooooo wrong. I'm sure you are GORGEOUS and don't think you're fat! You probably think you're fat cause you have a fear of getting fat. Just take care of yourself, watch what you eat, and work out! Trust me, you are not fat, don't think that about yourself!
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last nite, the guy i like (lets call him bob) asked me if i liked him... im starting to get over him, but i still like him. bob is a sophmore and im a freshman but we are good friends that get along great. i know bob doesnt like me becuz i asked him who he likes... (its sum girl who alredi has a bf) i kind of want to try to get bob to like me even tho i know he doesnt. last nite wen he asked me if i liked him, i said no... i was wondering if i made the rite decision because, now i know bob wont like me becuz he thinks i dont like him... but i dont rele want to tell him i like him because i dont want things to change between us... WHAT SHOULD I DO??
-- confused girl w/ a 1-way crush (link)
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Tell him you like him! Maybe he will realize that he really likes you, and don't be scared! Fear and Love is a great mix, but change that mix for you and show him you love him! And you know what, maybe he said that he likes this other chick cause he likes you and he even bothered to ask you if you like him! So, maybe he does like you. Don't give up and keep trying and remember, tell him how you feel about him!
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ok i cant handle being told "I love you" by anyone or like people that just say luv ya chick bye bye because i know theyre lying i mean i always think theyre lying or if someone tells me im beautiful i automatically think theyre lying and i dont know why and everytime guys ask me out i say no because i dont want them to like me or love me or w/e and i dont know why whats wrong with me btw im 14/f if that does anything helpful but im so confused why cant i handle it (link)
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I love you is three hurtful words. They can be amazing words too. And there is NOTHING wrong with you! And you think people are lying when they tell you I love you or you're beautiful cause you're paranoid and the cause of this paranoia is because you want love. And becareful what guy you go out with, and look sweets, you're 14 you won't be in "love" for a lllllong time. I'm sure you're a great and amazing person, but don't be so hard on yourself. You're scared of falling love cause we all know you get hurt in the end but don't be scared. Put effort in yourself and before you let a guy tell you they love you or you're beautiful think about that guy and take a look at his heart.
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Pardon me for sounding emo. I really can't stand myself. I make bad choices, I am a terrible friend, and some of the things I say--that I hardly ever mean--really hurt people. Sometimes I can't even stand to look at myself in the mirror. My family doesn't seem to like me either. I don't have many friends. The only ones I have are jerks--but I don't feel like I have a right to get mad at them. It's what I deserve. I feel so guilty, but I can't think of anything that I have done wrong... But everything I do seems to be wrong, and I am always getting punished for things that I can't help. I am a terrible person. (link)
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Look, your mind wants you to think you can't stand yourself and you are a bad person, but if you really set your heart to it and you think about it, everyone makes mistakes. No one is perfect, no one at all! Your family is always supposed to be there to you and in some homes family hates you. I don't know if your family hates you but maybe you should spend more time with your family and try to work things out. And your jerk friends, you should ditch. Friends have a great impact on you and maybe those friends of yours are truly your friends. Look at yourself in the mirror, and take a good hard look at the person you are. It seems to me that you want to change yourself, but you can't. You need to get new friends, talk to your family and be careful what you say. Words mean something and are hurtful. You're not a horrible person, you're just trying to fight yourself to become a better person. Keep fighting and don't give up!
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