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is there something wrong with me?
ok i cant handle being told "I love you" by anyone or like people that just say luv ya chick bye bye because i know theyre lying i mean i always think theyre lying or if someone tells me im beautiful i automatically think theyre lying and i dont know why and everytime guys ask me out i say no because i dont want them to like me or love me or w/e and i dont know why whats wrong with me btw im 14/f if that does anything helpful but im so confused why cant i handle it
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I can see what you're saying, and its normal, I can understand why you'd think they don't really love you when they say Love ya lotzzzXOXO blah blah. But I kind of think its a sign that someone obviously takes some interest in you if they ask you out, but its alright, there nothing wrong with you, I'm thinking that maybe you had a past where you loved someone and you knew and felt they loved you, and they left you, because thats kind of what happens after break ups or people you love walking out on you, you just wanna stop loving people and you want people to stop loving you so you won't have to deal with the thought of loving them back. But if you don't have a past, then maybe its just a phase that will mellow out maybe if you take that chance of love. Thats what life and love (especially) is about, taking chances and risks, you'll put yourself out there.
-TheTeenGirl
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I love you is three hurtful words. They can be amazing words too. And there is NOTHING wrong with you! And you think people are lying when they tell you I love you or you're beautiful cause you're paranoid and the cause of this paranoia is because you want love. And becareful what guy you go out with, and look sweets, you're 14 you won't be in "love" for a lllllong time. I'm sure you're a great and amazing person, but don't be so hard on yourself. You're scared of falling love cause we all know you get hurt in the end but don't be scared. Put effort in yourself and before you let a guy tell you they love you or you're beautiful think about that guy and take a look at his heart.
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Same here, I hate guys, or so I think...well, guys can be like that some times so i just ignore it. My parents say that's natural for a growing girl like me and that I'll eventually grow out of it. Don't let it get to you so much.
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well thats natural to think that most guys when they say "i love you" dont mean anything by it...but im sure youll start to develope feelings as you get older just give it time...
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no theres nothing wrong with that at all, when guys tell me they love me it makes me no uneasy and sometimes i dont know what to say, and i kno alot of girls sey it it jus to sey it u know? well yah it buggs me too. so yea nothing is wrong at all
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That's how I am too...
And if people tell me I'm beautiful or they like my smile or hair or something I always have to find SOMETHING wrong with me to prove thiem wrong...and I can't just take a compliment. (which sucks...and I hate it but it's how I am)...
And that's partly why I broke up with my boyfriend Brian because I was afraid to get too close to anyone...and he told me he loves me still (now that were broken up)...but I don't know what I'm going to do about myself because if I broke up with Brian because of that reason whose to say that I won't do that with other guys?
I don't know how to answer this question seeing how I'm the same way...but next guy who asks you out and you find an interest in...give him a chance and get to know him. I know that's what you're scared about...but I'm almost 15 and I'm the same way.
All I can say is take compliments as they come and just smile and say thank you and then if you feel comfortable enough after they compliment you, compliment them because it may make you feel a little better.
Trust me though...I'm just like you.
Next boy that comes your way who likes you...give him a chance if you feel comfortable.
Hope I helped.
*-_Gessyka_-*
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hey pal, im 16. and i feel the same way, and i do the same thing. its all about trust. we have no trust. theres nothing wrong with you. your just the type of person who will end up dating a long time friend, because youve built trust with that person. it sounds to me like you must have been hurt somehow in life. maybe not necesarily by a bf but just in general. i hope it gets better as we go through life, but im not saying it will. just dont stress over it cause youll still find love and companionship and all that good stuff. it just may take a little time and patience. but hey..im right here with ya.
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well just becuase they say luv ya or i love you doesn't mean they like you know love you like wanta marry you or something they just love you as a friend orl ike a sister. and if a guy asks you out it means hey like you. like they have a little crush. but maybe your just the kind ofperson that wants to wait for that right guy that you wanta spend the rest of your life with.
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