My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
Answers: 385
Last Update: February 27, 2005
Visitors: 16675
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What do you mean by buy one of what? (link)
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??? im lost
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anyone who knew me in eighth grade would say that i was happy with who i was just in general a happy person...but thats only because i never was myself around them and i felt that i had to be someone that i wasnt just so that they would be my friends...they dont know who really am...
now i am in ninth grade and i am sick and tired of being something that im not...ive started to drift away from my friends because of this but i dont want to lose them...
im a fourteen year old guy and im gay (in the closet)...even though i never show it i am really depressed, and i cut, smoke, and drink to "heal the pain" (no one knows that i do these things)...the problems that i am having in my life arent important for you to answer my question, i just want to know how i can be myself with my friends without losing them
sincerely,
suicide on my mind
p.s. you were best friends with a friend of mine before you switched schools, but you are still very close to her now (oh and you and i have met before) (link)
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Will you i/m me please? I'm serious..I want to help you out, and I wont tell my friend about it if you don't want me to. The truth is, I think I have an idea of who you are, and I'm an incredibly trustworthy person and want to help you. Maybe I can definitely relate to what you're going through..so please give me a chance... I know how you feel..and what you're going through. And I cut myself too. =/
Please i/m me as soon as you see this..Im usually always online unless I'm kicked off.
infinityo0o
thats my sn (third one is a zero) please i/m me, and I'll help you out.
Please. You can trust me
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okay, so "my friends" birthday is coming up and she promised herself when she was 9 that when she turned 16 shes gonna commit suicide. i dont no what to do. please give me some advice that i can tell her to stop her before its too late.
-birthday girl (link)
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Has she talked about it ever since she was nine? You have to talk to her about it and if she says she's gonna go through with it...you have to tell someone. Even if you're not 100% completely sure if she's bluffing ot not...you need to tell someone. You'll regret it if you dont and she ends up really going through with it.
So..talk to her..and then tell someone.
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I am going out w. this guy that i only like as a friend. I like this other guy a lot! But that other guy doesn't really like me like only as a friend. I don't know if i should brake up with the guy i'm with to be with the other guy
(even though he isn't ready to have a girl friend) or should i stay together with that guy.
Sincerely,
lost in which love (link)
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Well I mean you dont NEED a boyfriend currently in your life ya know? If I were you and I didn't have feelings for this kid I were going out with anymore, I'd break up with him. Not in a mean way but I mean...you might as well not go out with each other if you only think of him as a friend. Ask him if you guys can still be friends but just tell him that you don't feel much in the 'romance department'.
And..as for that other guy, if he's not ready to be in a relationshiip now you should respect that (not that you arent)... I mean ultimately, its all your choice but just think about how it will effect others around you too.
Hope I helped.
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i was a week late on period, i took several pregancy test that came back negative. the last one i took came back positivebut the next day i started bleeding, is there a chance that i am or was the test possibly wrong? (link)
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Well I mean, if you had your period you can't be pregnant. So...either you had your period, or you're bleeding for another reason.
If it doesn't seem like your period then you have to go to the doctors to make sure you're okay..
Hope I helped.
-me__
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ok well i have a friend but lately shes been pissing me off... last year she made out with this guy and all they did was kiss but she went around telling people that he fingered her... then this year she hooked up with him again but she says she doesnt like him anymore... she still like makes out with him and i guess its like the "friends with benefits" sort of thing but i get so mad at her because i know the only reason shes doing it is to be "experienced" so she thinks shell be cool... then she tells me not to tell anyone but she like advertises it all over her live journal thing... the rest of the people that know are annoyed by it too and i dont want to talk to her because everytime i talk to her about anything negative she takes it way to personally and gets all mad... help!
-i rate 5s for good answers (link)
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The best thing you could do is tell her your opinion on this. If she doesn't listen...then this may sound cruel but, let her dig her own hole..and let her get out herself. She knows what she's doing...so just let it happen, let her make her own choices and all you could do is stay away and stay out of it.
Hope I helped. =)
-Gessyka-
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My school is doing Aresnic and Old Lace, and I am playing Elaine. We will be doing some "stage-kissing" and I don't know what they mean by that. Could someone explain this technique? (link)
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The only way you would know is to talk to them about it...they may have a particular technique in mind so ask them about it...that really all I can say.
Hope I helped =)
_gessyka__
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well.. hi.. i'm a 16/f and i like a guy same age as me... he doesn't know that i like him but i'v been trying to give him a few hint b4 and he doesn't seem to understand... but the main problem is, he always seem to care for me very much like whenever i needed him to accompany me no matter where to, he'll alwiz be there 4 me.. all my school frnz start to spread the rumours tat we dates each other and when i asked him bout it he jus dosn't seem to mind... does that shows that h's intersted in me too?? is there anymore more powerful hint tat i can use to show him that i love him or should i jus tell him directly tat i love him... please give me some advice..... (link)
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I think it would be a little intense if you told him you loved him right away...unless you were both exclsuive when it comes to dating. Because, even though he doesn't seem to care that there are rumors floating around that you are both going out, you don't know how he would take it if you told him right now if you loved him. Ultimately, it's up to you. I'm thinking, maybe you could ask him if he wants to hang out like..maybe a date or something sometime. Then you could see where it goes from there and tell him whatever you feel comfortable telling him when you're ready.
I hope I helped.
*hug*
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theres this girl that has been following me around since 7th grade she never talks or when she can you can't hear her.I dont like feeling like I have a shodow its emberassing when I talk to people and they try and talk to her but she just wont talk. Its the most annoying feeling so thats why i dont even enjoy lunch anymore id rather go to my next class. even if i say to someone "i need to tell you something in private" and walk away she still follows me. Shes the shyest person EVER and i would feel bad hurting her feelings. BUT I CANT TAKE IT ANY LONGER. pleaseee help i'll rate 5's
thanks (link)
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You may not just want to "try to be nice", because you should really talk to her. I'm sure she'll talk to you if you talk to her. (whether you could hear her or not)
To make her comfortable you have to speak to her and ask her questions. Don't just ignore her and talk to her every once in a while. Introduce her to more people because she'll become more comfortable. And when she waits with you by the door and stuff, so you're not jusut both standing there, ask her some questions and just talk to her...
I'm like that in my school too. I mean I'm like REALLY quiet...and don't ever make fun of that girl (not saying that you do) but just be like..."well why dont you try talking to her." if someone asks you why she doesn't talk.
I'm like that too though...for real. Like at home I'm loud and crazy but in school I'm just...not myself. And it's hard to be outgoing.
She probably has social anxiety disorder which isn't that eay to get over..I know because I have it. Or maybe she's had a traumatic experience which is why she is so quiet.
But seriously, take the initiative to talk to her. I'm totally not kidding. It would help her out in the long run adn make things better for you too.
Oh, I have an idea...write her a note in the class where she sits next to you...and just say whatever in the note. You'll be passing notes and then you could just bring it up (not in a mean way) but why shes so quiet. Don't ask her "why dont you talk?" because she wouldn't like that..I know. Just be like "hey (then put her name) why are you so quiet/shy?"
Then you'll get to the bottom of this and have a better understanding of it...seriously though you should do that.
_-*Me*-_
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I love to masturbate, I can't stop, and I don't know what to do..should I try stopping? Is it okay to be "turned on" all the time? At least twice a day...im 16 (link)
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damn girl...it's better then actually being with a person and doing those things. It can't hurt.
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Hey sorry but does anyone have...I dont really knwo how to explain it...but you know how people have buddy profiles and all? Well I had this "abou me" section in one of mine but it got erased and I got it from a friend who doesnt haev it anymore...and I was wondering if any of you haev an "about me" section where you fill in what you're name is...and your birthday and fave things are and what can you live with and cant live without. Im sorry this is really confusing but if any of you have what Im talking about then can you please send it to me because I really want to put it in my profile...
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I know what you mean...but no sorry, dont know how to get to it.
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I am 19 years old and have been seeing a girl for 2 and a half years. We recently broke up over christmas but have still been seeing each other because we get on really well as friends. I put my cards on the table so to speak and told her how i feel that i still love her and i want her back. She replied im still in love with you but i dont want to be in a relationship at the moment. When we see each other i keep on saying to her that i will get her back and she agrees with me she says we need time apart. Which i am willing to do if it means i get another chance becasue i really do care about her so much. The only thing i am scared of is there is another lad on the scene whos she assures me they are not seeing each other and just friends which i beleve, but im scared that when we are having our time apart she ends up having feelings for this lad and i wont get her back at all. What is the best way to go about trying to get her back? (link)
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Just wait...for a little. It'll be difficult, but if you feel you've REALLY waited long enough, than move on...because she wouldn't be worth it if she made you wait that long anyway.
Good Luck.
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okay. i'm 13 and of course female.
well, i just meet this really great guy. hes funny, nice, cute. Everything. we've talked and stuff. but i want to hint him that i like him, with out throwing myself to him or just being goofy! How do i hint to him that i like him? (link)
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If you guys are that comfortable with eachother you should tell him when its the best time. Because other than flirting all you could really do to show is is to play with his hands a lot (not like too much), or to hug him or kiss him but I know you're probably thinking that's too much...and maybe it is. If he doesn't realize that you like him then you should let him know sometime...if you're comfortable.
Hope I helped.
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My favorite pants have a hole in the crotch and the fabric is worn thin around the seam. How can i fix the hole without sewing. I have tried duct tape and safety pins already. Do you have any ideas? (link)
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I hate to say this but...your pants are screwed.
Sorry =/
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So Im really starting to develop a thing for a friend of mine, but it gets even worse than that. Im 18m shes 15f its not a huge difference but still. She also has a boyfriend putting me in an even tougher situation. Im also pretty sure she doesnt even think of me in anykind of romantic sense, even if she didnt have a bf. I really dont know what kind of advice to even ask for mostly im jsut venting and seeing what kind of comments/advice im gonna get. (link)
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Holy crap some people were really putting you down. I don't think you're a bad person for liking a girl younger than you...because it's really not a big age difference. You will have to wait until she is older...an adult. Unless you WANT TO face statutory rape charges.
But, even if she didn't have a boyfriend and she liked you back, you should definitely wait until she's 18. That will show you respect her enough. If you stop liking her by that time, then you've moved on...but if you don't then you're free to date her as long as she's not a minor.
Good luck with that.
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theres this girl i wanna have sex with so much how do i get to have sex with her or have her wanna have sex with me? (link)
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Ahem...oh you're serious? You want to have sex with her, she wants to have sex with him, he wants to have sex with someone else...it's all a chain really. Ten to one, you're not getting her...unless you respect her. And you have to be in love but no I dont think you care so Ill just stop wasting my breath.
Goodbye.
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i'm in 8th grade and i liked this guy since like.. grade 5 or 6.. sumwhere there.. i was pretty stupid then.. i'd do these stupid pranks on him and i feel really shitty about it and all.. hes acts like a shithead to me and i no that thats my fault but i wanna know wut i can do about it now.. i can't seem to get over him but i want him and me to be friends again.. i cud tell him i'm sorry or w/e but he seems like a really. uh... u no.. like unforgiving kinda guy or w/e i'm totally freaking out! plz help! thx (link)
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Just teall him "Look, it was in 5th and 6th grade that these things happened and we're almost in high school so please just forget anything bad taht happened, because we both know how immature people were in 5th and 6th grade."
Or something like that. Hey...if ya wanna be friends with him ya wanna be friends with him...and the only way he's gonna know is if you let him know somehow. I know you don't want to like beg him to be your friend or anything because that would be kind of freaky. But telling him that you want to be friends isn't freaky at all. Talk to him about it nonchalantly...let him know how you feel and act nice to him.
Hope I helped.
Good Luck.
~*~Gessyka~*~
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I have bumps on my pubic area. Not alot but alittle.
when i pop them puss comes out is this normal is something wrong with me. (link)
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Do you shave down there? If so probably razor burn.
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ok, i'm 19/female. my best friend(steve) died in march. the night before he did we admitted to each other that we were in love with each other and had been for years. it was the happiest day of my life. all i had to do was break up with my man. the next morning, steve was found dead at a nearby park. the police still dont know if it was suicide or if he was killed, but anyways. that death destoryed my whole life, took my heart right down in the grave with him. then i met neil, and i still love steve, i always will... but i connect with neil, and i see things in neil that i saw with steve. i think that steve sent neil to me to make sure im ok. well.. neil was on probation, and broke it by leaving the county, and now is facing a 1-3 yr sentence. i dont know what to do. i cant lose both of them. please help.
desperate (link)
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Don't listen to that CarltheCatguy. He's an asshole.
Well..why was neil I'm probation.
I'm so sorry about steve and maybe you are right (about steve sending you neil)...
There's nothing you can do. But hope it all works out.
I'm sorry...don't worry it will be okay. =/ *hugs*
-Gessyka
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What are the signs that let you know that you ARE ready to have sex for the first time? (link)
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Hmm...what's that thing called...it's uh...yeah itas circle and I think it fits on your...finger?
But that's just my opinion^
Hey...you could always get married young. *shrugs*
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