Question Posted Wednesday February 9 2005, 4:24 pm
I am going out w. this guy that i only like as a friend. I like this other guy a lot! But that other guy doesn't really like me like only as a friend. I don't know if i should brake up with the guy i'm with to be with the other guy
(even though he isn't ready to have a girl friend) or should i stay together with that guy.
Sincerely,
lost in which love
Additional info, added Wednesday February 9 2005, 6:18 pm: Okay what I am saying is that there is this guy named Justin which I am going out with him. And there is this other guy that I like named Michael. Well, Michael doesn't like me, only as a friend. But I am going out with Justin and he likes me alot but i don't like him. Should I stay together with Justin(even though I don't like him) or should I brake up to try and get togehter with Michael(even though he doesn't like me ?). Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Here-To-Help answered Wednesday February 9 2005, 5:00 pm: Well I mean you dont NEED a boyfriend currently in your life ya know? If I were you and I didn't have feelings for this kid I were going out with anymore, I'd break up with him. Not in a mean way but I mean...you might as well not go out with each other if you only think of him as a friend. Ask him if you guys can still be friends but just tell him that you don't feel much in the 'romance department'.
And..as for that other guy, if he's not ready to be in a relationshiip now you should respect that (not that you arent)... I mean ultimately, its all your choice but just think about how it will effect others around you too.
jbdreamer answered Wednesday February 9 2005, 4:30 pm: I think you should break up with your current boyfriend regardless. You only like him as a friend, not a boyfriend. That's not fair to either of you. As for the other guy, if he is not ready for a girlfriend nor likes you in that way, then why even persue him? [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
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