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Question Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:27 pm

What are the signs that let you know that you ARE ready to have sex for the first time?

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fluffy answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:49 pm:
ther r no sighns your conchus should tell u if u r ready or not

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metalkat86 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 5:40 am:
biggest one in the world is this:
YOU AND YOUR LOVE ARE BOTH 18 OR OVER. if he is and you aren't, he could get charged with rape, even if you consented. think twice, please!! hope i helped,
Kat

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sturkiee answered Monday January 3 2005, 12:14 am:
when your b/f sticks his dick in you and you have sex?

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jesuschick answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:11 pm:
When you're married. It probably wasn't the answer you wanted to hear, but it's true. I mean when your married, you know the other person is committed & not using you for sex & is really in love with you!! Respect your body and just wait... it's hard but totally worth it!! xoxo*Jesuschick

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CaitLynnG answered Saturday January 1 2005, 3:18 pm:
When you love the boy
When you feel you are safe doing it
and when you know that he loves you back..

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whattheHELLO1514 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 8:35 pm:
you know you are ready when you dont have to question whether or not you are ready. meaning, you are comfortable with any situation you and your partner are in; and you know how to deal with it properly. this is different for everyone, but generally this is the way it is. and if you are going to have sex for the first time, please use contraception. good luck sweety. hope this helps.

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CoKeIzZle answered Thursday December 30 2004, 6:30 pm:
Hey hunny,That's a question you need to ask yourself.DO you feel ready? Do you love this person enough that you wanna spend this moment with him/her?Thats your choice YOU have to make.hope i helped xOxO Nicole~

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JemandTotenMich answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:01 pm:
the only sign is if you feel ready, there really isnt any other sign... if you feel comfortable with that whole situation and you feel that you'll have no regrets then that usually means your ready... hope i helped... *Cortney*

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southernchick answered Thursday December 30 2004, 11:35 am:
you have to LOVE and trust the person your going to have sex with.. with everything you have.. everyone has diff. "signs".. no one is the same but you need to make sure that you know that the person loves you back as well and that you feel like if you have sex you wont regret is afterwards!!

xoXo*-Katie

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icey0990 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 10:49 am:
signs? no no, there arent any signs. Its not like pregnency or PMSing where you have signs that its coming. Your ready to have sex when you feel in your heart that its time. People might say "your ready when you have a job, husband, etc" but thats only opinion. Fact is, your ready when your ready. It could be before marriage or after..Some have morals and standards...like I want to wait..but thats just me. whenever your ready, your ready. Dont force yourself either way.
I hope i helped
-melissa

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Here-To-Help answered Thursday December 30 2004, 10:18 am:
Hmm...what's that thing called...it's uh...yeah itas circle and I think it fits on your...finger?

But that's just my opinion^

Hey...you could always get married young. *shrugs*

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PrincessPhoebe answered Thursday December 30 2004, 4:48 am:
You are an adult, with a job, living on your own, and you have known the person for a long time. You have both talked about the responsibilities of having a sexual relationship and what you will do if a pregnancy occurrs. You know who will be responsible for birth control. You know your parents would not have a heart attack if they find out. You feel loved by the person and love them as well. You are may not be planning a marriage, but you are planning a very long relationship and believe that if someday you do break up and do not see one another for 20 years and then meet one day, you will feel joy at the meeting and not regret. You do not feel pressured to have sex and if you are being pressured the person is not the right one for your first experience. You will be able to pay for the hospital bills if a baby is the results, and have the money to raise a child. You both have been truthful about former relationships and the possibility of transmitting diseases to one another. You do not feel guilty about considering having sex, and you are not sneaking around trying to find a place where you will not be discovered because you are living on your own and have your own place. You are independent of your parents, live away from home, have finished school, have a good job, and have talked about all the consequences with our partner. You do not dread the idea but look forward to it.

If you can say all this - then go for it. If not, wait until you can. There are enough babies with teen parents; more is not needed. Besides, this is the time for fun, not to worry about getting pregnant or hiding things. Take it from the voice of experience, it is better when you are grown up and independent. You are more relaxed and ready to handle it.
PrincessPhoebe

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blondebombshell33 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:51 pm:
If your ready... you'll know... you truely love the person.. hErE i Got tHis fRoM a WeBsItE... hope this helps:
1.Do you feel aroused when you're kissing and touching?
2.Can you talk to each other about what you like physically?
3.Are you starting to talk about the future, making plans at least six months ahead?
4.Have you helped each other through a bad time at least once?
5.Are you physically affectionate even when you're not being passionate?
i Hope this helped Ya Hun!
xOxO, aLeX

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hiximchristine answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:48 pm:
Well, physically&logically your ready for sex now but if your not ready, dont do it. I mean the signs are hormones really. Hormones make you do crazy things and get horny. If your ready to do it, always wear a condom! There is nothing better than being safe than sorry! If you dont wear a condom, it will lead to pregnancy or diseases so talk to your parent, friend, anyone who will help you. You have to love the person you have sex with, i mean dont just give it up because your friends are doing it or the guy is making you feel like you have to! Thats not right. Follow your heart. <3

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PinkLady4863 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:46 pm:
you really have to be positive. you even asking that question is a sign that you aren't ready yet. but some signs might be the fact that when you make out with him you just want to jump his bones, lol. and that you can picture yourself with him forever, and not just a few months then it's done. hope i helped!

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