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im the kid that most come to for a shoulder to cry on and the one that they talk to for some advice on the matter. i have helped many kids through some pretty tough situations, so give me a try! i will do my best!
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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne
well first, talk to him..he is a guy with sexual thoughts. second, you didnt ask a question.
Hey there, I am a 20 year old MALE with a serious hair dilema! My hair is naturally thick, dry, curly and quite rebellious aka the worst hair you can have for styling lol!
A few monthes ago I got my hair chemically straigtened, and it did wonders for me combined with my ghd straighteners, after SO long I have GREAT looking hair! I wash it everyday with Aussie shampoo and conditioner, and straighten it everyday also using my ghd's and tre semme heat protect.
But after a while, no matter what I do, the ends look frizzy and unhealthy and its REALLY starting to annoy me! I get them cut off every four weeks, but they keep coming back!
I refuse to stop straighteneing it everyday, because I have so much more confidence with my new hair now that its straight and styled, I have done everything I can, even the heat protect spray!
HELP!!!
this was my problem, until i switched to pureology shampoo and conditioner. pureology protects your hair and keeps hair dye, hair chemicals in your hair longer than other shampoos. and it repairs the hair as well.
their is this gurl that i met on the internet and i think i rlly love her im 13 and she 25 but she thinks im 21 she says she really loves me but we are supose to meet in a few days n i duno what 2 do if she rlly loves me it shouldnt matter that im like 13 right? plz help me.
the only way it'll matter is when she sees she's been lied to, as of your age. which is a VERY big issue.
ok. so i have this friend, very close, we're like sisters. let's call her something that rhymes with her real name shall we? how bout Fanny? ok so fanny use to have tons of people that loved her and then all of a sudden one of her friends turned on her and started spreading rumors, much like everyone does at some point. then Fanny let it get to her. Which is sad. She has now pushed everyone away from her. everyone that adored her and her wonderful singing voice, her advice, her lovely multi-colored hair, and her parents that owned this fabulous mexican restaurant where Fanny and I would go and get nachos before pretending to be asleep so Fanny wouldn't have to talk to her butt dad who is ALWAYS away from home, and when he isn't he makes Fanny's life hell. sad. however, Fanny needs to realize that not everyone has abandoned her. What's your input, annie? (dude. go check your email RIGHT NOW. go, little one, go!)
i love you. plain and simple.
and...OK! captain bananas!
Okay so I'm going out with this guy. He cheated on me with my "friend" at a party, and I found out. The thing is, I don`t think he would have told me if I hadn`t found out. I still love him so much, but nothing can ever happen between us because of what he did. He has apoligized and I`ve just been really mean to him. What the hell do I do???????
PLEASE HELP.
well there are 2 aspects you should look at. first of all, you love him and im sure that eh does still love you. and no matter how hard things get, working through it, instead of throwing in the towel, is always the best, because both you and i know that good things come after working for them. even if it does take time.
but then there is the second aspect. he did cheat on you. perhaps the reason he wouldnt have told you was maybe because he was ashamed of what he had done, but maybe also because he thought he could get away with it with out any consequences and maybe later try it again. but really, it isnt my place to tell you which is the real, or right reason. i think you need to think about this one, after all, you know him better than any of the advice columnists on this site, all we know is the story that you told. use what you know. follow your heart.
take care.
Okay so theres this guy i met on the inernet he goes to my school i see him at school and talk to him a lot. The problem is he has a gf. He always is like go to the mall with me and would u go out with me if i didnt have a gf and how far i would go. is he just trying to get some or what but i think i mite like him now.
it might be that he is just trying to get some. and if you do like him, take into consideration, that if he does have a girlfriend and he is doing what he is doing, what's not to say he wouldnt do the same to you? think about this one. be extremely careful, love.
ok well you see.. it all started about a month ago and i told me friend that i liked this kid.. and she told me that she liked my friend JJ that im kinda colse to.. anyway welll the kid i liked decided to shave his head and get his tounge pierced.. so i don't like him anymore.. but when i talk to my friend JJ i get the feeling that i like him and i don't know how to tell her.. and what if he would ask me out or somthin would i say yes or be a good friend and say no b/c my friend likes you and i don't want her to be mad at me... please help
this is a hard one, and yet a situation that comes up alot. it really is up to your end decision. do you want to be that loyal friend and not be happy? or do you want to be happy knowing your friend will be happy for you? think about it.
i know this is funny but when i was in the 3rd and 4th grade i had a boyfriend named Jessie. I liked him and he liked me. we went to the same school. he lived right down the road and we went to church together every sunday & wednesday almost. well he moved the summer goin into 5th grade. me and him broke up and i didnt see him until a month or two ago and it was like all of a sudden i started having feelings for him. me and him talked and then i had to leave. well today i saw him he would look at me but he wouldnt say hey then he finally said hey. well later on his friend dillon can and sat by me and then he came over because they were skateboarding and got hot so they were drinking some drink. well jessie sat by me and we didnt really talk, but i just felt so happy just to even sit by him. i havent felt that way about anyone in a long time. im not sure why i feel this way. i dont know if i should try to get his number and call him the next time i see him or what. what do you think i should do? and do you think i really could have feelings for him?
i think it is a real possibility that you do have feelings for him, yes. but as to getting his number, you really have to play it by ear, as in does he like a girl who takes charge with that sort of thing? or does he like doing the work? dont be TOO desperate, be careful with this one, perhaps, wait for him to come to you.
ok i have a boyfriend im 13 and he recently asked me to have sex with him. I really want to but i dont want him to go on and tell everybody and stuff i want to wait til summer though what should i do?
you need to talk to him about your concerns first of all, because that is the most important. talk to him about what YOU want, not just what he wants, because you and him having sex just doesnt involve him, it involves you as well. If you arent comfortable with doing so, then it isnt right. wait until you are ready, when you are comfortable and worry free. but you must talk to him. Because if the both of you think you are ready to have something as sex, then surely a simple talk about having sex wont be any problem, right?
be safe, be strong, and take care.
hi,
does anyone have any tips on swallowing pills? i have to take some medium to large ones, and it's been hard for me to get them down. i can swallow small ones easy, its just those big ones. (no, i do not have a pill slicer.)
thanks.
yeah, i take about 35 vitamins everyday, and theyre the big ones too...you can try putting one at the back of your tongue and then chug some water so it goes down, and then just repeat. hope this helps! i know how it is..
About a month or so ago, i saw this show degrassi. There was a girl named elli and she cut herself. Ever since i saw that one episode my life has been gettin worse and worse. My bf dumped me for another girl. My best friends dont ever want to do anything with me, and the guy that has liked me for 3 years hates me now. and well...i started to cut. It really relieve my pain and helps me get things out. But recently my friend say my arms and legs in gym and shes going to tell a counciler. i mean, i dont want her to!! i know its gotten really far..and its really hard to stop i've tried everythign! i've tried hiding my scissors and puttin a rubber band on my wrist NOTHING works!! I NEED HELP! what should i do? if my parents find out they might send me to a mental hospital!!
-hurt and scared
you need to think to yourself. you know that you need to stop, you just said you do. try sitting by yourself sometime and just think of what cutting is helping...you'll relize, it isnt. think of some other things you can do instead. workout, scream in a pillow, do something that will focus your thoughts on some thing else while getting your anger and emotions out in a smart and healthy way, that you wont regret later. if you wont tell someone, you need to work on it on your own. help yourself before others get help for you. take charge of your life, because it is YOUR life, you're the one to guide it, and you're the one to end it. think about it.
I feel like the worst person in the world. On March 17 me and my boyfriend of 3 years got into a huuuge fight because he cheated on me. Our relationship was sooo good and we always got told that we were the role model for couples, well anyways..we got into a huge fight and we said things that we didnt mean and I told him that I wish he wasnt in my life and he would just die because I hated him so much, those were my exact words. Later that night at 11:26 I got a phone call from his sister (we were really close, she was like a little sister to me) she was crying really hard and she told me that she had found him in his room laying on the floor, dead. I didnt even know what to do with myself. He had taken a gun to his head. She read me a note that he left and it said "I'm so sorry, I love you so much" thats all it said, and he had the date that we started going out until forever carved into his arm. That night when my parents found out they tried to comfort me and all that but I just didnt want to be around anyone. I went to my room and I cut myself so bad and my mom walked in and stopped me and just held me and I cried for hours, with my wrists bleeding, and I fell asleep crying in my moms arms. I'm getting help now. I went to his funeral and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life, I fell to the floor when I went up to his casket at the wake and his mom had to pick me up and just hold me while we cried. I go to his house all the time and talk to his family and just tell them how sorry I am and we talk about all of our memories. I havent slept since the night it happened, and I havent been to school, the doctors say I probably wont go to school for about another month, I might be homeschooled. I can't even look at myself anymore. I can't beleive those hateful words were the last words I ever got to tell the love of my life. I'm sorry it is really long but does anyone have any advice on how to help me get through this?
hun, all you can do is get through it how you can. talk to him, pray for him, take one day at a time. the important thing is that you still love him. it will take time, but you can get through this and move forward with your life, maybe not move on, but just move forward. going to his grave is fine, talking to him will help you, sharing memories will help you, just talk to people that you know will listen, people you know that care. this is probably one of the hardest things you will ever go through in your life time, but dont let it over take you to where you give up as well. take time to focus on the things you know you need to focus on, sort things out. take care and god bless.
My friend stopped talking to not to long ago. The only time she would actually talk to me was if she wanted to talk about her flavor of the month. She usually has one once a month too. But this time it seems to be lasting longer. i tried talking to her but she's been to rapped up with this guy. So since she stoped talking to me i just stopped having coversations with her. I still say hi and all. I want to be her friend again but I dont want to be put on the back burner because of this guy. What should I do. I miss her.
you need to stick to what you feel is the right thing to do on this one. maybe even confront her and tell her how you feel.if she is your friend, then she should listen. good luck and take care.
Ok, I'm not entirely sure if this is the right category, but yeah. So I was sitting with my Girl on the porch, and she was kinda Lying kinda sitting on me, with her back toward me, and I had my arm around her, and she grabbed my arm and put it down her top onto her breast, (This is while I was nibbling on her ear... I'm 17 and not really skilled in this area.. What am I supposed to do?
relax, and dont worry about what you are "supposed to do", go with the flow? just relax is all, and please, if it furthers, use protection and be safe.
okay, so there's this guy at my school, I dont really know that well, and I'm new here this year. but he''s supposedly the hottest guy. Two months ago he started flirting wit me almost everyday, and some other girls actually did think he liked me. A month ago one of my friends asked him if he did and he said yes( i wasnt there), but then a week ago my friend told me that she and another friend asked him again a week ago, and he said I was disgusting and he only liked to make fun of me. But he still flirted with me uptil then. I'm confused, does he still like me, and tried to cover up for it? Because in the beginning it genuinely seem like he liked me when he flirted. I DO know he's somewhat of a playboy. I'm in Middle School.Female, of course.
it doesnt seem like those "friends" of yours were telling you the honest truth when they said he told them those mean things to them about you. but that is just my oppinion, of course. to tell you the truth, the only sure fire way of ever knowing, is to find out yourself. this will ensure that nothing is being added to the true story. be confident, and be strong. its the best way.
alright I've been dating this guy for about a month in a half. Hes perfect he already bought me roses and he treats me soo good. But i dont know what to get him for Valentines Day can you please help me? thanks
well, obviously he knows what to get you, because he knows your personality. when he got you the roses and such he proably knew that yo u would love it. from what you know of him, use that knowledge to get some thing you know he'll like. maybe even give him a single flower? its up to you. but use what you know, just as he has, to get him something great.
Hey does anyone know a real easy to get rid of pimples fast without popping them please help.
there is an old wise tale that if you put a bit of tooth paste on it, it will draw the bacteria out. you can also try neosporin, hope this helps.
I have to switch schools (7th grade) and I'm so nervous. I have cramps in my stomach and I feel like I'm going to puke. I have talked to friends over the phone about it and they say I'll do fine but I don;t about that. Please, someone tell me what I can do to reduce nervousness of this change?
all you can do is relax. try to think of it as a new beginning. a way to start fresh. it is what it is, and you cant change the fact that you have to do it. so try to relax with the idea and have a bit of fun with going in new. i have done it so much i can be called an "army brat", and trust me, its alot easier than you first think it out to be.
what's the best way to get word out about a club? even if it is a slightly academic one? it's a lot like debate, but it's still different.
please and thanks.
well you could try doing "publicity" for it. im assuming that you are in either middle or high school. so you could try the school newspaper or if your school has the resources, you could try the schools radio or news channel. where students can see, read, or hear announcements for your club. make it enticing for them to go and check it out.
I'm having a New Years Eve party at my house tonite and we want to make dirt. Like, the stuff with the oreo cookies and stuff. I don't know how to make it, and I need to buy ingredients for it. I'm going shopping soon, so please answer fast!
Thanks
what works well with making "dirt" is by using: peanut butter, oats, cocoa powder and oreo crumbs. use the peanut butter enough to bind it all. but not to much. spread it out on a cookie sheet, and let it sit out in the open air ( dont cover it ) to dry it out so it will become crumbly like actual dirt. hope this helps!