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ok i have a boyfriend im 13 and he recently asked me to have sex with him. I really want to but i dont want him to go on and tell everybody and stuff i want to wait til summer though what should i do?
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you need to talk to him about your concerns first of all, because that is the most important. talk to him about what YOU want, not just what he wants, because you and him having sex just doesnt involve him, it involves you as well. If you arent comfortable with doing so, then it isnt right. wait until you are ready, when you are comfortable and worry free. but you must talk to him. Because if the both of you think you are ready to have something as sex, then surely a simple talk about having sex wont be any problem, right?
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listen, i understand what its like to really care about someone. But that doesn't mean that having sex is the answer. You should wait. You probably don't wanna hear that but its true. More than likely this guy will go tell all his freinds. And eventually you guys will break up. I don't think its a good idea at all. I would wait. Besides what if this guy has slept with other people? Do you want to wake up one morning and have like warts all over you. If you ask him, he'll probly say he has never had sex before. When he does that, ask him "than why do you want it so bad?" If he says he's had sex before than you are in double trouble. He is a walking germ. I would turn around and run if i were you!
Oh i forgot to mention one thing. If you absolutely, positivly have to , want to , need to have sex with this boy make him where a condom! Some guys will try and lie to you and tell you that they don't like condoms becuase they can't feel anything. Well don't listen cuase thats all bologny! Be responsible, don't get pregnant. And afterwards go to a free clinic and get a free aids test. And a free herpies, gonarea and clamidia test. You don't wanna be walking around with any of those nasty diseases!
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i think you should wait til way way after this summer. i think you should wait til ur maybe.....18? 19? thats a good age. im sorry to rain on your parade but sex isnt a very good idea until your at least 18, even with protection. hope i helped!
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I think that of you are not ready then you should tell him. If he really likes you and cares about your feelings then he should understand. If you feel that he will tell people then you probably shouldn't do it. I mean, you are only 13, you shouldn't really be thinking about that right now. You should do it with another person if you really love him because that's when it will really feel special. If you deeply feel that your reputaion could be in jeporady for this, then you have to make the decision whether or not you want to have sex with him. I hope you make the right decision and the one that is best for you. I hope I helped, and if you have anymore questions, keep on sending me messages in my inbox!
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you're only 13..you have a whole life ahead of you..please don't ruin it by having sex..your body is the most precious gift you can give somebody and if he isn't right for you in the end..you are going to regret this whole thing.Most guys at this age will tell their friends just so they feel accepted in the crowd.Truth is, not everyone saying they are having sex really is..they just say that kind of stuff to impress others.Think of all the things that can happen...sexually transmitted diseases..even with a condom you can get pregnant...you are too young to start your life with a child and it wouldn't be fair to the child either.Just please hold off until marriage.There's more to a relationship than just sex.
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truthfully i think your not ready.if you do have sex i would think about the consequences(sp) most of all make sure he doesnt have an STD
*remeber its your choice not his*
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