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Parents away... what do I do
I really need some advice.
I am a 15/F ....I have gone out with this one guy about 5 or 6 times (we arent datiing just hooking up). We were introduced by a friend (he's 16) and is (or seems) like a really good guy. My parents are away for the whole weekend and my sister is going to be out tomorrow night and I think this guy is coming over. We have hooked up.. but nothing more then that. I am kind of concerned that something is going to happen that I don't want to happen (i am a virgin). I don't know If i'm just overly worried or what. do u think its a bad idea for him to come over considering the circumstances? Is it suggesting that I want something more then just hooking up? Please give me your advice. Especially the boys here. Thanks.
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I do think it might be a bad idea if he comes over. He might get the wrong idea about you having the house to yourself and inviting him over. boys are very horny... I think that because you are a virgin you need to be comfident in that. If you still want him to come over to hang out I think thats fine (just don't get caught!lol) but if he tries something with you sexually that you dont think is a good idea then say no. make sure he DOES NOT PRESSURE YOU. If you feel like things might get a little awkward then plan ahead and think of an action movie or comedy movie that you can watch together, or have other friends come over as well so you're not alone together. If i were you I would wait a while longer before considering sex with anyone and make sure it's someone very special that you've gone out with more than 5 or 6 times. This could also be a great opportunity to find out who this guy really is and if hes someone you really want to start dating.
16/f -stefiny
g-luck!
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you shouldn't let him come over if you don't want anything to happen. cuz everyone knows that it will happen.
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I think it would be best if you went somewhere else. Why take the chance. Not to mention if you did get carried away and someone should walk in on you unexpected....it can happen! You would be just totally embarrassed. Better not to tempt fate I think.:)
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Ok im not aboy, but you need advoce so....I dont think its a bad idea if this guy comes over when no one else is home. I mean since you know him pretty well. If you guys start kissing and making out, etc, you might want ot tell him your limits. He should respect them. If he doesnt...kick him out..he shouldnt be in your house. Hopefully if you know this guy, he hsould respect you enough to respect what you want and need. But all in all i htink its fine for him to come over, but also dont forget YOUR limits and dont be tempted to do something your not ready for....unless you want to.
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I wouldn't. If you have him over, even if nothing happens, you will spend the time worrying about it. A young girl with no parents at home sounds easy to take advantage of (from the guy's perspective of course). At that age, boys are very immature. I think it would be irresponsible to have him over without your parents, especially if you are concerned. Trust your gut! If he tries to rape you, stop at nothing to defend yourself.
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you could if you really want to but if you do just set him straight before you get into a bad situation
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I really think that you shouldn't invite this guy over to your house, if no one else is going to be there. I'm not trying to scare you by implying that he might be a rapist. (Though all girls should be careful.) But I do think that it is very possible that he might get the wrong idea, and then try to pressure you into doing something that you don't really want to. I know because it's happened to me in the past.
Besides, I'm of the opinion that if you aren't comfortable with an idea, you probably have reason to be uncomfortable, and should respect your own feelings.
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Well, I'm not a boy, but I feel like I could help you out. If he comes over, and does try to have sex with you then just tell him that you aren't ready. You don't have to do anything that you don't want to do. If you feel like that's what he's coming for and you really have a bad vibe about the whole thing, then tell him that he can't come over for that night. I hope I helped!
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I strongly advise you to change your plans to something safer.Maybe go to a movie.Nobody's home, so he could do anything he wants with you.Until you know him a little better don't get anywhere alone with him.
xO LiSa*
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Well you can either tell him straight up, that you dont wanna go too far -- Or you can invite him over see how things go...and if they seem there getting out of hand tell him to stop...its all up to you -- I dont think its a bad idea for him to come over seeing that you guys have hooked up before, as long as your comfortable with the situation youll be fine...but if your not then dont do it...its not suggesting you want something more
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