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Is there a possible way to shave 'down there' without irritating it? mines all irritated right now and is there a way to get it un-irritated, and then keep it un-irritated?

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Wait until the hair grows back -- almost fully..and the when you go to shave use a sensative skin razor with a sensative skin gel..shave with the hair to get most of it off and then shave against it to get the rest off but be gentle..after you get out of the shower to dry off pat softley..use a soft lotion like baby lotion..or caress to put on after to keep the skin soft..and try not to rub too hard on it to irratate it


It seems like a stupid question but what's the best thing to do when you're trying to lose weight.
Eat before you work out or after? (obviously not right before or right after)
It's just a couple of people have told me eating before will give me energy and that eating after will just bring back the calories and other people have told me eating after is better because before you already have the energy from your previous meals of the day and if you eat after you'll get all the sugar, protein, etc. back that you lost during sweating.

So, who's right? (link)
You should eat before and after -- Because before will give you energy and after you need something because your body is still going...and if you dont itll feed off itself and next time you eat itll store in your body -- Eat healthy foods like fruits and vegetables, follow the food group..and eat healthy as you exercise to lose weight as well, just dont get too over obsessed with it because then it could turn into a problem, and make sure you set a weight goal..and dont just randomly say i wanna lose weight -- Keep this thought in mind its not how much you weight, its what your body looks like...and if it looks good KEEP IT! good luck!


ok..so our Spring Formal is Tonight...i have a dress but it looks like an easter dress...its pale pale pink with lace like over it and its strapless and has an attached ribbon around the waist...i want a new dress but we dont have any money because my brother wrecked the car (we gotta pay for that) and were goin to NY is there any way that i could make this dress look more spring-like??...i rate thnx (link)
If possible take the ribbon off the waist from the dress...you could wear it as a neck lace, if you tie it tight around your neck..but cut it do its small -- Im sure the lace and such look nice if its pink..or you could take the lace off the dress you decide get creative with it..its your dress after all!


ok so tonights our big Spring Formal and I have no idea how to do my hair..an i cant get it done anywhere cuz everyones booked...so any cute, easy, do-it-yourself hairstyles is what i want...pics would help(if possible)..=]..thanks i rate (link)
Go tot his site there are alot of things for hair...http://www.bbc.co.uk/teens/girls/fashionandbeauty/bible/

It should help...GOOD LUCK and have fun with it!


I recently asked the question about how my guy friend and his girl broke up and how I wanted to be there for him. Well he asked me to help, and today I tried to talk to him about it. I said do you and her now have an undertanding? he was like yea. I said so are you ok? and he goes it sucks but I'll live.. I have to go. Then leaves. What the hell? Im trying to help like he asked me to and then he leaves? Whats his problem? Should I leave him alone or say something? (link)
Maybe hes not comfortable talking about it yet..hes probably still getting over the fact that he doesnt have his g/f anymore...im sure hell come around when he needs to talk and wants to vent..but if you see him down you can ask him if hes ok -- Other than that you might wanna leave it alone so he doesnt get upset thinking about it, or he doesnt egt mad that you keep asking him -- Time heals everything >.


Well, I've just recently gotten out of a relationship with a guy I really cared about, and another one of my exboyfriends is one of my best friends. I think I must be rebounding, but I keep flirting with my ex and I don't want to, because now we have such a good relationship and I don't want to jeopardize it, but I can't stop myself! I don't know what to do, because he'll flirt back (just as a joke, I think) so it confuses me even more! How do I stop flirting with him and stop thinking about him? (link)
Maybe your flirting could be a sign that you still like him..dont completley throw away that feeling, some people dont know they are flirting when they really are so its hard..but then again you dont want to lead him on -- you should talk to him, tell him you dont wanna lose the bond you have, but then again you dont wanna make it more than it is -- I'm sure hell understand if you guys are good friends and were going out before -- Buit you never know you might wanna think about the "flirting" is it just harmless rebound? or is something there again? But dont let that over power your mind or you might get all caught up and start to worry...relax see what happenes im sure itll be for a good reason


he and his girlfriend broke up about two months ago almost
so now we hang out a lot because we're getting to be close friends, last week he asked if i wantd him to walk me to the door...this week he came over, we sortof snuggled/had heads on eachothers shoulders. then he gave me a huge hug, spun me around and gave me two kisses on my forehead at the end of the night.

two days later he IMed me and was like "i missed you today" ..is this just stuff a classy guy would do with a close friend....or is there something else there?? (link)
Some guys like to be close with thier girl friends, but he could be flirting so ask him -- Just bring it up next time he does something that seems a lil more than friendly, just ask him if its you, or is there some flirting involed, the only way to know is to ask


Is it possible to loose a few pounds by just eating healthier (with some physical activitey but not alot) If so, can you tell me some good health foods to subsitute with my normal junk food? Thanx i rate high! :) (link)
Friuts and vegetables, three servings of chesse a day help your waist...just follow the food group -- Substitute white bread with wheat bread because flour turns into sugar which is stored as fat -- Lay off the chips even potatos themselves have starch in them -- If you eat meat..try and get a lean kind with not alot of fat -- Grilled foods are always better, protien is good for you too peanut butter & fish hope i helped


Short versions of a verrrry confusing story:

this guy likes me so much. hes nice, soo sweet, easy to talk to, pretty cute and funny. but i keep comparing him to this guy i used to like. the guy that likes me now. he seems like the perfect guy, but always tells me about his feelings for me..i think its clingy and annoying. hes soo perfect but i just don't have feelings for him! i keep trying to stop comparing him and i think if i give it time, i might like him. but, i just don't see that happening. he likes me soo much and thinks i like him a lot too and thats my fault because i let him think that. but WHAT should i do! i'm not into talking about feelings and he is, its like hes obsesed w.me. should i break it off now or just wait?? PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
You should try hangin out with him more, might help you get used to him -- As for the feelings...just tell him your nto comfortable talking about it yet that you need some time...Compairing him to the guys you used to like could be a problem, but im sure if you work on that and try to see things out it could work, the only way to have a good relationship with someone even if its just being friends is to be HONEST good luck


Ok I'm 15/f and I had a little peach fuzz..but it was like dark..so starting 7th grade, I shaved it and I liked the results...except for the fact that it grows back a LITTLE thicker and faster...Well the problem is, I'm going on vacation overseas and I need to bring a razor to shave it..except that my parents don't know I do that..I need to shave it or it will grow back gross! Please don't tell me to wax it or buy a kit from a store..and please don't tell me to have a talk with my mom...I don't know what to do!! (link)
I'm sure you can buy a razor when you get there, i mean you have to shave your legs..riiight? so tell you mom you need a razor for that...razors dont come in single packs anyways..so youll have a few for the time being...


I really need some advice.
I am a 15/F ....I have gone out with this one guy about 5 or 6 times (we arent datiing just hooking up). We were introduced by a friend (he's 16) and is (or seems) like a really good guy. My parents are away for the whole weekend and my sister is going to be out tomorrow night and I think this guy is coming over. We have hooked up.. but nothing more then that. I am kind of concerned that something is going to happen that I don't want to happen (i am a virgin). I don't know If i'm just overly worried or what. do u think its a bad idea for him to come over considering the circumstances? Is it suggesting that I want something more then just hooking up? Please give me your advice. Especially the boys here. Thanks. (link)
Well you can either tell him straight up, that you dont wanna go too far -- Or you can invite him over see how things go...and if they seem there getting out of hand tell him to stop...its all up to you -- I dont think its a bad idea for him to come over seeing that you guys have hooked up before, as long as your comfortable with the situation youll be fine...but if your not then dont do it...its not suggesting you want something more


All right..I'm 5 feet 5 inches tall, 14 year old girl, and weigh 126 pounds ..And its frustrating because I want to lose like 10 pounds..excercise isnt a problem...I participate in sports all year round..i dont want to go on a pill or anything..and nutrition is pretty decent..any advice?
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Eat healthy food ( no junk food ), running is really good for you -- remember muscle weighs more than fat and your in sports -- Never resort to not eating because it eats away at the muscle,


What are some stores or websites where I can get really cute skirts for our school's spring fling? (link)
Pacific Sunwear ( Pac Sun ), H&M, Aero, A&F


Ok here goes, I am an advice giver and everything but I can't fix this problem. I go to a school where there is a whole bunch of guys. I have a major crush on one of them but every time I make a move on a guy I like, I get these kinds of remarks such as "You should jump off a bridge and save yourelf the embarassment of actually having a love life". Remarks like these are said to me everyday and somehow they have etched themselves into my head and they won't go away. Now it seems like the only way to get rid of them is to commit suicide. I have thought about it many times but I want help. Please answer back. I don't know how much more of these remarks I can stand. (link)
Say something back -- People like that have low self esteem and need to egt off on seeing you feel bad...Suicide isnt the way, just and easy way out and think of how many people would miss you your family friends...Talk to someone if you keep holding it in it can lead to worse it will just bring you down even more and you dont need that no1 does...nto worth the pain tell your mom or someone at skool you can sit down and let everything out...just dont sit back and let it happen


well i'm 13 and i'm a female and i totally broke out on my forehead and i have a dance coming up!! i need help on how to get rid of it fast!! any advice or suggestions? also, is it because i ate chocolate or like junk foods? (i've heard that the reason people break out...)ThAnkS fOr uR HeLp!!! *i RaTe* (link)
Tooth paste works...let ti sit on them for a little while -- Or buy a face wash and cleaning pads and follow the directions...also if you wear cover up try to get a good kind and not a greesy one they can prevent break outs


ok theres this girl and I like her but i want to stop. see theres this guy and hes a big sweet talker guy, the guy that everyone loves no matter what. well i've liked this girl for a long time and I told her i liked her and she said she liked me to and then the sweet talker comes along and i get so pissed cause he cant stick to one girl. well it just breaks my heart whenever she ditches me for him and the girl and i are good friends and well i know i cant get over her by forcing myself and i dont know how to tell her this. can you help? (link)
Maybe your not ready to get over her just yet -- Everything happenes for a reason, your body could be telling you its not time that something could happen -- Shes gunna need you to be there as a firend sooner or later when she falls down -- but if your gut instinct is telling you that you dont wanna like her anymore then i have some suggestions:

Before you move on let all those feelings out, talk to someone you trust if you dont let it out itll stay with you forever....

Take it day by day, TRY and stay strong
Its not the end of the world and it is gunna hurt because she is your friend but just be thankful to have her in your life...things could change so keep your head up hun


My boyfriend always got love notes from his gfs and we were talking yesterday and he said I was the only girl who never wrote him any love notes so I was wondering what do you write in love notes other then I love you because I tired to write one but I dont think it turned out to be anything like a love note soif you can please help me out thx ill rate if ud like (link)
You could start it off with his name -- how you guys got together and how great its been to be with him -- Write whats in your heart, the way he makes you feel, if your not truley honest it wont come out the way you planned, do it out step by step....dont jump from one thing to another and all around


What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?

The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago. (link)
Shes legal so she can date him -- Yea its a couple years older (ok maybe more than a couple)
But its her life, if thats the way she wants it let her be


I woke up this morning and i've had it all day and this monday i have to sing for a competition...wat are some good remedys for a sore throat and is it safe?? (link)
Herbal tea with honey -- No milk because it makes flem and flem makes it hard to sing...cough drops are good for when your not drinking tea -- Drink it before you sing and warming up


Ok so I'm 15/m, and I was at a school function, and some girl that I didn't know danced with me. So after I left she got my AIM screen name from one of my friends and went home and asked me to the prom and and asked if I would go over to her house Friday to have dinner and a movie and all that stuff. Problem is, I really don't like her, and I don't really know her at all either. What should I say? (link)
Maybe you should get to know her first, you might actually come to like her -- Or you could tell her that you dont know her and dont like her that way and it doesnt feel right to you....your choice




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