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Ok so I'm 15/m, and I was at a school function, and some girl that I didn't know danced with me. So after I left she got my AIM screen name from one of my friends and went home and asked me to the prom and and asked if I would go over to her house Friday to have dinner and a movie and all that stuff. Problem is, I really don't like her, and I don't really know her at all either. What should I say?
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Say like "I don't really know you, so can we get to know eachother a little bit before I answer?" or something like that!!
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*Marielle*
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O.k. Hi My names Lacey I'm about your age, so i'll help you. If you don't like her then tell her maybe yall can just be friends, and do fun stuff together, but if you really don't like her that way, then tell her the truth. Tell her wat you really feal about her. She'll find someone else to like.I've never had a b.f. and all the guy's i liked put me down, but there also just my friends, so things will hopefully work out, hope you take my advice.
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Let her down gentally tell her that your just not interested in a relationship at the moment and that you want to be a single lad for a bit
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xxx all the best
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well just give her a chance. Tell her: hey i really dont know you that much maybe we should get to know eachother first. but look at it this way if she is nice but you really dont like her(like a girlfriend) at least you made a friend.
good luck
hope i helped
peaches_n_cream552
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you can cancel the stuff on friday and just tell her "Something suddenly came up". if she asks what, then make up some stuff, like "My grandma is ill and we need to be at the house in case of an emergency" or you could just tell the truth. just sit her down and say "Listen, i know that you like me and i respect that a lot. but the thing is, i don't really Like you-like you. i just like you. i hope we can still be friends"
~~Chelsey~~
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I think you should tell her youd like to get to know her first. Go over to her house and get to know her, maybe shes pretty cool, but tell her that youre not sure about going with the prom with her.
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Tell her you're gay.
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Hey thats an easy one you should tell her the truth and if you dont know her then mostlikely you wont see her again very often. You could get to know her better and since you have her screen name then you can talk all the time. If you get to know her better then you can a real relationship with her that is (if you wanna).
HOPE I HELPED!
♥ aSK_M3_90
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Let her down easy. Don't be mean, but just tell her your not looking for a girlfriend, or a relationship right now. Be nice to her!
Good Luck,
~Kendall~
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Well, if you would feel umcomfortable going then just tell her that you dont think that you can and you have other plans for prom. Who knows maybe if you hang out with htis girl you could just become friends.
~Brina~
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how old is she?! you should tell her that you don't really know her that well but you could go to prom with her as just friends. you should go to her house and hang out. just trying to help, although i might be wrong. good luck
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why dont you talk to her. maybe she likes you too
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ok, wat you should do is just tell her that shes a really nice gurl, and all and that it was really fun dancing with her, but you just dont think that you wanna be in any kind of a relationship rite now.
hope she understands.
good luck.
xoxo amore
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Well maybe that will give you a chance to get to know her a little bit.. but i wouldnt say yes to prom already.. id do the thing on friday first to see if you like her...*tell her that* and then i would decide weather or not if i liked her..and if you dont like her and things dont work out tell her you would like to jus be friends or you can say you dont want nothing to do with her..much luv dez
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exactly that.
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you should tell her that shes a really great girl but your just not looking for a relationship right now but you ahd a really fun time dancing with her
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Maybe you should get to know her first, you might actually come to like her -- Or you could tell her that you dont know her and dont like her that way and it doesnt feel right to you....your choice
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This is really tough, you shouldn't go to her house Friday, I really don't think you should, because it will convince her that you're into her. And, nobody wants to be convinced and then told the opposite. You need to tell her in any type of communication, "Hey, I know we planned a good time at your house, but I've been thinking pretty hard about this, and I am thinking that maybe you like me more than expected, and I really don't feel the same, so I don't know if this is a good idea." You have to tell her before this happens. Talk to me in my inbox if you need more help.
-TheTeenGirl
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hmm... I say to tell her the truth. "I have to floss my dog that day... sorry. I can't come over.. maybe another day... but I have to floss the neighbors dogs too." lol... Really. Tell her the truth, but you can still talk to her... not all girls are capable of "getting away with murder"... though some are... well, come to think of it, you shouldn't risk it. Don't hang out with her. All she has to do is kill you, then bat her eyelashes, and, *poof* no trouble at all.
Ok, seriously now. Talk to her... but that's all for now. Suggest that she go with someone else to the prom. :)
-FunnyCide
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Some friend to give away your SN. I say teach him a lesson; pummel the traitor. Tell her that he really likes her, then make him go to the prom with her. He will be sorry. INSERT: hey look, a brick.
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