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I just saw "Eddie's Million Dollar Cook-Off" and i really liked teh songs they have in it. The problem is that I can't find teh names of those songs

I looked on google. Help! (link)
heyy. you could try to look for the soundtrack at like walmart.com or something. i know they usually have soundtracks. in google, make sure you put "Eddie's Million Dollar Cook-Off" Soundtrack. you might end up with a link to amazon.com. that will give you a list of the songs that are on there.
good luck finding it! hope i helped :)
*lazy_one*


i've been going out with this adorable junior for 4 months now. at first, i never thought it would work out because im the freshman girl who is shy and has never been with a guy before. but since the first time we met he took my heart. things have been going great, but im afraid he dedicated himself too much to me?

To me, it just doesn't seem right. He's Mr. Popular, quarter back of the football team and like abercrombie model looks; and im just the freshman girl. we've gone as far as oral but in the past month i've really wanted to have sex with him. i ask him all the time about it but he said he doesnt want to. (He already had sex before by the way.) He said he doesn't want to take the thing away from me that is most precious unless i love him.

You dont understand though, like i WANT to have sex with him so bad, but he doesn't want to take it away from me at such a young age unless im sure i love him. He tells me he loves me but it's hard for me to say "i love you" back and really mean it.

Does he not like me anymore? It's just he's so nice and i know for a fact he never cheated on me before or is seeing another girl. Should i drop the whole sex subject?! PLEASE HELP! (link)
he has a point. you should hold on to your virginity as long as possible. he is respecting you by saying no. i'm sure he still loves you and it sounds like you two are a really good couple. but, you have only been going out for 4 months. if i were you, i would drop the sex subject for a while. he is respecting you by saying no even though you want to have sex and don't hate him for it. i'm sure he's a nice guy. just drop the subject for a little while and maybe bring it up again in a few months, and if he still says no then repeat the process: "1.ask 2. if he says no, drop it 3. ask a few months later 4. repeat steps 1-3 till satisfied"
i hope i helped.
--lazy_one--


I kissed my friend just a pop kiss in front of guys, do guys think thats hot?
Also do guys get hard off of fingering a girl?
Just wondering. (link)
the kissing part, idk. as for the fingering part, if the girl moans, and says the guy's name he can get hard. a lot of times, when a guy fingers a girl, he's already hard.
hope i helped
--lazy_one


I started to babysit for money. But there's this evil little kid that is very young (only 6!!) but is verrry perverted. He watches rated R movies, fastforwarding to sex scenes, and he's always trying to touch my parts. I'm 15!! How gross is that?! I told his parents about it, but they wouldn't believe me. He acts like an angel in front of them I guess. I yell at him and everything, but nothing works!!

WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? (link)
if i were you, i would keep tellin the parents when he doesn't then maybe after telling them a few times, they might believe you. something else might be to not let him watch R movies and/or not let him have the remote.
i had a similar problem. my neighbors had boys who were about 7 or 8 and they had a "boob" fettish. and of course it was in the summer when i was in a swimsuit. now i told their parents and they believed me-which is the downside for you.
if worse comes to worse, don't babysit him anymore. apparently he won't listen when you tell him to stop, and his parents are jerks and won't believe you. hope i helped
--lazy_one


When does the college baseball season start? Does anyone have a schedule for televised games (I love watching Texas)? If so, where can I find it? (link)
you can probably do a google search and find something out or go to www.tvguide.com there you can search for different shows and sports, etc.

hope i helped
~~Chelsey~~


Im not really fat, like huge. But Im 13, 5'oft and I weight about 127. Im very un happy my weight, and honestly would love to loose to 10 pounds. I asked a question once on here and some guy told me it was a bad idea to split up my workouts in too, like exercizing in the morning, and then in evening a little.. And anybody else have any tips to help me loose weight? im deterimed, but clueless.
thank you I RATE! (link)
I'm 14/f, 4'11", and about 120lbs. if you want to loose weight, as do i, try exercising a little bit. There are many, many exercises that will tone up different parts of the body: sit ups/crunches, push ups, runing/joging, and bike riding. all of these will help you in some way. also, it is not just the exercise that turns fat into muscle, it's the food you eat that will keep you healthier and able to exercise and stay active. By eating the right foods combined with the exercise, you should be able to loose some weight. drink water or juice instead of soda (preferably water).
hope i helped
~~Chelsey~~


For valentines day, i want to attach lyrics to a love song on the card i'm giving to my boyfriend. I dont kow what song to use though. Does anyone know any cute songs that has a meaning of loving some one more than anything? Thanks so much (link)
There is a country song called 'Amazed'. it has been voted the No.1 Love SOng of all time. It is by Lonestar. you can find the lyrics at www.cowboylyrics.com my b/f and i love this song and whenever we hear it we sing it to each other. it is a really good song.
hope i helped

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hi my name is jess im 13 ok well today i was with my boyfriend and i gave him a handy well i dont think he did but im not sure if he got sperm on him when he went to pull of his pants because he might have cummed on himself and then after like 3 min he ended up fingering me. if is there a good possibility i could get pregnant from that? please im scared and dont make fun of me plz.
thank you so much; jess (link)
Well, first off I don't know why you would go that far with a guy at that age. But anyway, Yes there is a chance you could get pregnent if he got sperm on his hand on his finger and then fingered you. It's highly unlikely but you can get pregnent although it's unlikely.


Help me figure this out! TRAIN ACCIDENT! There are 87 passangers and none have major ingeries but 2 are dead on the police report. How is this (link)
It was the people the train hit and that's what caused the accident!


OK, well im 14 and still havent had a b/f yet. Is there like smething wrong with mme? Im affraid I wont have a b/f the whole 4 years of highschool. Thanks! (link)
i'm 14, too. i also don't have a b/f. don't worry about it. do you hang out with guys? if you do, one of them might like you and you don't know it. are there any guys you like? if so, are you friends or do you admire him from across the room? it all depends. you may get a b/f soon. trust me, you won't go all through high school without one.
hope i helped


ok, I'm about 5'2 & weaigh 115. & I'm 14/M

well, I want to have abs, just like a 6 pack, & my stomach be flat (I'm strested & thats where it goes). & I wanted to know a diet & a work-out routine that would work.

Thanks So Much! (link)
you don't really need to diet. i am 13/f 4'11" and i weigh 118 lbs. if you want a six pack you could do sit ups, and/or get some Tae-Bo videos. (they're really fun and easy.) you could try to eat right too. you don't neccasarly(


Everytime I shave..down there..I get these little red bumps.What is a quick way to get rid of them? I rate high. (link)
there is stuff by Monostat. it is a ;otion thing. it works good. i gorget the name of it though.
you could also buy one of those things that doesn't irritate your skin.
hope i helped.

~~Chelsey~~


There is this guy "friend" of mine that I met last year. After a while we were fully aquainted, we started hanging out. I really think he likes me because he has always treated me with respect and kindness. I went to his house the other day, and we started "fooling around". Now he wants to have sex, not as partners, but as friends. He said that this is not considered being a slut or anything because we are friends. Is this true? I really like him. I just got over a really bad situation with the last person I was with. Please help me.



*~!Ayla!~* ( I am only 13, and I'm a girl ) (link)
DO NOT HAVE SEX! you are still young. i am 13 too. keep your virginity as long as possible. if no one finds out about it you shouldn't be called a slut.
if you do decide to have sex with him, make sure he doesn't have any contagious STDs. also make sure he wears protection.
hope i helped.

~~Chelsey~~


i have no idea what im going to do with her. do you have any ideas what we could do? also how am i supposed to get her in bed? i have only babysat once..and that was with my sister. im going to babysit from 7 to 11. what time do you think she should go to bed? i just really need some ideas on what we could do. and do you have any tips? also...how much do you think ill get payed for 4 hours? (link)
Bedtime-between 8 & 9
Pay- somewhere between $5 & $7 an hour
get to bed- Tell story, tell her something that will make her go to bed. if she says she misses Mommy and Daddy, just tell her "they'll be home when you get up. the quicker you go to bed, the quicker you will get to see them"
Stuff to do- watch TV/Movie, play games, read stories


I used to be in gymnastics but I quit and I lost all my flexibility, now my dance teacher is expecting me to do the splits and I can't!
I can't even touch my toes without bending my knees anymore!
How can I get my flexibility back apart from practicing loads, haha? (link)
you do need to practice but maybe not that much. i've never taken gymnastics and i can almost do a full split. whenever you're bored just start going down into a split as far as you can. after a while you will be able to go down farther and farther. just practice whenever you are bored or in gym class r you can always start doing gymnastics again.
hope i helped.

~~Chelsey~~


hey whats exima that skin thing where u get red bumps or w\e...what is it? n how can u treat it or prevent it? i always get it, i think, when its cold hitting my skin.thanks! (link)
hey, i have eczema*, too. i've had it since i was a baby. you can not prevent it but you can reduce the irratation. 40% of children who have eczema* out-grow it by the time they are in their teens. there are itch medicines that can stop the itch for a short period of time. they also have medicines that are ment for eczema. or you can go to your doctor and s/he will give you a presciption for it. it is very bothering and i know it. it will "FLare Up" from taking too hot of a bath. it help if you put moinsturizer on your skin right after you get out of the shower. also if you have dry skin, that will bother it too.
hope i helped.

~~~Chelsey~~


my father abuses me what should i do (link)
common sense.....TELL THE POLICE!!! sexual abuse is illegal. if you don't want to go to the police, tell some one who wil do it for you.


~~Chelsey~~



okay im 14/f.

i started babysitting at the beginning of the school year. the lady who hired me said that she needed someone she would be able to rely on. she pays really good money but recently her hours got changed and i'm working 3:30 to 6:00 when usually i only did 3:30 to 5:00. i don't even get to eat with my family. and when i get home all i wanna do is just go to bed.

the kids are fucked up. they get disciplined but their mother just laughs when she yells at them. they're really spoiled and get their way all the time.

the other day i was watching them and i was swinging on this swing. well their dog attacked me for no reason. when i told the mother she said "oh sometimes you just need to hit him" he even ripped my pants! there's a small hole in the pants and there's a HUGE bruise on my leg from where he bit me.

when i got my paycheck their was no money for the pants that the dog ripped. i'm really sick of them and i wanna quit but i don't know how to say it. if the dog bites me again i'll have no problem but what should i do in the mean time? i was thinking of giving her my two weeks notice but chickened out. what do i say?
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sounds like you are between a rock and a hard place, huh? well, i would tell them "Listen, i enjoy babysitting your children and everything," (even though you may not enjoy it) "but some things have come up and i can't babysit these hours any more." if she asks what has come up, tell her you're doing a school sport or you are in some kind of club.
if you don't want to talk to them directly, you can leave them a note one night after babysitting. then they will see it when they get home after you leave.if they question you about it, just say what was in the letter. that something has come up and you can't do those hours anymore.
i hope i helped.

~~Chelsey~~


Hey guys, I always have to have a book to read for my reading class. My teacher calls it our independent reading book. Anyways, I was wondering if any of you could give me the names of some really good books that you've read before. I love reading, and I can't seem to find any good books right now, so I was hoping someone could tell me some good books. I like to read fiction books, mysteries, or something that has to do with romance/relationships in it. If you can, please helpt me out! Thank you so very much! :) (link)
if u like movies, you could read books based on movies. the books aren't as good as the movies but, i hate reading so...it's the best i can do.

~~Chelsey~~


y sqaured + 4y = 6y?
PLEASE tell me if that's right (i doubt it is), and if its not what is it and why? (link)
if you need help with math go to www.algebrahelp.com
or you could go to Google and look up math help.

hope i helped.

~~chelsey~~




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