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Pervert
I started to babysit for money. But there's this evil little kid that is very young (only 6!!) but is verrry perverted. He watches rated R movies, fastforwarding to sex scenes, and he's always trying to touch my parts. I'm 15!! How gross is that?! I told his parents about it, but they wouldn't believe me. He acts like an angel in front of them I guess. I yell at him and everything, but nothing works!!
WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?
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Take the movies away & hide them until his parents get back--as the babysitter you have every right to this. You seriously should punish him by keeping him away from the other kids (if any) and try to talk to his parents again, or yours! Wherever he keeps the rated R movies, is where you should replace them with some kid-friendly movies instead, so he can adjust to that. His mental health-state is kind of on the line at that age considering he shouldn't exactly have a perverted mind and his hormones really shouldn't be raging so early in life. I advise you to stop babysitting for these people if this continues. Play some board games with him or something, I think he's looking for attention. Maybe because his parents aren't always there for him I guess, & I know you probably do want to help his parents but think about it. How nice can his parents be if they do believe you on something so serious?
Good Luck <33
-Remembrance
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i feel really sorry for you,
i agree witht he camera idea but you might not be ale to do it and chances are hell notice .
I would say, turn of the dvds of put them in a place he cant reach, or if they dont belong to the parents show them to them. explain calmy everything they need to know and say why would you make this up and your really sorry but if this continues you will quit but you really dont want to becuase you enjoy babysitting.
gd luck,
that kids a creep!
chewiex
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if i were you, i would keep tellin the parents when he doesn't then maybe after telling them a few times, they might believe you. something else might be to not let him watch R movies and/or not let him have the remote.
i had a similar problem. my neighbors had boys who were about 7 or 8 and they had a "boob" fettish. and of course it was in the summer when i was in a swimsuit. now i told their parents and they believed me-which is the downside for you.
if worse comes to worse, don't babysit him anymore. apparently he won't listen when you tell him to stop, and his parents are jerks and won't believe you. hope i helped
--lazy_one
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NO THATS NOT RIGHT!! SO YOU HAVE THE CHOICE TO EITHOR STOP THIs JOB OR JUST KEEP ON GETTING HARRASED BY A 6 YEAR OLD!! ThERE ARE PROBABLY ALOT OF KIDS THAT YOU CaN BABYSIT THAT ARE NOT HIm!
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put a camera like close to the tv to show what you two do, and one behind or pointing towards the tv to show what he watches if his parent's don't know. as logn as his parents aren't harassing you, its probably safe to ontinue babysitting....unless you feel really uncomfortable.
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If I were you I am one that doesn't like to tell people to give up, but that is your babysitting buisness/ job you are there to watch him. You don't need that crap.
Thanks have a great day and i hope i helped.
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This what you do have a camera somewhere around the tv and show the parents what there is really like.If that does`t work try to have the braveness to demand another way to work it about there own child.Also he has seen that from some body his friends,or them
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That is disturbing. Please stop baby-sitting him. Parent's never like to hear bad things about their children, so don't even bother telling them. Find other kids to babysit.
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if his parents dont want to believe you , or do anythnig to their son about it, then refuse to babysit for them, i know you need the money, but thats not right of them to not believe you, and to continue to let it happen. good luck chic- be strong
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ok he is 6 years old!!what did his parents teach him the is just ewwwwwww!
1.hide a camera somewhere
2.Punish him in the corner for a hour if he tries touching your part
3. tell your parents you cant babysit him
P.S. He is a sicko!!!
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he knows that you can't spank him and, in turn, acts inappropriately. i wouldn't continue babysitting until after meeting w/ both parents and agreeing to new rules- you delegate what movies he watches and is not allowed to touch you.
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- If you have a digital camera use the video function (almost all have them, read the manual) to tape him doing it. Just pretend you're looking at your pics or something.
- Or record him. Say something like "Why are you touching me?"
- Or have a neighbor or friend stop by.
- Or call your parents. Chances are, they will believe you.
Good luck. And, since everyone else said it...ewwwwwwwwww!
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I'm going to agree with those who said stop babysitting for him.
Since you have already told the parents and they chose to do nothing about it, let them find someone else to sit with the little pervert.
Be sure you tell them exactly why you will not be babysitting again. Some parents can't see whats right in front of them, or refuse to. :)
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Ew... this guy sounds like a total creep!
Invite friends over so they could be witness to this perverted little boy. I don't think putting on Sesame Street will work. He probably hates those shows.
Hide a camera somewhere. If he tries to feel you up, move in front of the camera, and show the tapes to his parents!
One of those ways has to work!
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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TRY GETTiN "LiTTLE KID MOVIES" ESPECiALLy iF HE iS WiTH. YOU! & iF HE ONLY TOUCHES YU WHiLE HiS PARENTS AREN`T HOME THEN LiKE HAVE A FRiEND OVER WHiLE YOU BABBYSiT HiM!. & THEN THEY CAN TELL hIS PARENTS. & TRY HAViN MORE PEOPLE.!((FRieNDS)) & iF HiS PARENTS DOTN BELiEVVE hiM! THEN MAYBE YOU JUST SHOULDNT BABYSiT HIM! i MEAN THEEREE`SZ ALWAYZ GOiN TO BE MORE PEOPLE TO BABYSIT!
&& HOPE i HELPED!
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oh lord.
what's happening to the world!?
geez. tell the kid this:
"you want a girlfriend someday, right? well, all of my friends aren't very interested in perverted guys. touching us & you watching movies like that aren't impressing us. it's actually disturbing, so unless you stop, you're never going to get a girlfriend and i'm never going to babysit you again. if you choose to keep doing this, i'm telling your parents (don't actually tell them cause you already did. i know you said they don't care, but he doesn't know that)."
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WHOAA...hes only 6 YEARS OLD!!! ....what you need to do is tell his parents that you cant babysit for him anymore if hes doing that because you feel uncomtable...really, some children like that are not going to listen even if you do yell at them...you really need to stop baby-sitting for that kid and get some new clients
-hope i helped<3
-Krazy
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You have a few choices:
1. You can stop babysitting for this kid altogether.
If it really makes you that uncomfortable, its worth it.
2. You can ask if you can babysit with a friend and have the friend talk to them if he still does it.
3. You can discipline him ( to as much as your babysitter-status can handle) and teach him that if he touches a girl there ever he could get into serious trouble or sometihng along those lines.
Good luck.. I feel for you!
<33
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