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I just lost my grandma and im looking for goos songs.
Sad or happy.
Just something.


thanks (link)
k. it sounds like its a cruel song to tell you about at a time like this, but it will make you laugh, and hopefully put you in a better mood. its 'i wanna grow old with you' by adam sandler. its about him wanting to grow old with his wife, and it makes funny (but sincere) gestures about his wife. i know- it sounds weird- but it really might help make you laugh. sorry about your loss- i know how tough they can be. just hang in there, and trust me- everything will be okay.


so yesterday my friend called me up and asked me if i ever had a blood clot the size of a nailpolish bottle come out during my period. i told her no . she said that it had tenticle looking things like a baby octopus. she thinks it might've been a miscarraige .. is this what it is? if you know anything i'll apprichiate it very much. (link)
that sounds very, very much like a miscarriage. i would call her up right away, and tell her that she needs to go to the doctor as soon as possible. even though there isnt a baby inside of her anymore, the doctor can make sure that ALL of the baby came out of her. if there's still remains, she could get a horrible and painful infection!


i've always been self concious of myself, but lately it's been really bad. i just can't find anything good about myself! here's some pictures...can you tell me honestly what you think? and what my best qualities that i should focus on are? thanks so much.
pics //
http://s37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/?action=view¤t=MEE.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/28FC2F14.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/fhjkhgdjkshja.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/122918068_397643752_0.jpg
http://i69.photobucket.com/albums/i55/STRiiKExAxPOSE/skipper/1315613819_l.jpg (link)
i really like the first and last pics. i think the first thing i notice on you is your eyes, theyre very big, and can catch anyone's attention.


Me and this guy have been dating for a while and we had sex a couple of times. then today i found out that we are second cousins! he didnt know either. i really love him. do we have to break up? (link)
breaking up, or stayng together is all on yuo guys- its a mtter of opinion. but i would like to warn you though, that becase you are closer than 6th cousins- if you happen to get pregnant by him -your child will absolutely positively come out retarded, or with a dysability.


what does to "tag team" someone mean? (link)
two guys taking advantage of a girl who is slutty enough to let it happen in the first place.


I just tried oxypads for the first time and they burn. My face is stinging pretty bad. Is this normal? (link)
its normal. it jsut means that your skin is getting cleaned. its definetely a good thing.


So...I want to put a color in my hair for the summer holidays which is 2 months. I heard about Loreal mousse....but I don't know how effective it is! I want somehin that's really real lookong but can wash off after since my mum will not want me do it for permanant...plus I'm in school and I can't dye my hair during school!

Any ideas? (link)
the mousse stuff is the best way to go. i used the cherry somethnig or another once, and i bought blue contacts- i promise you - even my closest friends had a hard tme telling who i was- it was awesome.


what does it mean when a guy tells a girl she looks like a freak (in sex terms).
haha like i was at this one party and we were just goofying off. we started playing "never have i ever" and the topic sex came up. and haha they accused me of having done stuff in the "sex closet" (yes we have a sex closet). the one guy was like (jokingly) "dude i bet that girl is sucha a freak, like in sex terms." and he was like "dude she even just looks like one too! haha" but he was REALLY nice and stuff, he wasn't saying it to be mean.. i could tell

and i was like wtf? did he think i was ugly or something? please help (link)
when it comes down to it, it mea ns that the guy thinks youre easy, and that he will be able to do anything he wants to you. dont take it as a compliment- its the farthest thing from it.


would it be a turn off for a guy if the girl he's dating has never been with anyone before. not even like a first kiss? because im a freshmen and im starting to date this junior and he's really cute and stuff and has been with other girls, but i've never been with a guy before. is that a major turn off, or would it be a turn on? thanks for your advice! (link)
i would think most guys would see it as a turn- on. but they will also use it to their advantage, and take advantage of you. be careful, chica- and dont do nethnig you feel weird doing.


I know it's bad, but this is my question. When me and my friends smoke pot, they always get high and I never do. The most I get is a little dizzy. I don't even get giggly? What's going on? (link)
youre either A; not inhaling
or
B: more tolerant to pot.

but i think you jsut arent smoking it right.


my boyfriend and i thought i was pregnant, because i forgot the last time i had my period. we were just laying together last night and he had his hand on my stomach and then he took his hand off like he took something out though, so i was like what are you doing? and he said your not pregnant anymore so then i said, what do you mean? and he said i prayed to god and told him we werent ready and to please take the baby away because you dont want a baby right now. and then he was saying id have my period soon and that everything will be ok now. and, i got it this morning. yeah its a silly question but the only reason why im questioning it is because i did feel like i had a little person in me and that i loved it, and as crazy as it sounds..i actually felt like i missed it like it actually was gone after he said all that. so my question is, is that even possible god could have done that? (link)
you cant question God- he works in mysterious ways- but i do think its a little weird that your boyfriend would tell you that. but theres no doubt in my mind that God could have taken complete control of the situation. i admire the both of you for having such a strong sense for God, and i admire that you two are that close. good luck, and best wishes.


I need help deciding between 2 pictures to send in for an audition. I know these are basically exactly the same, but I can't pick the better one.

Help?

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b123/flippyfloppas/mebluee.jpg

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b123/flippyfloppas/mebluee2.jpg
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i dont really understand either one. i mean, your eyes look like youre dead. are you auditioning for thriller?


okay so there is this guy i have liked for 2 years and i would do anything for him ANYTHING. i think about him constantly and whenever he looks at me i get all excited. I talk about him all the time and I know exaclty where to sit at lunch so he can see me and i can see him. He has had a lot of recent problems with family,drugs ,gangs, and freinds and i balled my eyes out when one of his REALLY close familly memebers got sick. I care for him a lotand like i said i would do anything for him. and a lot of the times i see him i just want to run and give him a huge hug and kiss him. Do I like him or is this something more.....or am i just obsesed (link)
i dont think its obsession at all. i mean, you re not stalking him or nething, i think its purely affection which is completely normal. let him know how you feel, and who knows where things could go from there.


My mom wants me to visit a gynecologist...but I'm scared...(and I'm only 14!)..
Will my doctor tell my mom that I'm not a virgin??
...I dont want my mom to know yet... because I am too young for it...and she won't trust me!!
Does my mom have to be in the room with me??
And since she wants me to go does this mean she thinks I'm sexually active?(even though I am)
I'm scared...HELP!! thanks. (link)
it doesnt necessarily mean thats she thinks you are sexually active, although that could be the reason. its recommended for girls to start seeing a gynecologist for medical purposes once theyre about 13 anyways. an no, she does not have to be in there when you get checked. actually- i dont even think they let the parent stay in there, for privacy purposes, unless it is requested. and no, they will not tell yuor mom that you are sexually active, alot of the time, they wouldnt even be able to prove it if they wanted to. the only thing that would make them think you were sexually active would be that your hymen is broken, but that can happen from a number of things, not only from sex. althoguh they will ask you when you get in the office if you are sexually active, and the best thing to do is be honest with them,no matter how embarassing things might be, because they are there to help you, not make your life miserable. it will be nervewracking- but youll survive- i promise- all women do. good luck!


well me and my boyfriend have been together for three months now and we've had sex a few times. the last time we weren't planning on having sex so we didn't have a condom with us but im on the pill so i didn't think it mattered. but i had missed taking it two days before. we've continued to have sex since then but i've missed two periods. do you think im pregnant?
i daren't take a test, i jsut don't know what to tell my boyfriend if i am. (link)
theres nothnig else you can really tell your boyfriend if you are, other than, sweetheart, i think im pregnant. but there is a VERY good chance that you are pregnant, seeing as how skipping, or missing jsut one pill can set you back, not to mention you skipped two. then on top of that, the fact that it hasnt been jsut once that you guys have had sex. i think the best thing to do is maybe jsut let him know that theres a POSSIBILITY that you might be pregnant, and get tested as soon as you can. thats really all you can do. best of wishes, and i hope everything works out the way you want it to.


well i've jsut recently found out that im pregant, i took a test after i missed my last period. but me my boyfriend have had sex since then and really still want to have sex but will it harm the baby? we have a very active sex life and i dont know what to do. how can we keep our attraction to each other without sex? (link)
unles your doctor warns you otherwise, sex is a go for you up until labor. im eight months pregnant, and my boyfriend and i are still sexually active. although it is hard to maneuver around becase of my belly- believe it or not, it seems as if it feels better since ive gotten pregnant. other people may have different views, but this is just mine.


I'm moving in a week and we're getting new cell phones/plans. What is the best phone I can gete for under $250? Any deals you've seen with certain providers? I mostly call & text but pics & videos wouldn't hurt. Durability is always a plus. I want a really good phone so any opinions are appreciated. I'm sixteen & a female. (link)
i know it seems like everyone has them- but i like the razor phones. im a big fan. and now theyve got them coming out in all kinds of pretty colors. ive got the pink one, but theyre all the same phone. they get an awesome signal, and theyre very easy to manage because the buttons are a flat screen. and talk about durability- my gramma's razor got seen by the dog, and chewed up a lil bit,but it still works just like new. i recommend the razor. and cingular is the best way to go if you ask me.


okay i love photography a lot.
and today we given a fortune cookie and told to take the fortune...read it and make some sort of digital photography with what it is says.

and i got "Believe in yourself and others will too."

any ideas i can do?

thanks (link)
go to youtube.com, and type in 'sick puppies'- there shuld be a 'free hugs' video. thts the first thng i thought of. it might be inspiration for you.


My dad has yelled and cussed since I was born. For example, last night his sister called and I went over to him and I had the phone in my hand. I said, "Dad? Do you want to talk to your sister? Here's the phone." And he ignored me, so I put it down and was walking up the stairs, and he heard his sister leaving a message. He ran over to the phone, turned to me, and yelled, "YOU IDIOT! WHY DIDN'T YOU ANSWER IT?" And I didn't know what to say because I had asked him if he wanted to talk to her, but he didn't answer. I coudn't cry in front of him. I did once and he started screaming at me for it. Do I even have a reason to be upset for him saying that to me? I don't know. Sometimes I feel so stupid for getting upset over things like that and I don't think I have a reason to. I was trying to tell my mom something earlier and he walked by, glared at me, and said, "SHUT UP!" For no reason. He yells and cusses at me and my brother almost every day for no reason at all. I've talked to my mom before and she didn't do anything. The only time she's tried talking to my dad about it, he simply started cussing at me and her. He's okay one minute, then the next he's yelling like a maniac. I can't take this anymore. I'm still crying over something he said to me LAST year. Do I have a reason to be upset? What am I supposed to do? (link)
you most definetely have a reason to be upset. my father was exactly thesame way, and because of it, he ended up gettig furious one night and kicked me out of the house. but i am doing beter now than i evr was over there. i really hpe it does not get to this point for you, but feel free to talk to me if youd like- ive been there and done that.
AIM- nickelly7440


I had sex with my gf with a condom, there were no splits or breaks in the condom at all, there was no slip at all and there was semen in the condom.

But there was a white fluid in my gf's vagina, it was whiter than normal semen, had a different texture (more like a cream) and smelt of condom lubrication but i wasn't sure what exactly it could be: there isnt that much lubrication on a normal condom, and it couldnt have been semen because the condom was perefectly secure with no breaks or slips.

Could it be a mix of vaginal fluids and condom lubrication? Or is this something i should be worried about? (link)
to tell you the truth- dont get scared- but it sounds like she has some kind of infection. that def. does not sound very normal.




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