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turn-off ?
would it be a turn off for a guy if the girl he's dating has never been with anyone before. not even like a first kiss? because im a freshmen and im starting to date this junior and he's really cute and stuff and has been with other girls, but i've never been with a guy before. is that a major turn off, or would it be a turn on? thanks for your advice!
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i would think most guys would see it as a turn- on. but they will also use it to their advantage, and take advantage of you. be careful, chica- and dont do nethnig you feel weird doing.
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well considering that your a freshman he probably figures that you've never been with a guy before. Just play it cool and act like you've dont this before. Best of Luck!
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most guys i know would think it's a turn on. because they are the first for you. it's like something that gives them a boost. im sorry but now i am going to do the after school special thing.. make sure that it's what you want, because alot of times, once a guy gets what he wants with a girl, he just drops her..especially if he was her first. so just think about it before anything happens. take care:)
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it all depends on the guy. some guys love the idea that they'll be your first and think its really sweet and cute, whereas other guys like experience. but i wouldnt say it would ever be a turn off, if a guy likes you then it wont make a difference to him.
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I'm a girl, so I can't help too much with this. But one of my guy friends is always talking about how he wants to date a girl who's never kissed anyone before. So i'm guessing that most guys would like that, unless they're agressive assholes.
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It's different for some guys. Some guys want experienced girls, so they can have sex with them or makeout. I don't think that's the way to go.
It could be a turn on because he could find you innocent & cute. The whole virgin thing.. apparently it's a turn on.
But you could always tell him about how you haven't had your first kiss. How you saved it for a perfect moment, you know? (even if you didn't)
So he would understand that you're not experienced in that area and he would help you out.
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aww i was exactly in your position 2 years ago =] anyways, i was a freshman, dating a junior. although i did have my first kiss already, i was unexperienced with everything else. if the guy isn't a jerk, he will help you with stuff and find it cute. my ex helped me through kissing, oral, sex, and basically just tought me everything. (we dated for 2 years). anyways, if the guy REALLY cares about you and isn't in it just for sex.. then it shouldn't matter to him. not to mention.. guys like virgins because they seem "untouched".. and they basically want to be the first.
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