salaam.peace..
okay straight to the point... my name is Zainab. im 17 years old, and i grew up in Montana. i am a muslim, Alhamdulillah. i converted to Islam about a year and a half ago. it's the best thing in my life! i love to help people, so if there is anything i can help with, just let me know:)
okay take care.
Peace two fingers,
*Z*
E-mail: muslimah4life1@yahoo.com
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Hey Y'all!! :]]
I'm a girl and sometimes I get turned on by other girls. Does this make me a lesbian?? I dont want to have a relationship with them though. And I get crushes on guys, not girls. What do ya think? (link)
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dear lesbian or not,
it's normal for girls to experience times where they like other girls physically. it doesn't happen to all, but it's not abnormal. no sweetie, you aren't a lesbian, unless it doesn't go away, and you are turned-off by guys.hope this helps some. take care
*Z*
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I need some good date ideas that aren't totally expensive. I was thinking bowling and dinner, anything under 70 bucks a date - cause thats as much as I can afford right now..... I know, I'm cheap - but I'm getting a job soon, so that wont be too much of an issue soon enough. (link)
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how about the classics..dinner and a movie. let her/him choose the movie.. or a movie night in, if it's not the first date.. if you live near a beach, maybe dinner and a walk on the beach at sunset or by moonlight. just something nice. it doesn't have to cost money for your date to love it. hope you have fun:) take care
*Z*
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Well i like this girl but i cant seem to get past the "friends" stage can i please get some advice preferably from a girl telling me what girls like. (link)
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dear notice me,
shyness is key. we love it when guys are shy, but not too shy to where we have to make the first move. try saying how nice she looks, not sexy, not hot, but beautiful or wonderful. drop subtle hints that you like her. then if she still doesn't get the hint, just ask her if she wants to hang sometime. tell her that there is no pressure, just as friends for now:)..hope this helps, and i hope all goes well. take care
*Z*
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soo usually i go to bed around 1-3 am, then wake up between 7-7:30 for school. would it be ok to leave a tampon in during the night? i for sure always wake up in the mornings, and i put new ones in right before i go to sleep. (link)
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i do it, and it hasn't hurt me. but since everyone is different, you should try it and if anything happens, or feels different, make sure you stop. but make sure that it is a new one you put in before bed, and a new one after you wake up. hope this helped:) take care
*Z*
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Ok well, I went out with my best guy friend and then after a week dumped him because it felt weird going out with my friend. Its been a month or so since we broke up and hes still mad at me. at first I was over him then I found out he was saying stuff about me and it made me mad. About 2 weeks ago he stopped talking about me and just started ignoring me. Last night, I went to this party and he was there, and he wouldn't talk to me. I was going to talk to him but I chickened out. I started flirting with his bestfriend to make him jealous. I don't know if it worked because I saw him looking at me with a blank stare but thats about it. Now I can't stop thinking about him. But the thing I dont want to like him! (link)
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dear i don't want to like him,
first of all, you can't choose who you truly like. of course it's going to be strange going out with a friend. but sometimes it can make for a stonger relationship because you already have the friendship to support it. When you dumped him, you should have talked to him about your feelings, and asked what he thought about it, maybe you could have gotten over the weird factor. Just talk to him now, and tell him how you feel and how you felt while dating him. you never know, maybe you two will have something in common there. and if you can't stop thinking of him, you like him. and it's best if you just accept that. so go talk to him:). take care
*Z*
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would it be a turn off for a guy if the girl he's dating has never been with anyone before. not even like a first kiss? because im a freshmen and im starting to date this junior and he's really cute and stuff and has been with other girls, but i've never been with a guy before. is that a major turn off, or would it be a turn on? thanks for your advice! (link)
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most guys i know would think it's a turn on. because they are the first for you. it's like something that gives them a boost. im sorry but now i am going to do the after school special thing.. make sure that it's what you want, because alot of times, once a guy gets what he wants with a girl, he just drops her..especially if he was her first. so just think about it before anything happens. take care:)
*Z*
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