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thanx for the response to my question. i really think i do like this guy but its so odd around him mainly because well he used to be best friends with this one girl, alex. and when i first started hanging out with them i also became friends with alex. but then they had issues and now they dont talk to eachother but since we have all the same friends, they are always around eachother. so often times im talking to her and he will pull me away and then its hard because i hate to have to choose between them. and after skool since we all are in 6th period together she will want me to go with her and he wants to walk with me so i always have to let someone down. like today alex said come to the bathroom with me so i said ok. then he asked me which way i wanted to walk with him. so i told him i was going with alex and he responded "oh", and it seemed by the look on his face that he was sad. another problem is that he used to cling on to me like make up pet names for me and all and then all the other girls in our group were saying that he was being annoying and hardly talking to them anymore because he just wanted to be around me. but now he acts all awkward because i think he might have been told that he was annoying me and now he acts like strange. what should i do? does he like me? thanx in advance! i luv you! haha (link)
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ok im was just going the same sort of thing last week. No lie!! it was the exact thing almost. well there are a couple of things you can do. or at least try!
Ok About walking w/them: 1)the best idea is to either switch days walking with them, like one day you walk with alex the next day with the other person. (and make sure you have a day to have sometime with yourself or something)
2)Walk with the person who asks you first, and tell the other you will walk with them next time or something.
And if this guy said "oh" with that look like they are sad/disappointed/mad then i think he is deffiantley into you or at least a little bit instrested.
And ask him why has he been acting different but don't make it in a harsh way.
If I was you I would try to talk to him about maybe going out or something cuz yall sound like yall like each other.
Well i g2g. hope I helped. luv ya 2. ;-) haha
~Michelle~
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well this is a very complicated situation but here it goes. i have a best friend. i like him. he doesnt know that i do. i used to like him but that was a totally different situation and anyways i thought he liked me back but it turned out that he didnt. but then i told him i didnt like him anymore and after like a week of not liking him i liked him again. but now like a month later i think i might stop liking him and i dont really want to. but lately he has been acting rather strange. it seemed like he was being too clingy and it was really annoying me. i think someone may of told him not to cling on to me so much or maybe that he was annoying me and now he still always wants to hang out with me and all but whenever we talk it seems more awkward. i dont know what to do. does he like me? i dont know if i like him anymore. i dont know what to believe anymore. thanx in advance
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I like your plan it sounds like it will go well! but if your not really sure on how u feel then you might want to wait for a while.
Cuz my b/f is totally in love w/me but i keep doubting myself that i love him... so im not really sure either, and if i do love him im afraid we will break up and in the end me finally realizing that i do but him not give me another chance.if you get wut i mean. so dont lead him on until your sure, because you could both get your heart brokded.
Hope everything goes ok.
~remember michelle loves you~
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ok so i have a boyfriend now and me and him have been going out for about 6 days. he confuses me so much because he never tells me what hes feeling.the past couple of days hes been really nice and been giving me kisses and holding me n stuff but today he was acting wierd...i was walking with him after school and he didnt even wanna give me a hug or kiss good bye...he just left.also i think he never kissed me because he was gonna fight this gang but he never did...and he got his phone taken away yesterday but i dont now if thats really the truth.he never calls anymore i miss the old him.
be honest is it me or him with the problem?...i dont now im confused.and do you think my relashoinship with him is gonna last?
advice...please...thanks... (link)
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From my point i dont really think its you. it might be if you are changing too, or acting different. Your realtionship sounds like mine sometimes... Im in sort the same thing. If i was you dont get closer to him if youre not already that close cuz he sounds like he is sorta "drifting" away. This is just my opinion.
so i hope this helps a little bit.
~remember michelle loves you~
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I've neva had a bf, and iVe neva been kissed! I'm FIFTEEN! i dont have that many guy friends, nd i want to make more! idk how tho, and i want to get a boyfriend and hook up with someone. so how do i do this? and fast! (link)
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im not really sure about getting guy friends...but the b/f thing find some one you like and if it feels right kiss them if not dont you may not want to be the only girl who hasnt kissed a guy but if its not with a guy u dont really like than i dont think its worth it, and if you want to like hook up with them as in having sex (im not sure which hook up u were talking about because were i live there are 2 different term sorta thing) anyway if you meant sex dont do it... Unless you really love the guy, be careful and make sure you use a condom!! I know you've prolly heard the "you dont want to lose your virginty to the wrong guy..." or the "...you'll wish you would have waited"... and i HATED hearing that im 13 and have had sex trust me youll wish youve listened... anyway i hope i helped, be safe, much love XO~Michelle~OX
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ok so i use to like this boy but now i dont like him but i cant keep my eyes off him..everytime i see him i cant help but to look. and in all his away messages on aim they say stuff about how all his friends got girls but hes got nobody and i always wanna tell him that he could have me. and during the day i catch myself thinking about how i would still go out with him if he ever asked me. why do i do this when i dont like him anymore? (link)
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aww!! i was the same way and still sorta am, you most really like it, your sorta like denying it or hiding fo some reason, but whatever. you should start talking to him and ask him who he likes and maybe ask him out, flirt or something... It sounds like you really like him!!
Go for it!!! (hope i helped!!)
much love XO~Michelle~OX
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I like this boy soo much, im always thinking about him and i always had a crush on him for like , 3 years?
We used to live near eachother and at that point, we
had sex and all that stuff.
Then i moved and things changed, we didnt talk as much and so on,so yeah i thought he used me.
Because he would act soo mean to me and be rude and call me fat and ugly and all that stuff.
But alllll the guys do that to me, all of his friends.
and he would never be mean to me unless his friends were around.
And then his BEST friend told me that he liked me and he just does that as a cover up to make himself look cool.
And i think his friend is telling the truth because he wouldnt randomly say that.
So then i thought he was just mean to me to get my attention, so sometimes I would ignore it.
Lately we had to be around eachother alot for certain reasons and he kept doing little stuff to me trying to get my attention like throw little things at me, pull my hair, take some of my stuff,say little comments, and he would do the same stuff i would do.
And he always tends to remember exactly what i say and bring up fun times we used to have , but he only does that stuff if we are around eachother and in front of his friends he doesnt really tak to me and if he does , he tries to be mean.But he has a girlfriend, bu t his best friend said he liked me and his girlfriend[obviously lol] and i dont act like i like him, i just like him sooo much.
And In your opinion do you think he likes me?
Or am i crazy?
and when and how should i tell him i like him, or should i keep it a secret?
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It sounds like he likes you to me, i dont think your crazy boys are just confusing as for how to tell him and stuff i let some one else answer that... sorry i didnt help much.
You could try to bring up liking people and stuff when its just you and him, maybe bring up that you like him...
hope i helped a lil bit..
~Michelle~
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16/f, my friend, 16/m and I used to be best friends. Then we just stopped talking for awhile, now we're trying to mend our friendship and get back to our bestfriend status. He has come over the past two nights, which is what he used to do when we were best friends. What are some things we could do, I always feel like he gets bored and won't want to come over one day? Anything except sexual things, thank you. (link)
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watch movies,play games,talk, (since your 16 your prolly thinking games wtf??well you need lil bit of fun in life too,if you were thinkin wtf.) yea im confusing ok back on subject go out and maybe do something like go bowling or go play golf... If you or him have a pool go swimming when it gets warmer, or if one of you two have a b-ball thing play b-ball.
Hope I helped at least a tiny bit.
~Michelle~
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I've asked this question before but let me clarify it up a little bit more [I was typing it at school and lunch was almost over soo...]
So I've been bff's with [let's call him Chris] Chris since last year, which is a long time for both of us since we never have kept best friends for so long. But anywhos, I'm good at giving advice [=P] and being serious when I need to [along with being good at keeping secrets and my mouth shut]. The thing is that Chris and I joke around a LOT and we just talk about nonsense things like a made up flododo [It's a flamango and a fish of some sort mixed together]. And so I have this frivolous/clumsy personality around Chris.
Well, I've talked about a serious stuff [He and I were going through a major crisis] two or three times last year and it was about it. I just found out that he talks about serious stuff with 2 of my other friends [whom I dislike much] and I'm kind of jealous that he'd talk to them about serious stuff while he doesn't to me. Like for English class, he wrote about me for a journal entry and said "My bff is very talkative and is clumbsy a lot [skip parts] She's unique and fun to be around and I guess I'm drawn to her because we share so many common interests" -- But I think that's all he sees me as--not someone he can go to for a talk. [And yes, that was a sweet thing for him to write because he's not a people person at all and he's apathetic most of the time]
But I don't know how I can show him that I'm a serious person [since he's in a random/frivolous mood around me] without mentioning it straight out. The only thing I can talk seriously to him about is about my family and that's about it. I'm not ready to tell him that I'm bi [although, including him, half my friends are homosexual or bisexual] or get into any my serious problems. [I'm not ready to tel anyone about those anyway] But anywhos, getting back to the question: How can I show him or what can I tell him to let him open up to me about serious things without straightout telling him "I want you to tell me about serious stuff" or something along those lines
Thanks for any help you can give me! (link)
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I think you should tell your freind that you called "Chris", you might want to tell him straight up, if you'll arent joking around, and the mood gets a little serious try to bring it up and let him know how you feel.
Or just straight up tell him. I know how hard it can be when you and a friend always joke around but sometimes you want to be serious, try to just slip it up in a conversation maybe...
Hope I helped at least a tiny bit.
~Michelle~
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sorry, this is gonna be long. so i like two boys. lets call them a and b.
ive known a longer. hes kissed me before, but told me he didnt have feelings for me. but that was a while ago. he kissed me again two weeks ago, but we havent talked about it because im kinda scared about what hes gonna say. hes one of the cutest guys in school, and a lot of girls like him. hes also kind of a "manwhore". not really, just kind of. but hes real sweet when im with him and gives me butterflies and makes me smile like no other person. he flirts with me a lot too. but we kinda have had an on and off relationship since ive known him.
okay, now b. ive also had an on and off relationship with him, cuz i rarely see him and stuff. hes really nice though. everyone knows him as the nice guy. and hes cute. i met him through my "big brother". me, "my bro" and our friends all do bad shit. they all smoke and drink and we do shit like that, but he doesnt. hes always like the designated driver and stuff cuz hes straight edge and stuff. hes more shy though. he doesnt really flirt with me that much, not in the way a does anyways. a flirts with me like.. more in actions. b flirts with me more just like joking around. we joke around and make fun of each other. hes sweet too and also makes me smile and stuff, but hes off to college next year.
so who should i go after more? or who would be a better choice? (link)
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In my eyes I think "b" would be better... he seems really nice and sweet..he would prolly treat you better than "a" too...."b" would prolly be there to be a designated driver [which prolly means he cares for you!That is a really good thing.. :-) ]
He might be going to college but things will prolly work out good... (in my eyes "b" would be a keeper)
"a" does sound like a "manwhore-ish" type of guy...which prolly means he just wants to use you.... if you want to be with him go for it...it sounds like you like the "bad boy" type... if he is sweet to you and gives you butterflies and you really think you like him go for it....
hope this helps..even just a little...
hope who ever you choose treats u good!!
~*Shelly-Boo*~
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ok iv really like this guy for a while, and hes the first guy that iv actually reaaaally been interested in. wev kissed and stuff befor but wev never gone out. During the summer i kno he liked me because he was really protective and stuff.but now he wants to do like sexual stuff with me , and i kind of want to but im not sure if hes using me or not. Also i dont want to seem cheap, but its kind of hard because i do wanna do that stuff and i really liek him. usually i lose interest in guys pretty quickly but this ones got me crazy haha. so what should i do? how do i find out if hes using me? (link)
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ok..im 14 && lost my virginity at 13.. if your a virgin u should really keep it for a while... because you want to do it with the right guy... I didnt listen to that advice i hated hearing but now i feel the same way... itd prolle be better if u dont do sexual stuff if your not going out either...
~Shelly-boo~
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how do you communicate with your boyfriend when your in the same class? like all lovey dovey, or like.. as friends? idk.. i just got my first boyfriend today and i dunno how to act tomorrow.. he sits near me for like 2 classes and we already had our first kiss. (link)
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Just be like you... be sweet and stuff... still flirt or whatever.... if your sneaky text him or write him notes.... && sometimes when you rnot in the same class write him a note to give to him in the hallways and stuff...
Hope this helps!!
~Shelly-boo~
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I really feel very hopeless. I hate it whenever I meet up with difficulties in life. I just wanna give up and watch the world go by. I don't understand life. I don't understand how people can pick themselves up. I'm in depression right now and I'm just sinking deeper and deeper. People say that things can only get better but it doesn't. Life sucks. I feel like just dying and quiting from this race against time to get things done. Someone just answer , help me to feel better. People, try to give me as many replies as possible. I'd highly appreciate it. (link)
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Ok...stop feeling so "blah" (it is when you are depressed and stuff) go out and doing something you enjoy!
Someone loves you so don't hurt yourself whatever you do...
You have to take life one step at a time... solve problems slowly try to enjoy your life...
maybe even go to a conselor or whatever you call that person...
~Michelle~
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what do you do with your toungue while french kissing????? i know you can make it go around in circles around theirs, but what else can you do???? ive searched google but i cant find any information!! (link)
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i wasnt sure what to do either... well i found this site and it helped me... so
you can try to go to the website:
http://www.coolnurse.com/frenchkiss.htm
if it doesnt work then try this:
go to google
search for "coolnurse.com"
when you find the site it should say on the homepage these topics:"your sexuality","you can quit smoking", and some other things...
go to "glossory" (on the left side of the screen)
then go to "sex stuff" (left side again)
you should see "French kissing" in blue just click it and it will give you a lot of different techniques and stuff...
Hopes this helps!!!
~Michelle~
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ok this is probably a weird question but i really dont have any one to turn 2 but theres this boy who ive been liking for 4 months now....in december me and him hung out and on that day we held hands and even made out a few times but we arent going out we werent going out back then either...i told him how i felt more than once but he still insists that we remain friends and now its getting to the point were i cry because of this one boy and i cant stand to see myself not with him but then again i dont want to feel this anymore i dont want to like him anymore how do i stop liking him ? (link)
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i dont think there is away to really stop liking him..until u find some one else.... i had the same problem and i couldnt get over him... (it was like for 2 yearz)....i could of had a lot of other people...but i waitd to see if i could get him..which was stupid..dont wait on him...try to find some one new!its hard but try!! good luck!
peaz out (da can)
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I already wrote this one in another one but it got deleted but i like this guy named Raul and i want him to go out with me. I have already told him that i like him and i asked him to go out with me but he says he will call me but never does. And i normally cant talk to him without flirting with him. What can i do so he will say yes? (link)
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i dont really think there is a way for you to make him like you...if he doesn't like you then he doesn't..not trying to be mean but you can't make somone like you...Next time you talk to him tell him straigt up you like him...and ask him if he likes you or not..tell him you need an answer...because you need to move on...don't wait around...Keep flirting and stuff though...he may really like you! don't wait on a guy too long cuz you might miss another one!!! GOOD LUCK...and keep me posted please!!
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theres this boy that i think i really like. hes not the coolest person ever (not that it should matter...but i havent even told my best friend that i like him yet) anyways, what are some subtle ways to hint to him that i like him cause in one of my classes we sit next to eachother and talk all the time...so what are some things i can do to hint it? cause i want him to know but im not ready to say it yet.. thanks (link)
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try to talk to him about things he is intrested in...like sports and stuff...or if your not intrested in any sports then try stuff that happend in school...
Do you hang out any where that he hangs out? because if you do then talk about what happends there...stuff like that...
And when the time comes where you want to go out with him and you want to tell him you like him... its best for you to tell him!!! Guys (normally) like it when you tell them that you like them straight up!!! my b/f found out by best friend and I didnt know..then the next day (which he still hadnt said anything to me about it) the WHOLE school knew about it!!It was embarassing but it was cool in the end..cuz I got his # and now weve been going out for like 3 monthz!!so GOOD LUCK and let me know what happens!!
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ok so me and my boyfriend have tried having sex once before but it hurt really bad and a few other things happened and it just didn't work out completely. my question is, are there any way i can make it hurt less?
he fingers me right before and says im wet/relaxed enough but then as soon as he tried to put his penis in he couldnt, even though i felt i was relaxed too. also, the few times he did get in it hurt really really bad, i get that it's supposed to but are there any ways to make it hurt less?
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If it was your first time then it probably hurt so bad because you "popped your cherry"... I know it hurts a LOT...I wanted to cry my first time...my second time it only hurt for a couple of minutes...My boyfriend fingered me right before sex too...it helped the first time... Like snickerzz11 said try the lubricant...it might help!I hope this helps or at least prepares you for the next time! (but im not sure if it will!)but good luck...~Michelle~
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So as everyone knows, Christmas is in two days. I still don't have any presents for my mom, dad, sister, or grandparents! I don't have any money either, and I dont want to ask people for money, so I was thinking of making them gifts. I need some ideas, something easy, that I could make in a day. Any advice is appreciated!
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i like jenns idea..but u could also make some sort of food.(for your dad && grandfather especially...the best way to a mans heart is through his stomach)..or find some recipes for your mom and grandmother...or you could write them something...like a letter or poem telling them how much they mean to you and stuff!!And for your sister maybe you could offer to help her with homework or chores or something... thats what i normally do!!i hope this helps...good luck!!and let me know what happens!
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