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i was dating this guy from December 23rd to April 24th. he broke up with me because he said that he never got to see me enough. i thought i was in love with him and i would have given up everything for him. i was ready to give him my virginity. i didn't though (thank god) because i found out that he was going around and messing with other girls. i had begged him before i found that out to come back to me and he said "when we start school i'll think about it because i still do love you." well about a month later i met this really amazing guy named tim and we've been together since may 22nd and i love him more than anything in the world. he treats me so great and he would never hurt me like that. i started school today and this girl that i've known since i was really little, she had gone to another elementry school than me, i found out that she might go out with him. i told her not to because of the things he did to me. she wouldn't believe me at all. so i told her if you want to go out with him, fine, but if you come crying to me telling me that he's been messing around with other chicks i'm just gonna say i told you so. she said okay. she told me later in the day that he still had feelings for me and now she's not sure if she wants to go out with him or not.she won't believe anything i say! she thinks i'm just doing it because i'm jealous and i'm not. i love my boyfriend and i DO NOT like this other guy anymore and today i found out that she gave him HEAD and that's she's not a virgin. If she did that to him then that's the only reason why he's gonna want to be with her is because of that. and if he finds out that she's had sex then he's gonna want to have sex with her as well. He treats girls like shit and i can't take it... she came up to me today saying "em, it makes me really annoyed that you say that stuff about rob and it's not even true." i was like okay... and you definately know first hand? she's only known him for a month... NOT EVEN! THEY ARENT EVEN DATING! should i just be straight forward and tell her what he's gonna want from her? or should i let her get hurt?
I think that u should be straight forward with her even though shes not believin what yoour saying. She may not believe you when you tell her what he wants from her,but tell her anyways-she at least deserves to know. If she doesnt believe you when you tell her this just try to forget about her becasue shes making a major mistake and didnt listen to you when you told her and you have known him and you found out first-hand. And if she decides to go ahead and do this with this guy shes not even dating tehn she will get hurt and it will be her fault and not anyone elses.
Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do??
It shooudlnt matter wheather hes cute or not. I have been thru this many times and its just like the more u get ot know the person and liek the guy the hotter they appear on the outside(i know it sounds tacky but its true..) especially if u like him-you should go for it and dont miss out on this chance!!
hey,
I really like this kid but he has a gf (who is my friend) She keeps bugging me about who i like but i dont wanna tell her that im inlove with her boyfriend cuz i dont want her to dump him because of me! even though i hate it when they are together! HELP what should i do?
By the way im a 15 year old Female
Ok well if u really like this kid-like alot-then maybe u owe it to urself to atleast tell her how you feel about this boy. She may not dump him because of how u feel-if she does its not your fault though...She made the decision to dump him becuz she really cares about you.And if it dus bother you when they hang out together and she doesnt dump him-tehn just dont hang out with him.
well ok i am feamle and i am a teenager... here is my situation i just bought some new under-wear and i have been missing them for a little while ...and i think when one of my frends changed in my room and that she took a pair of my under-wear...and i think i saw her wearing them (which is a little discusting) but i don't know how to ask her without sounding weird or stupid. What should i say to my friend??? Signed Don't want to point fingers or blame!!! Please help me as soon sa possible !! thank you
ok...well i definately think yu should casually ask your friend the next time you see her-oh did u happen to see my underwear or when u changed in my room-did u by accident pick up my underwear with ur clothes cuz i cant see to find them and i thought i saw u wearing them or sumthing like that.
i used to b kinda average looking and then i became prettier (not trying to b conceited) and now alot of guys like me. i guess im also taking attention away from other girls who are used to getting attention. now all these bitches are starting rumors and calling me a slut and saying allll this other shit. what should i do
ya.. alot of girls who are use to the attention-and some preetier girl comes along and steals it. yOu should just get use to it and dont let them get to you-if you let those gay girls with no lifee get to u you will be driving urself crazyy! so try as hard as u can to ignore them and just hang with your friends. Those girls are def. jelous and just arent use to someone else gettin the attention they once had-Oh well they will get over it so dont worry and dont let them bring down your confidence!
Well I'm "going out" with this guy from school..But when we talk we have like no conversation and I was talking to him about his ex-girlfriend and he said he didnt want her knwoing about me cuz they might be together in the future...well idk i didnt say anything...i think he wants me just for stuff...and when hes sick of me he'll leave...well i dont really like the guy i mean im just going out with him to see if i start liking him and so far our "relationship" is going nowhere. hes a pretty cool guy but i think we'd be better off as friends.. Hes a druggie, he drinks (im not into that) and he likes to rush into things with his gf's...ok so heres my problem. i wanna tell him i dont think going out is a good idea and im gonna tell him why i think that but i dont wanna seem..well mean i guess..the guy has been wanting to go out with me for over a year now! he was all excited cuz i told him i would do stuff (if i was comforable enough) to him but i wouldent go all the way...sooo idk its like hes using me for a while until he goes out with his x again...i wanna break up but i dont want him mad at me..any advice?? Thanks and sorry its so long!
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Ok-you definately need to break it off with this guy becuz he is obviously bad news. There are a couple ways to do this-he is probably not going totake it good either way but oh well. You can just talk to him nicely and mention that you would much rather be friends then b/f and g/f becuase things just arent feeling the same-or because your not feeling it. Or (i dont reccomend this way) you can say to him-i think your using me and i dont liek that feeling-i deserve better then this-so i think its time we break up. or you could talk to him first and ask if hes using you just for what you would do-or if you go over his house-just be like what if i didnt do anything with you-would you be mad or dump me?-and that should tell you if hes using you or not.
HoPe i HeLpEd!!
Hi!
Im the on e who has a problem about a mom paying $5.00 per less than 4 hours.
Im thinking everybody who answer my question really help, so thanks to every single one of you.
But what if im only 14, maybe she think that im only 14 that's why she need me to pay less than.
What should I do help.
I answered your other question before too. Your babysittin and u deserve more money-your age doesnt matter at all....or at least it shouldnt-just talk to the mother about a raise.
Hi!!! I need your help, Im baby sitting this boy for almost a year now before her mom paying a fare salary but now I kinda don't like the way she pays me, I let her do that twice but now I don't think it's fare for me her mom paying me $5.00 for at least 4 hours, and I think that is so unfair. The boy is fine but he kinda eat a a lot so I need to fed him, because I dont want him to starve you know.
Im afraid at talkiing to people, because maybe she will get mad.
What should I say to her.
Help me!!
thanks!
Wow! i definately think you should bring it up to the mother-just say to her when your getting ready to leave or whatever-I really feel that im not being payed fairly and i think i deserve more money. Then if shes ok with that you could set up a wage that works for both of you.
Dear advice person,
I have a problem. I have no money and I have to buy my mom a birthday present. My little sister Ameila-Jo got my mom a very pretty bracelet. So now i really have to get her something or I'll look dumb since Im 11 and shes only 9. I spent my money on a doll for my self and now I feel bad that I cant afford a gift for my mom. Please help me.
Sara-Mae
I really dont think your mom is gonna mind thta u didnt get her a present-but if it means alot to you that u get her something-why dont u make her a present instead of buying her something with money u dont have.It would probably be more meainful to her then a store bought gift.
Alright here i go.. I really like this girl! i mean i really really really do.. And I've liked her since i met her (beggining of 6th grade) yes i kno thats a long time.. I really don't want to like her but I cant stop as much as i try!! it's soo hard! But I like love her though.. It's a cool feeling lol.. But the problem is.. she don't love me back =/.. Not even like actually.. I wanna give up soo bad but i can't.. I mean we gave it a try going out but it never worked I always got dumped! lol and I kinda feel wierd telling her that I like her cause I don't think she knows I still do.. Soo my dearest Cailin.. Should I give up ... or keep trying for her?
from, haha i shall not tell
Ok, well i can see where your coming from when you say you have liked her for a long time and almost non-stop. Maybe sometime soon she will realise that your a great guy and that shes missing alot...but if she doesnt come around soon enough you should probably move on to someone new who appricates you more.Im not saying totally give up or anything juss wait it out and see...
im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!!
OK to tell u the truth so many people die from anorexia each year-its really dangerous.If you become anorexic then stop(which is very hard to do)you will end up gaining more weight then u already had. Why not try working out/running and a set diet instead of skipping meals?
Ok,i like this boy but were friends and all.Really good friends.But like everytime we talk i get so into the conversation and just want 2 blurt out that i like him.Should I??
Signed NEED HELP FAST!
Well i definately think u should let him know how u feel-however blurting it out may not be the right way to go about it. You can try seeing how he feels about u or seeing if he has special feelings about any other girls. Then if the timing is right(you'll know) just casually ask what do u think of us as a couple-i think ew would make a cute one-or sumthign like that.
well, over the years i've sturrgled through school, not with friends, not with grades, not with teachers, but i get so nervous over everything. It's so stupid! I get so nervous over everything....like i'll be nervous to go to class tomorrow cuz i'll think i'll get in trouble or i think the teacher is gonna hate me!! I hate it, i've always had this thing ever since 1st grade only my mom knows about it. It's rele dump and i feel like an as*! I jus started 7th grade and i feel so stupid! i feel like a mental house, what should i do, :(
OK.. i have had similar problems in the past where i have been nervous over certain things and here is what helped me thru it. I tried to just take deep breaths n think good thoughts-like find ur happy place(even tho it sounds really tacky it works)and then i tried just to relax n think of things or do things that make me totally relax.