Question Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 5:53 pm
i used to b kinda average looking and then i became prettier (not trying to b conceited) and now alot of guys like me. i guess im also taking attention away from other girls who are used to getting attention. now all these bitches are starting rumors and calling me a slut and saying allll this other shit. what should i do
Magenta answered Monday September 13 2004, 2:07 pm: "Yup, I'm a slut, you want some baby?" Just accept it, and twist it, and throw it back in their faces. At the end of the day, they'll end up looking like the silly children they are. [ Magenta's advice column | Ask Magenta A Question ]
Girl answered Thursday September 2 2004, 8:40 pm: Ignore them, Girls are lame like that, You'll probably always have that problem. Does it really matter what they say? You know your not and people who know you and are your friends know your not so dont sweat the small stuff. [ Girl's advice column | Ask Girl A Question ]
psychobarbiedoll answered Thursday September 2 2004, 8:36 pm: Hmmm well it's very normal to be jealous. Open-minded people don't get jealous though... I don't think lol. So find a few open-minded people to hang out with. Ignore the rumors, and DO NOT flirt with every guy who has your attention. Pretend you don't know they like you instead of flirting with them, less girls will think you're a slut. Flirting is like "throwing yourself out there" and not just the girls will say bad things about you, but guys will start calling you "easy." Trust me. [ psychobarbiedoll's advice column | Ask psychobarbiedoll A Question ]
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Thursday September 2 2004, 8:16 pm: laugh in their face... u knO they onli reason they are starting shit is cuz they r jealous and wish they had what u have... dont take it negatively be happy about it... [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
EnchantedSage answered Thursday September 2 2004, 7:52 pm: Jealous peers starting rumours and gossip about you can be a very terrible and hurtful thing to go through. The best advice I can give is to surround yourself with true friends who want good things for you, are happy when good things happen to you and are by your side supporting and standing up for you when "haters" try to bring you down. Also, it is best to take the high road and not seek retribution against those who are spreading rumors. It doesn't help to "get them back". Be the best person you can be and surround yourself with good people and eventually when the nasty people realize that they have no negative effect on you and that you are immune to their b.s., they will move on and leave you alone. It's not easy to resist the temptation to give someone a dose of their own medicine, but then you would be no better than them. Best of luck to you.
xxsportibabi17xx answered Thursday September 2 2004, 7:09 pm: ya.. alot of girls who are use to the attention-and some preetier girl comes along and steals it. yOu should just get use to it and dont let them get to you-if you let those gay girls with no lifee get to u you will be driving urself crazyy! so try as hard as u can to ignore them and just hang with your friends. Those girls are def. jelous and just arent use to someone else gettin the attention they once had-Oh well they will get over it so dont worry and dont let them bring down your confidence! [ xxsportibabi17xx's advice column | Ask xxsportibabi17xx A Question ]
xxxxxx answered Thursday September 2 2004, 6:42 pm: they are hoes for bitching. it's not your fault at all that they're jealous. it's dumb. just DONT stoop down to their level, and DONT start shit with them. Either, A) ignore them, or B) be nice an friendly to them. then they'll have no reason to hate you. they should realize that they're making asses out of themselves. [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
lifezcOnfuSing01 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 6:12 pm: all u can do is ignore them! they are all just jealous because they have competition and they arent used to their attention being taken away from them.. its normal.. just try to ignore them the best you can and thats all u can do
hope i helped :o)
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xForeverxForgottenx answered Thursday September 2 2004, 6:04 pm: just ignore them. they're just jelous. they want all the attention but they're not getting it. i'd say dont worry about them. they're not important but dont be a total bitch about getting attention too. and it sounds like your not so...yeah. hope i helped. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
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