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i like this guy nd he supposidly likesz me...but he likes other girls 2. i want him 2 invite me 2 homecoming...since im not aloud 2 go the the 1 at my school. i want him 2 invite me...but i think i need 2 tell him i like him first...how do bring it up in a conversation? help please

xOo (link)
Bring it up by saying hay, you know the dance, you should take me to it and if he says know then say I was just kidding


OK well there is a boy that i have gotten to know and he isso cute and so sweet.Well i like him and he told me he likes me but he has a GF!!!!!!well me and him flirt alot andhe knows how i feel about him and it seems like his gf and him dont really get along much cause they began going out the SAME DAY they met i mean come on get to know the person before u get with them but in there case they didn't.well when i c them togeather i feel bad because i REALLY like him and when he's with me it's like we belong togeather but i dunno wut to do because i feel like the OTHER gurl and he likes me but i dont see y he still with his gf.IM CONFUSED!!!!! (link)
I dont want to be harsh but if he isn't dumping her for you then he probably doesn't like you as much unless there are other things going on that i dont know. I wouldn't wait around for him and I really would not be friends with that chic anymore and definetly dont tell her who you like anymore


ok well i had a bestfriend that i did everything wiid..i spent lyk a week wiid her cuz of 4th of July she was tha only gurl that understud me..n`d everything..but my one friend told her i talked bout her n`d everything..i never did tho..alot my guys lyked her n`d made me a lil mad sometimes but thats it..i saw her at tha fair lyk everyday but never said nething to her..i lyk miss her alot hope u can help me*


Liz (link)
I say talk to her about whatever it was that made you guys not friends anymore. then at least everything is out in the open and if she still doesn't want to be you friend then at least you know you were the bigger person and you tried. Make sur and throw the part in about missing her as your friend


ok well see I used to like this guy named ray..we never really talked by I thought he liked me too but he didn't..soo I just kinda gave up on him..but I still sorta have feelings for him just a LITTLE..but now I like this guy named joe..and we talk alot and we're good friends and we have alot in common..problem is ray asked me out! what do I do? please don't say follow your heart...cuz its going different ways?! (link)
I say go for joe, Ray didn't want you until you were taken so its his loss


Hey, I'm 21 years old and female. I have a problem. My boyfriend of 4 years (5 October 3rd!) and I havent had sex yet. He is really not that kindof guy to ask for sex or anything. He's really patient and all we have do is makeout. We were best friends for 2 years before going out and he really respects me. I am ready to lose my virginity to him, because after 5 years of going out shouldent it be time to have some fun? lol I have been on birth control for 2 months just incase when I do ask him if he wants to have sex, he will say yes. I want to tell him I want to lose it on our anniversary but I'm really scared because how am I gonna start the conversation of sex? And since he really respects me and cares for me I think he wouldent want to. But I'm not 16 anymore, I'm a woman and I want to do this. I love him a lot and I just dont know how to ask if he wants to do this! We are talking about marriage so should we just wait till were married? Help! (link)
I wouldn't ask him If he wants to I would just iniciate it and then it's not a big deal. I'm sure he wont turn you down.


Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever

Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?

Thanks a bunch (link)
Try to hang out with him more or just tell him kinda you like im and wanna hang out somtime. He would probably be stoked if you said you wanna hang out with him.


im 5'4 n i weigh 90 and my friends and family are always telling me that i look like im loosing weight but i think im fat! i havent eaten anything in like 5 days and i feel really sick. what should i do???
xox rica (link)
You should probably eat somthing


i used to b kinda average looking and then i became prettier (not trying to b conceited) and now alot of guys like me. i guess im also taking attention away from other girls who are used to getting attention. now all these bitches are starting rumors and calling me a slut and saying allll this other shit. what should i do (link)
Ignore them, Girls are lame like that, You'll probably always have that problem. Does it really matter what they say? You know your not and people who know you and are your friends know your not so dont sweat the small stuff.


Hey im jw..is ryan seacrest gay? (link)
I think so


what does bipolar mean? (link)
Its a certain type of depression, basically another name for manic depression


ok theres this grl i like but i dont no if she likes me or no how to i no if she like me n if she wat should i do to make her go out with me bc i love her alot
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You should ask her if she likes you. If she does, great if not, depending on how old you are most girls will start to like you ounce they know you like them. I hope I helped.


ok... thers this girl that i kinda like a lil more than a freind but i have a girl that im happy with and i dont know if thsi grl fells the same about me. i dont know if i should just ask her how she feels or keep hiding the fact the i like her. (link)
you should definetly ask her how she feels, besides if you dont, you'll think about it all the time and it will ruin the relationship your already in


I've been going out with my boyfriend fro two months. well lately he's been acting odd lately, but not in a bad way. but hes been mentioning 'love' alot but never said 'i love you', for example we were talking about wat our last names meant and i said i didn't know what mine meant and he said '(his last name) loves'. its so odd because he makes sure that i know that he cares about me. dont get me wrong i love the fact that he cares about me because i care about him to, but i'm scared hes gunna say 'i love you' to me, becuase i dont love him, i care about him alot, but its not to the point of love. if he says it to me tho, what am i supposed to say? thanks for the help
-confused love (link)
Maybe you should have the talk with him about how you dont fall in love easily and just kinda let him know your not in a nonchelant type of way so he doesn't say it to you. Its nice to see sombody on here saying they have a boyfriend for 2 months and they aren't in love yet.


I am 16 years old weigh 115 lbs and im 5'4". Well I was trying on homecomming dresses at my friends house But every dress I tried on I felt soooo fat or shall I say I LOOKED so fat! I was about to cry but I couldnt cry infront of everyone. Homecomming is in about 1 month and a half away. Should I go on a diet or should I just tell my friends I cant go. My friends would be sooo mad at me if they find out im not going because I never been to a dance before. Its NOT as easy as you think it is. I been thinking about it day in and day out. I wish I could just accept that im fat! Do you know any good diets?!? Thank you sooo much (link)
dont eat 4 hours befor you go to bed, and dont eat junk during the day and you'll loose wieght, I'm loosing like a pound a day doing that.


For everyone I wanna know how old were you when you lost your virginity, how did it go, was it to someone special or do you regret it, where were you when it happened... and so on. Thanks (link)
I was 15, It sucked, and We were outside in the rain. He wasn't special I just thought he was


Yep I need advice on love how orignal.

Okay I'm a 14 year old girl I'm home schooled and there is this guy that i like. (USE to like) He told me that he wasn't intrested in girls right now (That was early this year) so I have been acting like I hate him which is seriously hard for me sence I do hate anyone. Nadia a girl that I know is like a model, seriously she totally thin beautiful all of it (of course I'm the ugly one, Im not skinny but I'm not fat just the norm and I have awfull buck teeth so that doesn't help my looks) anyways he is like always checking her out which I find is fine but my heart says something different because when he looks at her I feel like something cold has hit me. I hate that I care! But the problem is when Nadia is not with me he always does his best to show off and it makes me think that he likes me but I know that he doesn't.
What my question is how do I get my heart to stop caring about him because its starting to kill me! Please answer this, It will be deeply appriciated! (link)
I would just find sombody else to obses over. I would take him saying he's not into girls right now as his "nice" way of saying he's not into you. Does that sound mean? I'm not trying to be if it does


hey. u just answered my question ... i was wondering ... how long were you on birth control when you got pregnant? And I know we should have used a condom, but my doctor said I didn't need to use one, as long as he hasn't been with anyone else before ... she said the birth control was effective enough. (link)
I had been on it for three months, I have an IUD in now though but they usually dont give that to you unless you've already had a baby. My advice is just be careful, i had a baby at 17 so becarful.


Everytime I get bit by a mosqitto (i know i spelled that wrong lol) I always scratch them. And eventually they start to bleed, and turn into scars. And this summer i was bit by a lot too. And now I have all of these scars on my legs that are really embarissing. Any way to get rid of them???PLease help!! (link)
use coco buter or anything with vitamen E, i had surgery and I've been putting coco butter on my scars and its making them so you can barely see them


thing I am asking if i go back to school. I mad comment starting now to Inever talk or think bout this jerk bad guy i crush on last 1 years. he drop and every thing.. thing is sometimes i go ba school some day i dont or if someone ask me bout and say his nam.. i want noboy picking on me boug it and if someone tease me i want say stop it becosse it over for me and i not allow think or tlak bout.. i mean i had fun makeing fun of him becouse it out of my syptem but it not out of my sight yet.. I in new beging and had change this last year.. thing i asking is what some words i say i being SEROUSL I dont want hear or talk bout _______
AManda
I not even thinkign of ++++ i jsut asking qestion what i can say
I dont hate him i just dont like him (link)
I would just say you dont really want to talk about him or that you dont know him anymore or that its a bad memory and you would rather skip it. I hope I helped sorry if not


Hey there. Well, I started birth control last Sunday. I haven't even been on it for a complete week. Well, my boyfriend and me had sex, and I read in this little book I have about the birth control I'm taking, and it says it takes a month for birth control to become effective. I really worried now. Is there a chance I could get pregnant? I mean, does it actually take a month, or do they mean, the first time you take it, it's effective? (link)
you should still use a condom anyway, I got prego on birth control pills




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