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I've been going out with my boyfriend fro two months. well lately he's been acting odd lately, but not in a bad way. but hes been mentioning 'love' alot but never said 'i love you', for example we were talking about wat our last names meant and i said i didn't know what mine meant and he said '(his last name) loves'. its so odd because he makes sure that i know that he cares about me. dont get me wrong i love the fact that he cares about me because i care about him to, but i'm scared hes gunna say 'i love you' to me, becuase i dont love him, i care about him alot, but its not to the point of love. if he says it to me tho, what am i supposed to say? thanks for the help
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just tell him str8 up if he sayz it that u aint ready 4 that yet.. u care bout him.. my friend went thru this nd she got thru it.. she stayed wit her boo up 2 tha point where she did start fallin in love.. but if u think there'z no chance of that.. then u shud break it off wit him instead of stringin him on or playin gamez wit him..
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I had that happen a couple years ago. Tell him that you still care about him a lot, but you're just not to the point of saying that you love him. If you told him that you loved him and you really didn't, it could end up hurting you both, and if you care about him you deffinately wouldn't want that to happen. I'm sure that he does love you, so he would wait for you to come to him and tell him that you DO love him!
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Me and my boyfriend went through that.. If he says it, tell him that you aren't to a point where you want to say it yet, tell him that you want it to be special and you want to wait until you are ready so that you can actually feel the love for him because you dont want to say something you dont mean because it will just hurt you both in the long run, tell him just wait and that you'll be ready sooner or later
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well the last time a boi told me he loved me nd i didnt love him .. i explained him that ilike him alot nd i care bout him but im jus not to that point yet .. explain to him that even though yooh dont love him that doeesnt mean it kant happen .. jus talk to him if does .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy [ *megan
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Well, I'm not goin to to tell you to say you love the guy when you don't. That's cruel. But, if he says he loves you, try to avoid saying it back, by kissing him. Or, you can just say, "I care about you soooo much hun, but I'm just not ready to be in that stage of our relashinship yet. " Hope I helped. ttyl.
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If you feel it.. SAY IT.. howeveR, love takes time, so if you don't say it.. he should undeRstand and Respect that!! Don't feel bad about it at all!! Often times people mistake "Love" foR "Lust", just tell him you want to make completely shoRe that you "Love" him befoRe you go aRound saying it. And think of it like this.. wouldn't you feel even woRse if you said it and didn't mean it?? Best wishes!! Hope I helped!!
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well its really good you value these words. Appreciate the maturity level your at. Im sorry but many people come on here and there like -i love mah baby- and their twelve or something. Ok, those relationships are the ones that are the shortest. Love is soooo different .. love is like.. twisted..and such a sudden rush people have for eachother, i mean 2% of the time will anyone under the age of like 18 will ever find this. When your young its so hard to be serious. If he tells you 'he loves you' he really might, but instead of discussing your take on the whole love thing, just say i care about you alot, or i care about you so much. If you tell him how you feel about 'love' you'll make him feel like an idiot for trying to be sweet. so dont mention the topic. Everytime he says 'i love you' say exactly how you feel about him. And trust me, the truth will get you so far. In the end everything will come into place. But good luck, if you need more help, try my inbox.
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Maybe you should have the talk with him about how you dont fall in love easily and just kinda let him know your not in a nonchelant type of way so he doesn't say it to you. Its nice to see sombody on here saying they have a boyfriend for 2 months and they aren't in love yet.
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