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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?
that mighbe a lil wierd to ask a boi so you should prlly ge birth control especislly since condoms dont always work .. i hope helped
xO m 3 g A n Ox
on the first day of school i met this kid and he complimented me on a couple things because we have alot in common. every time we passed eachother in the halls he'd wave, smile, or say hi, and everyone said he def. liked me. well the past week he hasnt been even looking at me so i was getting upset, then i learned from other people that he has a gf who he's been with for a long time. well yesterday at church he sat behind me and he's like "YOU... YOU... i jerked off to you last night" and hes like "and you were the girl from my dream..." and i was like oh cool! and we started talking, and he was like "how come you never say hi to me in the halls anymore?"... so im confused i think he likes me but i dunno about his gf. what do you think?
well i thinkit definetly seems like he likes you but i think he kant really say nuthin cause hes wit a girl already give it time nd tlak to him nd get close nd stuf nd wen hes ready or him nd his gf break up talk to him bout it .. well i hope i helped nd if youneed to talk im me at
[ iresistblyblonde ] xO m 3 g A n Ox
Ok, well heres the thing...I still like my boy friend, I think...see I am not sure if I like him...or I just liked making out with him...lol I know it sounds childish but when I am in his arms I feel safe, and it feels like nothing in the world matters anymore...I dont know what to do because we dated for 3 days and then broke up for about a week and then we dated for another 4 days and then broke up and it has almost been a week, both of the times we broke up it was because he was flirting with another girl and had told his best friend that he liked her more then me, and his best friend proved it to me both times...I dono what to do...i want him back, I think...PLease help me I dont know what to do...I feel so good when I am in his arms and when we are kissing but I dont know if i just like the fact of feeling that way, or feeling that way "WITH HIM"....if you know please tell me!!! I need to figure this out because it is driving me crazy!!
Alright i kno where your coming from .. this may be real hard to do cause kno it was for me but you should try goin out with another boi .. do everything you do with this one nd if you feel really good then it must be the feeling of having the cuddling nd kissing nd stuf nd if you dont feel the same way then obviously its your ex .. nd that could mean you love him .. nd you should talk to him nd talk to him bout not flirtin nd gettin bac together nd stuf .. i hope it works out ... good luck nd if you need to talk im me
[ iresistblyblonde ] good luck
xO m 3 g A n Ox
so i am goin into da 8th grade and my skin is tan and i have dark brown eyes .i dont kno which eyshadow to use, and i don't know what i shud do wit my hair, my hair is dark brown and is straight. please help.
I RATE :)
well from the way it sounds i think a gold color would look good nd oyur hair w.e looks best .. try different hairstyles i hope i helped *Megan
okay so i was at my cottage and this guy was like chillin with me and my sis and my cuzins and so we were chillin and my sis was beggin 4 his sn!! i wasn't even really interested but he gave it 2 me secretly!! doe sthis mean he likes me?? or does it mean he wants to be friends??
well it seems like he likes you ns iof hes kute go for it .. i hopei helped nd good luck ,,*Megan
i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18
well this boi seems to really like you nd well i think hes afraid .. it hard to beleive sometimes but bois get scared of getttin hurt too but jus talk to him bout it .. talk to him bout how you feel nd talk to him bout wats goin to happen wit yall .. cause if you love eachother then you should be together but frome wat u seee it seems as if this boi is afraid.. so good luck nd i hopi helped .. *MEgan
im using to being around my friends. . ever since elementary school .. and now i moved to a different city within 4 miles of my hometown.. so now i have to go to a different high school than everyone else and it really really sucks. i cry at school like everyday.. i really want to go to my other high school, and i could, but my parents wont let me.. ive tried convincing them everyday for like 1 week and a half and its not working .. and i know its not going to.. im thinkin about moving in wit my aunt that lives down in pompano so i can go to the school im happy at but she lives in a sort of ghetto area so im not sure .. but i wouldnt care ... yet i dont want to hurt my moms feelings by just leaving... how can i just GO to the school i want to go to?
well i think you should deal with goin to a new skool nd beleive me i kno exacty how you feel .. i went to a grea skool that i loved nd i didnt wana move but i have to go to a new one cause we mooved .. i cry sometimes but theres nuthin i can do bout it .. i mean i have to dal with it nd not tryin to make you feel bad bout it all you need to deal with it too .. i kno t may seem hopeeless but you kno it wil get better .. your gonna make as good as friends as before nd you can still see them so i jus think you sho8uod try to deal with it .. i kno i prolly didnt make it any better but i hope somehow you undertsnad where im comin from nd sinc ei kno exactly wat you are feelin (mayub not exactly ) but im me if you need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *Megan
hi um i went on a cruise this summer and bein that i live in virginia there was gonna be people from all ova the united states there and alot of boyz tried to get wit me but i liked this one boy.then on the last day of the cruise i had my first kiss with him we were makin out the whole night.then when i got off the boat i planned on goin back to my regular life cause he lives in florida and i wont be able to see him again but i cant get another boyfriend. i mean yea alot of boyz asked me out but i keep turnin them down the boy i longed 4 b4 the cruise asked me out and i turned him down whats wrong with me
im 14 and a female
well it sounds like someone is inlove or loves .. it sounds like you really like this boi .. nd well yes its hard him livin in florida nd you livin in florida .. i think you can still see him sometimes but you also have to try to get wit other bois because you really need to get over him .. i dont wana burst your bubble but you will never see eachother nd your 14 nd its very rare that you find the person youll always wana be with .. i mean you may want to but bois these days first of all nd then you move.. blah blah .. jus try your best to get over him .. keep yourself busy .. im srry i dont mean to be mean but i want to tell you the truth but i hope i helped .. if you need to talk im me at
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
dumb question... tomorrow is the first day of skool and i dont no what to wear lol. im going into 9th grade. should i wear a skirt, should i wear capris, should i wear jeans? uh help! srry its so dumb but going into high skool ive been stressing out soooooo much. just give me ur opinion
well wear your fav outfit .. go through all your pants kapris nd skirts nd choose which ones you like the best nd then do the same with the shirts .. i uno if i helped but hope so .. but advice try pants or kapris .. i think their better but thats my opinion .. i hope i helped *megan
im really shy when it comes to people who i dont really know .. and i hate being shy im not shy around my groupe of friends .. but i'm going into highschool + i wanna make new friends but i'm shy to people i dont know .. do u have ne ideas that can help me not be that shy around people i dont know? thanks !
well i used to be like you too .. well jus dont care wat peopele think ,, i stopped caring .. it took a while but i did nd i jus got more outgoing nd acted like myself .. like i did wit my friends .. crazy nd stuf nd i got popular b/c people were like hey shes kool .. me nd my firned wuld jus stsrt singin .. so act like yourself infrot of everyon ... even if your scared do it .. theres always someone who will not like you .. everyone has someone like thats so if someone gives you dirty looks be like im kool .. you also have to have confidence to be able to act like that .. so jus act liie yourself hard or not ... nd if you need to talk im me
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] i hope i helped .. *megan
Well there is this guy in my dance class ( I swear he's not gay) and I like him a lot and all my dance friends say he likes me and I like him too, and I've told my best friend about him and she said make a move but i don't know if it's right for a girl to make a move on a guy( I don't really think I'll be good at it), plus i think he has a girlfriend and another girl likes him in class(she's my friend too) what should i do...
well even though your friend likes him it shouldnt stop you from makin a move if shes a real friend she would understand .. nd even thouhg he may have gf doesnt change anyhting either .. so go ahead make a move ..nd you wont be bad at it all you have to do is flirt with him a lil nd eventually tell him you like him .. well good luck nd i hope i helped .. *Megan
if you like a girl and she is goin out with someone what should i do
tell her .. she may have a boyfriend but thats doesnt change how you feel cause you never kno how she feels bout you .. she could like you alot nd you not even kno cause shes afraid .. so go for it nd good luck nd i hope i helped .. *Megan
When I first met the guy I like right now he would always tell me to call him and stuff and we'd always talk no matter where or what we were doing.Well now that school started we hardly talk but I still like hime very much.Well last Sat.when I was at his house we made out and he was holding me and stuff and when I said I was cold he would pull me closer you know he was very sweet! Well it's tues and I haven't talked to him since Sun.I like him alot and He makes me happy.But I hate calling him other then when he tells me too{{ i feel like im bugging him}} So..Should I call him?Im 13 female.
ues call him ... i kno how you feel bout not wanting to bug him but i think you should take the time to kall him cause if you dont thats all your gonns think bout plus i bet hes thinkin the same thing .. he prolly wants to kall you but is afraid or doesnt wana bug you .. nd you should tell him how you feel cause if you dont soon who knos wat couls happen .. well kall him nd good luck nd if you need to talk im me
[ LyL qT x lOnLy]i hope i helped * Megan
I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help?
well one of the problems thta yooh seem to have is yooh seem self conscious .. alot of girls are but yooh need to look nd the mirror nd see somethingother then ugly even if yooh see only a lil pretty .. yooh need to be more confident cause from wat i see confidence gets the bois attention .. wen i had confidence in 8 grade i got so many bois to ask me out .. so have mor confidence nd for me make up gave me the confidence . well good luck .. im me if yooh need to talk [ LyL qT x lOnLy [ *megan
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I'm a 14-year-old girl, and I have this guy who's been my best friend for over a year. Me and him have gotten SOO close lately, and I really REALLY like him. I told him that I like him, and he just kinda pretended I didn't say anything, so I just didn't know what to think. Then all my friends tell me that when they talk to him one on one, I'm all he talks about, and he always puts my feelings before his. They say that he's always very sad, and then I walk into the room, or call his cell phone, or he even just talks about me, and that really brightens his mood. I really don't know what to do, because I really like him, can't tell if he likes me, but I kind of get the impression that he does, but he kind of seems scared. HELP!
well some bois are afraid of gettin hurt too so he may be afraid or he might be afraid of losin your realtionship so sit him down nd talk to him bout it .. well ihope i helped nd good luck nd if yoh ned to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
i want a relationship .. but i dont know i wanna meet someone from a different place not from my home town unless their new .. they are all fake and i want someone who likes me for me .. not because i have a "fat ass" or because im skinny or what not .. but for my personality .. is that highly impossible or am i looking in the wrong places? ive stopped looking and ive heard it appears when you least expect it .. but guess what IT DOESNT WORK .. PLEASE HELP!
well thats wat slot of girls want nd im sorry to say that their arnt many in this world that care bout your personality .. it may be aplusin your relationship but most boys sre only look in for the " fatass " nd the skinny bodies .. well goodlluck to findin one nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT X lOnLy ] *megan
hey im 13 and all of my friends either hate me or lie to me or sumthin i have a million guy friends but all my friends that are gurls are mean whats wrong with me? and my friends?
i think your firneds are jealous casue yooh have so many guy frineds nd they wana have more nd their mad cause yooh seem to be more popular in the boi dpartment wel i hope i helped.. im me if yooh need to talk [ LyL qT X lOnLy [ *megan
i got these lil pimple thimgs on my legs? i'm a virgin.. i'm 13/f.. never even had my first kiss... so i no its not STD.. is that normal? i dunno.. help!!
i have them too their normal but if yooh go to a dermatologist ( a skin doctor ) they can give yooh a lotion to get rid of them .. i hope i helped im me if yooh wana [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
Do girls ever go for a younger guy? I'm 17 and going into grade 12 this year, this other girl I know is 18 and going into college. I met her at the beginning of the last school year, and at the time I thought there was NO way. She was VERY good looking, a year older than me, basically just out of my league. But over the year we talked a lot, and then this summer we've hung out quite a bit. I can't tell if this is just a friend thing or not, I've never known a guy that dated an older girl and was just wondering what your opinions on it were. Thanks.
ive knownmany peoples to date younger people .. ive done it .. gofor it .. she seems like she likes yooh so i hope it turns out good .. wellgood luck *megan
OK, I'm just a little lost here. This girl that I was POSITIVE liked me just went on a date with another guy. I know for a fact that they kissed which pretty much means nothing is going to happen between me and her anytime soon (ie. it was a real date). Now my whole system for determining if a girl likes me is down the drain. I mean I've been dating for about 3 years and I thought I had it down, this one just blew me away. How can I tell?
well thers no way of tellin cause some girls jus like to flirt but that doesnt mean that they like yooh .. so really bois are jus makin guesses unless they told them they like them . well good luck .* megan