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school really sucks
im using to being around my friends. . ever since elementary school .. and now i moved to a different city within 4 miles of my hometown.. so now i have to go to a different high school than everyone else and it really really sucks. i cry at school like everyday.. i really want to go to my other high school, and i could, but my parents wont let me.. ive tried convincing them everyday for like 1 week and a half and its not working .. and i know its not going to.. im thinkin about moving in wit my aunt that lives down in pompano so i can go to the school im happy at but she lives in a sort of ghetto area so im not sure .. but i wouldnt care ... yet i dont want to hurt my moms feelings by just leaving... how can i just GO to the school i want to go to?
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it sucks that you had to ove, but aot of people go though that .. try and make new freinds at ure new school even though tthat sounds like really bad probely right now... make sure you get a good rep at ure school school and dont start off at the bitchy girl who dosent wanna be there, try and make the best out of it and plann sometime when you can go down there and see them, i bet the move sint easy for everyone in ure family either so i would try and be patient with it for right now..
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Um, if your parents won't let you go to your old school, what makes you think they'll let you move in with your aunt? Tell them that you'll get a ride with a friend or someone to school if they let you go to the old one -- it's worth a try. But if nothing works, just give the new school a try, like, really make an effort to make new friends there +_ have a good time. There's nothing you can really do to change it, so you might as well let yourself enjoy it.
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well i'd give this school a shot. u've only been there for a couple of days. maybe u'll make some new friends. just start talking to some of the people in ur class. and besides u u only live 4 miles away from ur old friends. u can still talk to them on the phone, on-line, and go over each others houses. hope u make some new friends at this school and hope it turns out O.K.
~Reenie~
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Wow.. this touched me; it bRought me back. You'Re getting advice fRom a kid that dRopped out of school, because she cRied EVERYDAY foR months. I know exactly how you feel; I've been theRe. I cannot tell you how soRRie I am that you'Re going thRough this. High school was the woRst expeRience of my life, and my heaRt Really goes out to you if you'Re suffeRing. WoRds can't explain what high school was like foR me [just so know that you aRen't the only one]. If school is Really *THAT* bad, you won't give up afteR a week and a half of begging youR paRents. I begged my paRents foR 6 months.. then I said to hell with this shit and quit; I just stopped going and that was the end. I nailed National HonoR Roll, and I actually had HaRvaRd, UniveRsity of MissouRi, some Connecticut College, ARizona State UniveRsity, AND UniveRsity of Miami coming afteR me. They sent me sooo much mail and even offeRed to pay foR my plane ticket down theRe to touR the campus and actually paRticipate in some of the classes; I was an extRemely pRomising student, but things just got so bad I couldn't take it anymoRe; it completely Ruined my life. Don't let this happen to you; don't allow youRself to fail. If it means that much to you... keep tRying!! This is one battle fRom which you must not RetReat! This is youR education.. this is youR futuRe.. it's not a game, it's not a joke, and it's ceRtainly not something to be taken lightly. Of couRse, you need to give the school you'Re at a shot. You can't come home the veRy fiRst day and decide you hate it - that's not acceptable. Give it two months even. Ya neveR know... things COULD get betteR, that is VERY possible. But ALWAYS RemembeR.. that no matteR how bad it gets.. it can ALWAYS get woRse. I say if afteR two months things don't change... tell youR paRents that you've given it a shot.. you've tRied... but it's no use. Let them know how much you'd appReciate it if they coopeRated with you this one time. Also, if you Really *CAN* move in with youR Aunt, you shouldn't feel bad leaving youR Mom whatsoeveR!! You asked heR peRmission foR you to switch schools.. and she said no. You have to do what's best foR YOU!! THAT is youR Responsibility! I Really do hope you figuRe things out. Please, please, please lemme know what happens!! Best wishes fRom someone who knows EXACTLY what you'Re going thRough!! Hope I helped!!
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OMG I WANTED 2 GO 2 THE SAME SCHOOL AS MY FRIENDS BUT MY PARENTS WOULDNT LET ME! I TRY 2 CONVINCE THEM 2 LET ME GO AND IT'S NOT WORKING. SO I JUST HAVE 2 GET USED 2 GOING 2 A DIFFERENT SCHOOL W/O MY CLOSE FRIENDS!...HERE'S MY ADVICE: TALK 2 SOME PPL OR THEY MAY JUST START TALKING 2 U! DONT JUST THINK JUST B/C YOUR FRIENDS GO 2 A DIFFERENT SCHOOL THAT U WONT HAVE FUN CUZ U WILL! I MEAN IM HAVIN FUN. ONCE U GET 2 KNOW PPL YOU'LL START 2 ENJOY IT. PLUS, AFTER SCHOOL EVERY DAY CALL YOUR FRIENDS! THATS WHAT I DO! AND WE R STILL REAL TIGHT!! HOPE THIS HELPS
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i always have to move because of my step-dad and ive been to atleast 12 different schools. You should just looka t the bright side, you can make new friends and you only live 4 miles from ur other school so you can still hang out with your other friends.
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It's ok.. you can make new friends! that never hurt.. and if its only 4 miles away you can ride your bike down to your old hometown and such and c your old friends!
Don't cry in school.. thats a bad thing ppl will think you are nuts..
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well i think you should deal with goin to a new skool nd beleive me i kno exacty how you feel .. i went to a grea skool that i loved nd i didnt wana move but i have to go to a new one cause we mooved .. i cry sometimes but theres nuthin i can do bout it .. i mean i have to dal with it nd not tryin to make you feel bad bout it all you need to deal with it too .. i kno t may seem hopeeless but you kno it wil get better .. your gonna make as good as friends as before nd you can still see them so i jus think you sho8uod try to deal with it .. i kno i prolly didnt make it any better but i hope somehow you undertsnad where im comin from nd sinc ei kno exactly wat you are feelin (mayub not exactly ) but im me if you need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *Megan
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