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Sexuality
Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?
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yes its perfectly fine .. u should probably keep ur sexuality on the dl ( down low ).. u might not wanna find a gf yet because ur a lil bit to young .. but its fine that u like girls .. i hope i was of some help :D
-serena x3`
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who said people dun accept gays? u should be proud of who u are, dun let wad other people say get to ur head. an intimate relationship with another girl would be a tough one, like would the girl accept ya, etc. things like this will take time, accepting itself will take time. u gotta be patient and dun rush things! being urself is the most important. only then she will see the true you and accept ya for who u are.
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what state do you live in? souther states yes are very agains gays however most western ones are not. actualy even in souther states most people dont really have anything agaisnt lesnbians seeing as how guys find them a turn on. does your school have a gay/strait alliance type of club? if so you should join. let me jsut reafirm no matter what bible nuts may tell you tehre is nothing wrong with being homosexual.
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hey personaly i think that is fine there are alot of lesbians and gays now adays.maybe now u are to young to have realtionships wit grls cuz some girls still have not realized there sexuality yet..but once u are a lil older more girls will come out of the closet than u can have a relationship wit a girl..hope i helped you.xoxojay
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yes it is perfectly ok, i think anyways, there is nothing wrong with be a lesbian, i mean so people don't like it but its your decision so do what you want and how you feel inside isn't controlable towards you! so good luck and have fun with either sex!
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ya thats ok.. i think you are like bi-curious since you are so younge in all..
dont be afraid 2 experament..
i am sure there are other lesbians at your school or bi's but they are just 2 afraid 2 contront it.. your shouldent be ashamed of your sexuality
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thats perfectly, i mean to tell you tell you the truth i'm interested in girls to but i'm also interested in guys to so i'm Bi sexual but if youi want to tell someone about it just be like hey do you have a problem if someone is a lesbain, a bisexual ,or gay and if they don't mind someone being any of these things you should tell them, thats how i broke it to all my friends
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Well, being somewhat of an either or type of girl, I completely believe its ok, and its normal. Maybe your just experimenting. Maybe not. Maybe its your destiny to be a lesbian in life. Now, being like you myself, I know that you probally think it is differnt as in terms of the relationship, but it can be the same. Youc an have the same type of relationship with the same sex as with the opposite. It'll be hard trying to get a girlfriend because that would mean there is another girl with the same deal as you trying to find another girl. And trust me, when you find a girl to love, the sex is much better!;)
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Hey hunni,
I am gonn be stright up honest with you NO its not okay I am not having any hard feelings but the BIBLE is against that and I wouldn't me personally get JESUS CHRIST!! there BIBLE says not to be like that he made us to be married to men and men to be married to women ! Hope I helped! Love always ~*+Kayla!!!!!+*~
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Thats perfectly fine, you cant help how you feel or who you are.If your parents will understand tell them and there's groups for girls and guys who are afraid to come out.Or if you dont think you can you can always tell a student consueler or even your doctor because whatever you come to them with thier not allowed to tell your parents.It's confidential between you and them.If you want to talk or need advice please let me know, i'd like to help.Hope everything works out.
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well sure its ok, im not gay but i fell that people should not have to be limited in their sexual life! and if people xcant except you for who you are than i thikn oyu are better off leavin them! try joinin a after skool activity that supports gay or any activity tat does!
i hope i helped you
~xocheerblondiox~
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