i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o
hey...ummm i dont think so they usually cost alot but try seeing ur doctor and ask them if you can..i dont know if they would keep it from ur parents but you can try..i wish you teh best of luck with everything..xoxojay
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Hey could any of you give me idea's on how to earn around 30$ by sept. 28th? 14/f
hey i have a few ideas!
1.babysitting
2.chores
3.ask grandparents lol
4.car wash
5.yard sale
umm thats all i can think of now if i think of nethin else i will tell you.hope i helped xoxojay
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ive never been kissed b4.. is that a good thing?? or noo???
hey..i dont realy think its a bad thing that u have neva been kissed b4..whenever the time is rite for u it will come to you..dont rush into things u dont want to.hope i helped.xoxoJay
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Im not sure if my friends are tru friends they always say they are but then go behind my back and talk about me and sometimes they r really mean 2 me wut should i do?
hey girl.you know i have that same issue going on rite now.you can neva kno whose got yer back and who doesnt.but when it comes down to when u need someone there who evea shows up ull know who truley cares for u..xoxojay
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Here's my story though it's kind of embarressing... For about 2-3 years now, I have had this clear slime come out my yeah, and I don't think it's normal, but is it somthing I need to REALLY WORRY ABOUT? I mean is it normal... It's like I am constantly wet (though I am still a Virgin and I haven't been there yet) and I hate it...so I wear baby powder down there to keep it from smelling just in case it does... any advice.....
hey girl.i have been there too lol.its not funny either like it smells and everything.maybe your doctor will have something for that.its not like your innormal it happens to alot of people.i mean for the most part it is normal and it is just discharch.your body keeps puting out.dont worry to much.but next time you are at the docotor ask him or her about it..maybe they will have something for you.hoep a helped a lil.xoxojay
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My mom and I haven't been getting along very well lately. It's like she never lets me go anywhere anymore. I'm almost never allowed to hang out with my friends and I'm 13.. I'm at the time in my life when I need to be with my friends. I've tried talking to her but it doesn't seem to work. She told me that I'm a problem to her. I almost cried. I just replied "It's nice to know that your own kid is a problem," and I walked into my room. I just don't know what to do anymore. I lost my best friend because my mom didn't ever let me go to her house because the parents weren't home. I know she's just trying to protect me, but it's like she doesn't trust me. And she won't let me walk around outside when I'm with my friends. She says she doesn't know why I need to if we're just walking around and not going anywhere. I love her and all but I feel as if she doesn't understand me anymore. What do I do? I appreciate any help! Thank you!
hey.all parents are protective like that i know mine is.but all you can do is do everything she says and dont talk back to her or anything.let her know that she can trust you and maybe she will give you a lil more freedom.as of wit your otha friend try calling her and talkin to her in school.it will get betta i wish you all the luck
xoxojay
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i'm 16/f and am totally confused my the actions of my recent ex-boyfriend. We recently had a discussion and he really said some things that threw me totally off. First off, the reason he dumped me was because he said he didn't love me anymore and that really hurt. Alright, well then today he tells me that he wants to be careful of other guys and he flipped out when he heard i was interested in another guy, then he tells me he still cares about me, and that he has to tell me something that's very important, but doesn't wanna tell me because he's afraid that it'll screw stuff up. I don't know what this stuff is, but anyway, I really need some help! I think my ex doesnt want me to be with other guys and wants me to be devoted to only him! What should i do??!?!?!?
hey,i think all ex bf's are like that..he still cares for you even tho he said he doesnt love you. maybe he was afraid to show his feelings and now that he has seen u with another guy he probably realizes that he cares for you more than he thought.just give him time he will come around and tell you how he feels.hope i helped.xoxojay
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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....
hey..i dont think that ther is nothing wrong wit that at all.dont worry about what people think its none of their buisness.xoxojay
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i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18
hey.maybe he needs time to think about things.it seems like both of you are very much inlove but just need time to think about it.yea love is confusing but thats whats awesome about love, the anticapation.just take things slow love will come to you.....hope i helped.xoxojay
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Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?
hey personaly i think that is fine there are alot of lesbians and gays now adays.maybe now u are to young to have realtionships wit grls cuz some girls still have not realized there sexuality yet..but once u are a lil older more girls will come out of the closet than u can have a relationship wit a girl..hope i helped you.xoxojay
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Ok does anyone think this is wierd..my dad goes in the kitchen cabinet and its like 4 boxes of cereal n he looks at my favorite box and he tellls my mom not to buy them cuz HE DOESNT LIKE THEM..wtf is that?I like the freakin cereal y cat i keep it?...plz tell me if u think thats realli retarded
hey lol yea its a lil stupid..but all dads are weird like that..mine is a control freak lol..just
go along wit him and keep tellin urslef u can move out when ur 18 lol..hope i helped ya.xoxoJay
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I need help! I love my sister to death but she is so annoying! I have no privacy and she always get's her way, I'm 13 she's 8. I really need help! Don't say talk to her, it didn't work.
hey girl.you seem to be in the same situation my friend is wit her sista same ages too lol.well just try to avoid her do ur on things and block her out.remember she is only 8 maybe she is bored try playing wit her or hangin out wit her to c her point of view on things. hope i helped.need anything else drop it in my inbox..xoxojay
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me and my friends have a so called"friend" named jodi.weve known her for like half a year.at first she seemed cool.but then she got really annoying.she started acting like a bytch and only do what she would wanna do.so should we keep talking behind her baq and acing like were her friend.or confront her and tell her we dont wanna be her friend
13/f
hey..i was in that same situation be4 and her name was jodi thats funny lol..anyways i think u should confront her and tell her how u feel.dont keep talkin bad about her behind her back cuz it always turns out bad in the end.try to explain it to her as much as you can..hope i helped you if u need anything else drop it in my inbox.xoxoJay
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i like this guy he's in 12th and im in 9th, 3 year age difference, i don't really kno him that much anymore but i want to get to kno him again. we used to hang out all the time, cuz our families are friends... wat should i do.... is he way too old? should i wait a lil while?? should i move on??
hey girl.my boyfriend is almost 3yrs older than me too..i dont think there is anything wrong with that at all..if u really like someone u cant hide ur feelings or try to move on cuz u might be looking for sumthin u already have.u neva know maybe he wants u as much as u want him..go for it!
good luck.drop it in my inbox if u need anything else...xoxJay
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ok theres this boys and i jsut moved from georgia and goin bak in about 10 months and theres this boy bak there we dated almost all year and we broke up jsut before i moved and everytime i talk to i i start liking him agian and he talks to my friends about me all the time and he we he asks me out agian what should i do
hey girl..well if your moving back in 10months maybe your love is strong enough to last the long distant relationship if not have fun with the people u meet were your at. and when u go back u can hook up wit him or suttin..i hope everything works out okay need nething drop it in my inbox
xoxoJay
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Aaahh!!! Okay I have a bone stickin out the heal of my right foot! A guy in my grade said he had a bone sticking out of his foot and he had to get surgery. I never saw his so I dont know if it is the same, but it hurts if I push on it or if my shoes are kinda tight. Is this normal? Anyone have this problem??
hey..ummm i dont exactly no how to help you but maybe you should go to a doctor to get it checked out.this isnt the same situation but my friend had a bunion on the side of her foot and she had to get it removed so it sounds like you might have to too. but dont worry if you do cuz she said it didnt hurt her at all..i hope i helped u if u need nething else drop it in my inbox.xoxojay
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I'm 13 and i'm a female and I am afraid to masturbate. I get the urge to do it but never end up going all the way. I don't want a dildo or a tool just my fingers. But does anyone know any way for me to get past being afraid because I'm a teen age girl and I need to do my things. Do you masturbate? What makes you relaxed? Is there something wrong with me? Can anyone help me? If so please answer this!
Please answer!
hey..dont be afraid to masterbate lol..there is nothing wrong with it..i personaly have never tried it but i have had friends who have done it and they mostly use there fingers.it might sound grose but it is completly natural everyone does it..if u are afraid it wont feel as good.so be relaxed and make sure u are alone.lol cuz it wouldnt be good to have some1 walk in while u are masterbating..everyone gets urges sometimes dont worry there is nothing wrong with you.if you need anything else drop it in my inbox.Good Luck
xoxoJay
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at school once, i farted really loud on accident...see...i sneezed and it popped out! no one will let me live it down...what do i say to them?
hey hunn! haha it had to be funny but just tell them that its just something that humans do... be like well its not like youve never farted befor.... hope it helps
xoxo jay
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2morrow im trying out for my hs volleyball team (im a freshman) well i was kinda wondering like what to expect at a tryout esp. a volleyball one.... like do u have to run b4 it or like do sum sort of interview or do u jus go into teams and jus play while the coaches examine u???!!!
hey hunn..! i play volleyball its a really fun sport when you get the hang of it lol.. well ne ways at tryouts just be yourself try to pass the ball without swinging your arms try to pass to the setter and dont get the coaches mad lol, you dont have to go threw an interview you might have to say ur name and stuff but thats just to introduce you, well i hope you make the team and if you dont practice and try again the next year!
i hope everything works out ok!
xoxox jay
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ok heres the deal sorry if it's kinda longg..
well my boyfriend one day got into a fight and i was so like depressed nd shit that i cut myself and yeah but then we got the fight resolved, and like we went out for a week after skool ended and then he dumped me cuz he felt guilty for being my boyfriend and not being able to see me..and he went out with this grl nikki from his camp, then after that we got back together and then after like 2 weeks he dumped me again same reason diff. girl her name is lauren (also goes to his camp) then dumped lauren and went for another grl katilin who came to vist from maryland for a week and then dumped her and now were going out... notice the pattern and i think he does love me on some extent but he also has to be with other girls oh and b4 katilin i went to bahamas for a week and didnt have fone service so i didnt get 2 talk to him and my bff told me that while i was gone he hit on her and told her he loved her nd everything and also now wen were going out he still sometimes tells her that even though shes not interested and like he told me that during the yr. he has to dump me and go out with this gurl nicole to help her make her ex boyfriend jealouse cuz he cheated on her but she likes my boyfriend (whos name is charlie by the way)!! ?? help!!!!!!!!! is he just desparate?? lost intrest?? cheating?? does he really love me??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or
hey hunn! Cant you see hes a playa... and its common for people to cut themselves but its NEVER a good thing to do.. if you think its a way to relive the depressing matter its not! just trust me on this one... maybe instead of taking it out on urself punch ur pillow or something lol and about the boy tell him no the next time he wasnts to go out wit you to show him that he cant get everything he wants! just dont cut its dangerouse....
if you need ne thing else hun just drop it into my inbox i hope everything works out...
xoxox jaycie
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