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My mom and I haven't been getting along very well lately. It's like she never lets me go anywhere anymore. I'm almost never allowed to hang out with my friends and I'm 13.. I'm at the time in my life when I need to be with my friends. I've tried talking to her but it doesn't seem to work. She told me that I'm a problem to her. I almost cried. I just replied "It's nice to know that your own kid is a problem," and I walked into my room. I just don't know what to do anymore. I lost my best friend because my mom didn't ever let me go to her house because the parents weren't home. I know she's just trying to protect me, but it's like she doesn't trust me. And she won't let me walk around outside when I'm with my friends. She says she doesn't know why I need to if we're just walking around and not going anywhere. I love her and all but I feel as if she doesn't understand me anymore. What do I do? I appreciate any help! Thank you!
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all parents r protective jus do wut she says 4 a while 2 gain her trust. mayb den she'll giv u more freedom
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all parents are protective like that i know mine is.all you can do is do everything she says and dont talk back to her or anything else.let her know that she can trust you and maybe sh WILL give you a little more freedom.as of wit your other friend try calling her and talkin to her in school. maybe you should have her go to dinner with you and you should talk it over with her.. see how she feels....have family meetings where you tell her about what you did and have more familie time... tell her you love her more often then what you do tell her....
morgan
p.s hopes everything works out
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hey.all parents are protective like that i know mine is.but all you can do is do everything she says and dont talk back to her or anything.let her know that she can trust you and maybe she will give you a lil more freedom.as of wit your otha friend try calling her and talkin to her in school.it will get betta i wish you all the luck
xoxojay
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what you need to do is set her down and have a nice long talk with her. tell her that you don't understand why she won't let you hang out w/your friends or go walk around the neighborhood with them. you're 13 years old and you're suppose to be having fun at that age. you dont have a best friend nemore bc she's too busy keeping you cooped up in the house and not letting you go visit your friend. you've never given her a reason to not trust you so why should she treat you like you're a bad kid all the time? after telling her all of your feelings you need to sit and listen to hers. that way after everything is said and done, you'll feel better for getting it off your chest, and maybe you 2 can work something out:-) good luck w/everything!
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I kno u just want help on how to get ur mom to let u out of the house, but ur mom just want to protect u just like her parents probably did or never did. U never kno she might have a past that she doesn't want u to kno about or go through.
Hope ur mom lets u go out!!
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I know the way you feel. My mom was somewhat the same way but she was very abusive ,and rescently i moved out because i couldn't take it. Sit down and talk with her. Tell her its your time to talk and that you have some things to say about her being over protective. If there is a problem tell her to get you a cellphone or something she can keep a hold of you on. I was or still am a somewhat problem to my mom. I am the blacksheep of my brothers and sisters so she doesnt listen either. She is very stubborn to. You friend shouldnt have done that to you either. That is just plain rediculous and your mom should trust you. Have you done anything un trustworthy in the first place? If talking to her one on one doesnt work then write her a letter. Dont Say anything in it you will regret. Just tell her your feelings. If that doesnt work ,try thinking of things that she can trust you on. Try babysitting or animal watching. I dont know just really try to write her a letter ,but watch with you put (made mistake before)
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Wow! Since you tried talking to your mom face to face and that wouldn't work, try to write a note explaining what you just said but with more details. Leave the note some where in the house where she will notice right away. Hope I helped :)
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