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Hey amber i havnt talked to you in a while lol. Well tonz has happend since Chris has been back for good. major thing HES BACK TO HIS OLD SELF AND WHERE DATING AGAIN. I know how many times we gonna break up and get back together but i dunno it just felt right long story on all that. Well anyways i have 2 questions. I had sex for the first time last night with him, and i know it hurts but it hurt SO BAD LIKE SO BAD i had to tell him to stop and i coldnt go in anymore b/c it hurt so much, am i doing it right is it suppose to feel like that? b/c i cant get passed that much pain? Ok 2nd question Karl found out today that me and him were dating again, and karls in hawaii so hes not here yet, and when he found out he told chris why the fuck u dating her again, and i know when he gets back hes gonna try his hardest to split us up, what should i do? i need help once again thanks babe
Muah
Mandy
to answer your sex question, don't worry it's normal for it to hurt the first time. it'll prolly hurt again for a couple more times but not as bad. the more you do it the more you get used to it and the better it feels. Now to the whole karl situation. you know the way i see it, if chris really does love you and he's really into then he won't listen to what karl has to say. and if he's going to take karl's word on it then screw him he's def. not worth it. i hope the best all works out for you hun:-D have fun tomorrow nite;-)
im fwb with this guy and were pretty good friends..and well christmas is coming up and he asked me what i wanted but i told him i didnt know..i thought it was kinda wierd he was gonna get me something..but anyway..so i guess that means were exchanging gifts..but i really like him ..like i love him..and i know he doesnt like me more then friends..so i want to get him something like special..but not like were going out..like thoughtful but not over the top..any suggestions?thanks tons
get him a CD or a video game that he wants. and if you don't know what kind he wants or what not, try gettin him like a $10 or $20 gift certificate to his favorite store...
Hey amber im ready to ask my weekly question lol. Well chris comes back to visit for a week and thats NEXT WEEK, and he wrote me and told me we have to hang out, the thing is i dont know if i can im gonna be so emotional that week i have to keep myself busy and not think about him, but how am i gonn do that when im still caught up on him? Im gonna know hes here and visiting other girls and its just so depressing i hate knowing hes with other girls, so i have to keep myself busy and occupied, but how? i know stupid question but i need help PLEASE thank u
Mandy
sorry it took me a really long time to responde. my computer caught a virus n we had to get it fixed n it took FOREVER! i'm sure ur not gonna need my advice now since the whole next week thing had already come up. i hope it went well for ya though.....
alright..ive liked this boy since i was 8, im not 14, but just a few months ago i kinda stopped liking him. well we were talking and i asked him if he wanted to be freinds with benefits..and he said yea. so its been like a month since we agreed on that, and weve hung out alot with 2 of our other freinds who are fwb and everytime were together i freeze. and i feel that i should make the first move cause i asked him, but i cant because its weird cause i kinda still like him and were not goin out. ive never actually like made out.. i just kinda skipped that base, so i was wondering how should i start, like hold his hand or what??and how can i not be so nervous around him.. thanx so much
sorry it took me so long to responde...my computer has been out for a LONG time! i think if you wanna make the first move or sumthin, you should prolly start by like laying on him or sumthin. not like directly on top of him or nething but in a cuddly way. like if you 2 were sittin on a couch or wat not together then you could lean on him or sumthin. then juss keep looking up at his face or wat not n when the right moment comes...BAM....you kiss him:-) after that things should slide downhill for ya...good luck and have fun!
ps. be careful w/the whole fwb thing. sumone is bound to end up gettin hurt
hey amber once again another guy problem. But this time its not Chris. OK my freshman year i was dating this guy Ryan we only dated a week but we kicked it for like 2 years. Well hes been in Jial this past year and hes been writing to me practically every day since a year ago. Well i tell him everything b/c were freinds and thats what freinds do, He was there for me through all my ex boyfreinds after him and he was even there for me with Chris. Well since me and chris broke up ryans been trying to get back with me b/c he'll be outta jail in december (hes 19 now). Hes been telling me about these feelings he has for me and that he really wants me back and shit like that. Well this guy hurt me really bad 4 years ago he was always breaking my heart and making me cry, and i know b/c hes in jail he was probably just saying that to say that i mean he has nthing better to do. Well i told him im not gonna sit around and wait for a guy i cant depend on. I told him i dont give second chances b/c u dump me once its ur fault if u want me back. I toldh im all that. Well he wrote me a letter a few weeks ago saying hes gonna give up on me b/c he wants his freedom he doesnt wanna be tied downn with a girl he wants to explore his options and he asked me not to be mad at him. well i wrote him back saying im not mad b/c 1 i knew u were gonna change ur mind as it got closer to ur release date thats why i never told u how i really feel b/c im not up for getting hurt again, then i said 2 im used to guys telling me there not ready to settle down hello chris. Well i got a letter back from him today and he had me in tears for an hour. I never thought id cry over ryan 4 years ago i did i thought it was the end of it but this letter was so harsh i dont know what to say back to him. he told me that i dont know shit that everything he told me was true he really did have feelings for me, he told me never compare him to chris he said right now im to caught on chris a fucking 16 year old who charms me and makes me believe lies, and yet im gonna give him a 2nd chance an maybe a 3rd. He told me i was a waste of his time b/c im oplaying games with him. Then this is what really hurt he said we only dated for a week so how the hell could i have any feelings for him anyway. does he not remember the 2 years we spent together just kicking it at my house and the nights we just would talk forever? i dunno im probably not making snese at all to u but im really emotional right now b/c of him and i dont know how to respond to a letter like that. At the end hes like well write back if u do well then ur stronger than ithought u were and if u dont then i guess i was right about everything. im so gonna respond and bitch him out but what do i say. Im so hurt please help me
Mandy
I'm not really all that good w/combacts or nething, but for the most part, he told you "how could you still have feelings for me when we only dated for a week" um....hello?! the kid was trying to get back with YOU remember?! so how could he have feelings for you if you juss dated for a week also? u get what i'm sayin?:-/ Also, if anything it sounds like he's jealouse if he's telling you taht you are too caught up into chris. he can't even make up his fucking mind a/b what he wants right now in life. one moment he tells you that he wants to be w/you n the next it's like bam, "i want to explore more" i mean what the fuck? i know you guys have been friends for a while but i don't see the need to get way over upset a/b this. if he's gonna act more mature in the future then yea try to work things out....but if he's gonna keep acting the way that he is now i say screw him...
Hey hun havnt talked to you in like forever. But it looks like your doing good with a new boyfreind and all. You deserve it. Well i need help again lol. Actually i dunno if its even help but can u please try? Ok well u know i wrote a letter to chris dumping him and i told him i never wanna hear from him again. I was doing perfectly fine i got over him and everything. Well his mom called me and i dont think she knows we split up b/c she was asking about us and i didnt have the heart to tell her thats his job not mine, so i told her i dont write him anymopre b/c he hasnt written me, well she told me he was out of stamps for the longest time and she just sent more so i should be getting a letter. I was thinking no its b/c i told him never to write me again but i didnt say that.... well just Yesterday i got a letter from him. Just when i was excepting he was outta my life too. BAM he writes. Well in the letter it said like i know u dont care that im writing you b/c u dont care about us anymore but i had to i miss talking to you, he went on about how depressed he was in there and nothings going good for him or anything. Then he told me he wants some kind of relationship with me even if its just as freinds. He wrote that he KNOWS i still wnana be freinds with him then he said ...well i hope u do anyway. Then at the end he was like if u have time can u please write back if not then i understand. And his PS was like if u need anything anything at all ill do it i promise ( i dunno what that means) but anyway then he signed it love chris. the letter was so sweet and memories just popped back into my head. Well tell me if im wrong i wrote him back saying yeah we can still be freinds i guess thats not a problem and stuff like that. Now my problem is im not sure iof i can do the freind thing. When me anda boyfreind break up thats it its usually over and i never have to see them again b/c i can never take the fact that there seeing other girls b/c it hurts to much. Well chris is going to be seeing other women and if im his freind im just gonna get jelouse and i dunno if i can take that. I mean now being freinds is great b/c i dont have to hear about other girls or who hes seeing b/c he aint seeing anyone but once he comes back its gonna hurt alot and im not sure if i handle that. I dunno its gonna feel so wierd when we were dating it was all normal i mean i felt like part of his family and even when we broke up me and his family kept in touch there really sweet and his lil sister loves me to death so i visit all the time but i dunno what im gonna do and i just need some insight from someone and u were the perfect person to go to. So if u can can u please help me
Thanks
Mandy
hay there! sorry it took me so long to responde my internet is GAY!:-/ Newho...yea i understand that it's going to be hard being "just friends" with him. And it is i've been down that road before. But after a while of it you'll come to realize that it's not all that bad afterall. My boyfriend/Neighbor of a year and 4 months broke up w/me...and boy it was soooo sooo soooooo HARD just being friends with him. But once i moved on to another guy it wasn't all that bad. I mean are there any other guys that you are interested in? bc once you find someone else that you are really interested in, you won't have those feelings for chris anymore. I mean you'll still love him n u prolly always will, but not like that. I think you should write back to him. But juss tell him that if you guys are going to "just be friends" then you don't wanna hear a/b other women in his life for a while, juss so that you can get used to it all. Don't worry, in the end everything will be ok:-) My ex *the one of a year and four months* and i are like best friends practically right now, and hearing a/b other girls in his life doesnt bother me one bit. so i know that the same thing can happen w/you. take care hun!!:-D
Ok Amber i have another problem, and you ALWAYS seem to help. So Chris wrote me again. thisb was before i went to visit him, ill tell ya about that later. But anyways in the note he wrote me he said he had something to tell me. So he said he wrote Monicka and Amanda (both his ex gf's) a letter telling them he still had feelings for them and wanted to know if theyd ever get back with him. Well Amanda found out monicka got the same exact letter saying the same thing so she wrote back chris bitching him out saying yeah i like how u write the same shit on both our notes. Well he wrote her back saying he wasnt asking them back out or anything he just wants to be freinds, he told both of them hes in love with me and wants to be with me.....ok Should i be mad? i will admit im a little jelouse b/c he has feelings for both them too but the feelings he has for me are stronger. But i cant be to mad b/c i still keep in touch swith my ex bf Ryan and he knows about that. But anyways i wrote him a letter back asking him a few things b/c it sounded like he wrote all 3 of us the same letter and im the only one who responded positive but i could be wrong maybe he does have stronger feelings for me. I dont know i need help my emotions are running like crazy im sad but at the same time happy im jelouse but at the same time not. What should i do? B/c i did see him sunday and we spent the whole day together and it was perfect he said how sorry he was for hurting me and he he owuld never do that again. But i dunno i dont want to be played with again you know? so what do you think about this? Well thanks for listening and please HELP
Mandy
it sounds like he's playing games with you and the other girl's hearts. I personally think that yea, you should be pissed at him. now when you say that he still has "feelings" for them, do you mean feelings as in he still likes them in a relationship way, or juss a friendship way? bc if it was the relationship way, regardless if he had stronger feelings for you or not, i'd dump his sorry ass. why should you put up with someone if not all of their intentions are for you ya know? plus if he told those girls that he only met that he wanted to be friends, then how come in the letters you described to me that he wrote them, he was asking them back out? it doesnt quite all make any sense to me?? i'd prolly break it off w/him for now until he finally figures out what he wants in life, but if you don't wanna do that then i would at least explain to him eerything that you are feeling. good luck w/everything....
Ok so i have a questions, Im visiting Chris today and karl asked me to give him a letter for him. So i ent by his house and picked it up. Well when i got home it was so tempting to just open it and read it.....so i did. Well in it it said "Yeah Chris i hang with a bunch of women now when you come back im gonna hook you up with one, you'll forget all about Mandy." I was like omg what an ass hole so i ripped it up and threw it away. Im gonna tell chris i lost the letter then im gonna tell Karl i lost it too. Is this wrong of me to do? B/c i found that statement rude b/c hello im dating chris again why the hell would karl do that. Well thanks
Mandy
no i dont think it was wrong at all, well that's in my opinion at least. it was wrong of you to rip it up but it was also wrong of him to even WRITE that!!!=-o i woulda done the same thing!! so don't worry a/b it. if you tell them both the same storey then nobody can get mad:-) let me know what happens next!
hey amber once again its me mandy lol. I just wanted to tell you chris asked me back out. Im like the most happiest girl in the world you have no idea i feel like a changed person now that i have him back in my life. He wrote me saying how much he loves me and he made a stupid mistake he just hasnt been hisself latley and he wants to give us another try and he wants to spend his whole life making it up to me. How cute is that, omg im so happy. I have towrite him back saying yes of course but hell o duh im going to do that tonight lol. he also wants me to go up there next weekend and visit him with his family, its gonna feel so weird but i cant wait. I just wanted to say thanks for EVERYTHING youve done for me you helped me with so much shit and i appreciate it THANK YOU
Mandy
well sweety, CONGRATULATIONS!!!! it's been a rough journey for you but I'm soooo happy to hear that everything worked out fine for you!!:-D have fun visiting him!!!;-)
OK I have this "friend". Really she used to be my best friend, then I went away for the summer and she really started irritating me by talking about all these hot guys she's saying and how they all hit on her and how when I come back I get the less hotter one because she saw them first. WTF is that?! Do any of your friends do this? And plus, I KNOW for a fact that all of them do not hit on her because 1) She's honestly not that attractive. I'm prettier than her, and I don't really think I'm all that pretty anyway. 2) Whenever we went out together, which was quite alot, nobody ever hit on her. She'd always approach the guys she knew first.
Well anyway, back to what I was originally saying...over the summer things got different. After I got back things were not the same between her, me, and our other mutual friend. The mutual friend and I would still get online and call each other and hang out and stuff. But the main girl barely wanted anything to do with us. The one thing that set me off was one day we were all supposed to go to Ryan's (a steakhouse) which is 30 minutes away but this "friend" called and bailed on me (telling me she had a headache and didn't want to drive) like she always ALWAYS used to but I always took it from her. So I was pissed and asked my other friend to go hang out so we went to Wal-Mart and guess who pulled up right as we were walking home?
Yup you guessed it. So the other friend asked for a ride and the "friend" looked kinda irritated then hesitated. Since then I haven't spoken to her till a few days ago. Today she was suposed to take me to pick up my check from Subway, but she didn't. I called twice, left a message on her phone and on AIM but nothing. I knew she wasn't going to come which is why I made plans for someone else to take me.
My problem is, she wants me to go to her birthday party on Friday and since she's been such a terrible friend to me and done nothing but made me feel ugly when we were out together (by saying the hot guys were looking at her not me), and never keeping promises or plans...should I go? I mean normally I'm such a loyal person but I think she's just gone overboard with this. I'm sick of it.
I'm so sorry this was long...I just thought you all should nkow the whole story. Thanks for answering and I will rate you a 5 if you even put one sentence just because you read all this! :D
No, i don't think that you should go to her party. it's good that you're a loyal friend and all, but why should you go to her birthday party after she kept blowing you off, makeing you feel ugly and not talking to you. Would she have heard anything a/b you *like you talking bad a/b her*? i mean that's still no excuse for not talking with you and blowing you off bc you should really talk to your bestfriend if something was bugging you a/b her. if i were you i would prolly juss try having a talk w/her, like go to her house or something sit down and tell her how you've been feeling a/b everything lately and see wats up with her. if she refuses to have a talk w/you then i say screw it until she has the nerve to come back to you and apologize! good luck w/everything!
Hi. My name is Toni and i'm a girl. My friend has been putting things about me on her profile and they are really mean things. I saw them and they made me feel bad and when i was alone, i cried for hours. I can be a dramaqueen, but who isn't one at one time or another?
Also people in her guestbook were calling me a bitch and saying that i was immature and they dont even know me! Should i tell my friend? Thanks in advance!
Toni
aww i'm really sorry that this is happening you to. i'd confront your friend a/b it first and ask her what her deal is. then tell her how it made you feel and that it made you cry. she'll prolly end up feeling really bad and taking it out *hopefully* if she doesn't, than i say screw her who needs friends like that? I wouldn't however put mean things a/b her in your info, that'll just bring you down to her level. all you gotta do is juss keep ignoring her and sooner or later she'll get the hint that you don't care and stop. good luck w/everything hun!
Tomorrow I'm meeting up with my boyfriend. It will be the first time I have seen him properly out of school since we started going out and I want to make a big impression. I need to look nice and casual. How should I do my hair/makeup and what shall I wear???!!!
PS. If this helps: My hair is dark brown and comes to around my shoulders. I have blue and eyes and pale skin.
well i dont necessarily know what you should wear since i dont know what your wardrobe looks like. but i can give you a lil tips on what colors you could wear since i too have dark brown hair blue eyes and pale skin. you could always wear blue and brown together it looks quite nice:-) any pinks, white, purples and grays look pretty good. you juss gotta know how to mix n match w/your clothes right ya know? n for makeup, brown for eyeshadow really brings out blue eyes! juss mix them up a lil bit. pinks and blues also make them stand out. depending what you and your boyfriend are going to do, that'll let ya know if you need to dress up a lil better or not. if none of this helped ya out then have a friend come over n help ya:-D all in all have fun!!:-)
Hey Amber its me mandy again. My life isnt going so great. i dont think it ever was. everything is happening to me at once i dont know what to do anymore last week i got into a fight with my dad and i ended up cutting myself. nothing bad but i promised myself i would never do that and everything just fell on me and i did. its not a habit or anything im just not happy. I had my mom crying last night b/c i was crying she said she hates seeing me like this. I told her i hate being like this im just under alot of stress with the break up with chris and its my senior year i have to chose a college and i dont even know what i wanna be yet and everything is just fallin on me at once and i dont know what to do im so cofused im never smiling i dont joke anymore i cry every chance i get. I hung out with michael and karl last night and i ran out of this guy dannys house b/c i couldnt keep myself from crying, they all ran after me but it was to late by then i was in my car and i just took off. I hate being depressed and i dont know how to get the old me back....can u please hlp me before i do something really stupid
Mandy
hay hun sorry it took me so long to responde, i've been dealing with a lot of stress myself and haven't been checking out my inbox lately. to help yourself get over your stress, you need to complete one thing at a time. maybe you could try makeing up with your dad? that's a start. than after you make up with your dad go look around for a college to go to. this is the perfect oppurtuinity for you to find the college that you want to go to around this time of year. now i know that breakups are really hard, i've been through many of them. the most you can do is hold your head up high n hope for the best. my good friend brandon told me that you shouldn't get so attatched to someone especially when you're in highschool. yea i know we're girls and that's what we do, but it kind of made sense to me when he told me that. so maybe in your next relationship you should try not to get so attatched to the guy and then maybe if you guys broke up it wouldnt be so hard on you. you should really also try to have more fun in life. i know it's hard because you're so depressed lately, but try to joke around n try to smile a lot. n if ur still depressed after a while of it then maybe you should see a doctor about it so that you can get some medicine. i'm so very sorry that all of this is happening to you bc you dont' desever it one bit!! you seem like a pretty great person and it's a shame to hear about you being depressed all of the time:-/ i hope everything for the best works out for you!! once again sorry it took me so long to responde... much love!
I swear you should just have a Mandy Advice page lol, im already a fan. But yeah heres some more bullshit i need help with. Sorry i cant figure things out on my own im not fully there. Ok so i talked to my freind Karl today and i asked him why chris really broke up with me b/c im hearing 50 different things. And he said well one michael was lying he doesnt wanna get back with his ex girlfreind and 2 he just doesnt want a gf right now its hard as it is being in military school then having to look after someone is 10 times harder. So i heard that BUT then karl said he said im not his type of girl im "boring" ok i dont see how im boring b/c he thought everything was going great up until he had to leave for military school, he was happy and i wasnnt boring but now that he came back and seen me one day i was boring. but w/e im not gonna swet that, well i kind of am, how do i not be boring. i live in a boring ass town where u need money to do everything and yes i work but at the same time i need that money for gas and insurance and shit so how do i have fun what are some thigns i can do so when he does come back 3-4 months from now i can shove it in his face and show him im not as boring as he thought i was......thanks
Mandy
i don't understand how you're boring?? you need to find out why he thought you were boring though. maybe ask karl? w/e he thought was boring about you, you can change *if that's what you really want to do* or maybe next time you guys hang out talk a lil more and laugh a lil more and maybe even do random silly things:-p i would try to find out wat he thought was so boring about you first though. and when you do find out let me know why he thought that.
thanks for the advice i was thinking the same thing...my mom said he might realize what he lost and come crawling back and maybe even by then i wont want him anymore. But the thing is he knows im hurting and he doesnt wanna see me like this he said it hisself but hes hanging with his ex girlsfreinds now, he told michael ( who i dont know if i cant believe b/c he lies alot and really likes me) but he told him that hes gonna try to get back with his ex gf amanda or Monicka a chick down the street i mean i believe it kind of b/c when i called him his ex gf picked up the phone, yeah that hurt ALOT but anyways i dont think thers any hope for us to get back together i wish there was, im gonna try my hardest to look hot in the next 3 months when he visits again i wanna look BANGING to make him see what hes missing out on so im hoping i do well with that. but thanks for the advice and im not feeling any better but im getting there u dont get over these things i na couple days it takes time thanks and if ur ever on ill send u a pick of me and a pick of chris if u wnt and u can help me with the look lol thanks
Mandy
well you seemed a little more calm this time so that's really good:-) how come he's wanting to get back with his ex if he "doesnt want to be tied up with a girlfriend"? What a sleeze!! and yea he will prolly come crawling back to you wether it's sometime soon or in 10 years. they always come crawling back. and like you said you'll prolly be with someone new and someone who'll treat you 10 times better than he ever did! Good luck with getting over this i know it's really hard. like i said if ya ever need nething just gimme an IM. i'll ttyl, good luck with everything!
Me and Chris broke up, i told him everything thatwas on my mind and he basically said that hes not happy anymore hes 16 he doesnt wanna be held down with one girl. It hurts really bad b/c he also said the only reason why he ever said I LOVE YOU is b/c he felt obligated that he had too. I asked him what i could do to make this work and he said nothing its pretty much over im not his type of girl im not outgoing im like how the hell amisuppose to be outgoing when your away at military school. Hes like i dunno. He doesnt really know either, when he called yesteday i was like ok just do it hes like do what im like break up with me hes like no i cant im like well u have to b/c your not happy anymore and theres no point in keeping this going hes like i cant do it mandy i dont want too im like chris do u think we can save this relationship hes like no im like do u even want to hes like no im like well then fucking break up with me. Then hes like well i still really wanna be friends im like okthats fine but ur going away for 4 more months i dought will be as close as we were with the letters. Then he brought up this hes like did u make out with michael im like omg NO. i think he really dumped me b/c he think i cheated on him. Im so hurt right now its not even funny i still have his Ring his necklace his bear and all his CD's and everytime i call to stop by he hurry up sand says NO DONT COME OVER like hes still trying to avoid me even though were broken up why is he doing that? i told him i wanted to give back all his stuff and hes like no mandy keep it i got them all for u im like i dont want them anymore hes like well then through them out. Amber i dont know what to do i left work 6 hours early yesterday b/c i was just in tears i didnt go to chool today bc i didnt getany sleep last night im hurting really bad. I know its for the best b/c hes not him anymore hes not the chris i fell for. He told me things were going great before he left but now there not and its all b/c his attitude change. Its like the old chris Died and im missing it so much i dont know what to do anymore i hate feeling like this but its so hard to move on from your first love and i really need help, im not the kind of girl who gets starred at everyday by guys im not that good looking at all and it just hurts please help me.
Mandy
aww mandy i know what it's like to be dumped by your first love:-/ it feels like your heart has been ripped out into a million pieces and then stomped on while they lay helplessly on the ground. It seems to me like he's confused about what he wants. he prolly heard that story n didnt know what to believe. also, he didnt even want to take the stuff back that he got for you.plus he won't even take back his own ring or necklace. and when he keeps avoiding you, maybe he's hurting inside about this too or maybe he's afraid to see you so hurt. i know it's hard but you need to understand that he is only 16 years old and he still has his whole life ahead of him. you gotta try n look on the bright side a little bit. you'll get to meet new people and maybe even meet a guy who'll appreciate you 10 times more than chris did:-D and you'll be able to hang out with him too. since chris was gone in military school n all you barely got to see him n i bet that sucked. also, since he's in military school you know that he didnt break up with you for another girl and he's obviously going to be too busy to start looking for another one. so maybe by the time he gets back he'll come to his sense and want you back again. most guys end up doing that in the long run;-) it's going to take a while for your heart to heal, but in the long run you'll be a whole lot stronger with this experience. n if you think you're not all that good looking *which im sure you are* then you can always send me a pic of you and maybe i can help you out with a few things:-) just IM me on sexyblueyezgurl if you EVER need to talk about anything! I'm usually on a lot but away since i'm pretty busy during the day. I know what i told you won't help you overcome anything right away but i hope i could have at least made you feel better in some way. even if it was even the tineyest way.
well i had my period.. n they were like all the symptoms n everything so im sure i had it.. but ive missed my period date?? idk wats going on.. i tried to wait a few extra days but its been like 4-5 days n i sitll havent gotten it? its my 2nd time getting my period so i dunno is that normal? im not very close with my mom.. so i cant really talk to ehr about it.. i dunno what to do! helppp!! ((n i havent been having sex lol so it cant be that))
well since you just started and all it is going to take a while to get it again. your first year of haveing it is when your body is going to start getting used to it. so you may have it one month n then the next you wont have it. so nothing to worry about it's normal
Me and my x-boyfriend got back together, and we are going to be in the same class when school starts (Augest 31st). I dumped him cause people were telling me he was cheating on me, but he gave me another chance, what if it doesn't work out? cuz we r gunna be in the same class
if it doesnt work out then don't worry. just because you're in the same class doesnt mean you HAVE to talk to him all of the time. plus what if you guys decide to remain friends?
hey. im starting to go thru puberty and develop my breats but the question is how long will it FULLY take them to develop. theyve been the same for lyk 4 months and there not growing. and no, i kno that they still have a lot more to grow cuz no normal person could have boobs this small. but anyways how long will it take them to develop FULLY. please help!
a few years prolly. just because you started puberty doesnt mean that you'll be fully developed in a few months. you'll keep developing until you hit the age of 18.
Ok lets see.I have a seven year old sister and a 4 year old brother and they are way out of control!I know kids are wild and everything but these two are beyond wild!They destroy everything and do whatever they want and i mean anything and have completely ruined my life and has turned my mom almost nuts.Shes not the same as she use to be and its been bugging me alot more lately.And im 8 months pregnant and i dont want her around these two kids acting the way they do and everytime i try and talk to my mom about it she gets mad at me and flips out.And no matter how much she yells at them or punishs them they still dont listen and just keep on doing the same shit.Its gotten out of control to where i dont know what to do anymore!Help!! :-(
when she punishes them tell her to not let them eat their favorite foods that night or not let them watch their favorite tv shows. maybe even send them to bed early if she has to. if they still keep it up then maybe she should go see a couselor or something and maybe that can help you guys work your problems out. good luck