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Hey hun havnt talked to you in like forever. But it looks like your doing good with a new boyfreind and all. You deserve it. Well i need help again lol. Actually i dunno if its even help but can u please try? Ok well u know i wrote a letter to chris dumping him and i told him i never wanna hear from him again. I was doing perfectly fine i got over him and everything. Well his mom called me and i dont think she knows we split up b/c she was asking about us and i didnt have the heart to tell her thats his job not mine, so i told her i dont write him anymopre b/c he hasnt written me, well she told me he was out of stamps for the longest time and she just sent more so i should be getting a letter. I was thinking no its b/c i told him never to write me again but i didnt say that.... well just Yesterday i got a letter from him. Just when i was excepting he was outta my life too. BAM he writes. Well in the letter it said like i know u dont care that im writing you b/c u dont care about us anymore but i had to i miss talking to you, he went on about how depressed he was in there and nothings going good for him or anything. Then he told me he wants some kind of relationship with me even if its just as freinds. He wrote that he KNOWS i still wnana be freinds with him then he said ...well i hope u do anyway. Then at the end he was like if u have time can u please write back if not then i understand. And his PS was like if u need anything anything at all ill do it i promise ( i dunno what that means) but anyway then he signed it love chris. the letter was so sweet and memories just popped back into my head. Well tell me if im wrong i wrote him back saying yeah we can still be freinds i guess thats not a problem and stuff like that. Now my problem is im not sure iof i can do the freind thing. When me anda boyfreind break up thats it its usually over and i never have to see them again b/c i can never take the fact that there seeing other girls b/c it hurts to much. Well chris is going to be seeing other women and if im his freind im just gonna get jelouse and i dunno if i can take that. I mean now being freinds is great b/c i dont have to hear about other girls or who hes seeing b/c he aint seeing anyone but once he comes back its gonna hurt alot and im not sure if i handle that. I dunno its gonna feel so wierd when we were dating it was all normal i mean i felt like part of his family and even when we broke up me and his family kept in touch there really sweet and his lil sister loves me to death so i visit all the time but i dunno what im gonna do and i just need some insight from someone and u were the perfect person to go to. So if u can can u please help me
Thanks
Mandy
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hay there! sorry it took me so long to responde my internet is GAY!:-/ Newho...yea i understand that it's going to be hard being "just friends" with him. And it is i've been down that road before. But after a while of it you'll come to realize that it's not all that bad afterall. My boyfriend/Neighbor of a year and 4 months broke up w/me...and boy it was soooo sooo soooooo HARD just being friends with him. But once i moved on to another guy it wasn't all that bad. I mean are there any other guys that you are interested in? bc once you find someone else that you are really interested in, you won't have those feelings for chris anymore. I mean you'll still love him n u prolly always will, but not like that. I think you should write back to him. But juss tell him that if you guys are going to "just be friends" then you don't wanna hear a/b other women in his life for a while, juss so that you can get used to it all. Don't worry, in the end everything will be ok:-) My ex *the one of a year and four months* and i are like best friends practically right now, and hearing a/b other girls in his life doesnt bother me one bit. so i know that the same thing can happen w/you. take care hun!!:-D
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