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Me and Chris broke up, i told him everything thatwas on my mind and he basically said that hes not happy anymore hes 16 he doesnt wanna be held down with one girl. It hurts really bad b/c he also said the only reason why he ever said I LOVE YOU is b/c he felt obligated that he had too. I asked him what i could do to make this work and he said nothing its pretty much over im not his type of girl im not outgoing im like how the hell amisuppose to be outgoing when your away at military school. Hes like i dunno. He doesnt really know either, when he called yesteday i was like ok just do it hes like do what im like break up with me hes like no i cant im like well u have to b/c your not happy anymore and theres no point in keeping this going hes like i cant do it mandy i dont want too im like chris do u think we can save this relationship hes like no im like do u even want to hes like no im like well then fucking break up with me. Then hes like well i still really wanna be friends im like okthats fine but ur going away for 4 more months i dought will be as close as we were with the letters. Then he brought up this hes like did u make out with michael im like omg NO. i think he really dumped me b/c he think i cheated on him. Im so hurt right now its not even funny i still have his Ring his necklace his bear and all his CD's and everytime i call to stop by he hurry up sand says NO DONT COME OVER like hes still trying to avoid me even though were broken up why is he doing that? i told him i wanted to give back all his stuff and hes like no mandy keep it i got them all for u im like i dont want them anymore hes like well then through them out. Amber i dont know what to do i left work 6 hours early yesterday b/c i was just in tears i didnt go to chool today bc i didnt getany sleep last night im hurting really bad. I know its for the best b/c hes not him anymore hes not the chris i fell for. He told me things were going great before he left but now there not and its all b/c his attitude change. Its like the old chris Died and im missing it so much i dont know what to do anymore i hate feeling like this but its so hard to move on from your first love and i really need help, im not the kind of girl who gets starred at everyday by guys im not that good looking at all and it just hurts please help me.
Mandy
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aww mandy i know what it's like to be dumped by your first love:-/ it feels like your heart has been ripped out into a million pieces and then stomped on while they lay helplessly on the ground. It seems to me like he's confused about what he wants. he prolly heard that story n didnt know what to believe. also, he didnt even want to take the stuff back that he got for you.plus he won't even take back his own ring or necklace. and when he keeps avoiding you, maybe he's hurting inside about this too or maybe he's afraid to see you so hurt. i know it's hard but you need to understand that he is only 16 years old and he still has his whole life ahead of him. you gotta try n look on the bright side a little bit. you'll get to meet new people and maybe even meet a guy who'll appreciate you 10 times more than chris did:-D and you'll be able to hang out with him too. since chris was gone in military school n all you barely got to see him n i bet that sucked. also, since he's in military school you know that he didnt break up with you for another girl and he's obviously going to be too busy to start looking for another one. so maybe by the time he gets back he'll come to his sense and want you back again. most guys end up doing that in the long run;-) it's going to take a while for your heart to heal, but in the long run you'll be a whole lot stronger with this experience. n if you think you're not all that good looking *which im sure you are* then you can always send me a pic of you and maybe i can help you out with a few things:-) just IM me on sexyblueyezgurl if you EVER need to talk about anything! I'm usually on a lot but away since i'm pretty busy during the day. I know what i told you won't help you overcome anything right away but i hope i could have at least made you feel better in some way. even if it was even the tineyest way.
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