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I dont know what to do!
Hi. My name is Toni and i'm a girl. My friend has been putting things about me on her profile and they are really mean things. I saw them and they made me feel bad and when i was alone, i cried for hours. I can be a dramaqueen, but who isn't one at one time or another?
Also people in her guestbook were calling me a bitch and saying that i was immature and they dont even know me! Should i tell my friend? Thanks in advance!
Toni
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Hey~Talk to your friend first and she why she is putting that and if that doesn't work I would tell a friend you trust or someone so they can help you get through it! HOpe things work out for you! ~Paige~
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hey, OMG u should talk 2 ur freind, and tell her that those things she put in there hurt ur feelings. If she was a real friend then she wouldn't have put hose things on her profile. M-b u should friend a different friend that would never say mean things about u...hope I have helped.
*BECKY*
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Well she really doesn't seem like a good friend. Ask her why she's putting stuff like that in her info. Tell her how you feel about it and stuff..
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*Friend? That does not look like a friend to me. Of course you need to tell her. She's obviously jealous of you or something to write that mean stuff, talk to her ASAP.*
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Hey Toni, Yes! I belive you should tell your friend. Friends are not supposed to act this way to their other friends. So if it helps I think you really should talk to her about this. Well I hope I was some help! Good Luck!
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Yeah! Tell her! I wouldn't exactly call her your "friend", but I think you should tell her. 'N it seems to me that she's the one that's an immature Bit**. But hey~ that's my opinion, if you still wanna be good friends with her, talk to her about it. 'N if she doesn't listen to you when you talk to her about it, forget her. She's not worthy enough to be called a "friend" Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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If this girl is really your friend she wouldnt be doing this to you! I friend doesnt treat you like your nothing! Stand up to her stick up for yourself, no matter what kno one should have to deal with humilation or being hurt. Just bring it up casually " WHy did you put those things about me on your profile, i dont appreciate it" or somthing. try not to me over dramatic bring it up, see whats up, just dont let people treat you that way.
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i'm really sorry. your friends are jerks. stop being friends with them because they could take advantage of you one minute and be mean to you next. whenever they do these mean things to you, DONT let them know that it bothers you because then they will know they succeeded in what they were trying to do. i just wouldnt say anything, until it gets worse. if they keep doing it, and you want to do something about it just tell someone else who can handle it. <3
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aww i'm really sorry that this is happening you to. i'd confront your friend a/b it first and ask her what her deal is. then tell her how it made you feel and that it made you cry. she'll prolly end up feeling really bad and taking it out *hopefully* if she doesn't, than i say screw her who needs friends like that? I wouldn't however put mean things a/b her in your info, that'll just bring you down to her level. all you gotta do is juss keep ignoring her and sooner or later she'll get the hint that you don't care and stop. good luck w/everything hun!
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You should definately confront your friend. Tell her how you feel and that it was really rude. Tell her you cried and stuff,, then she will feel bad and will take it off( if shes a good friend) if she doesn't,stop being friends with her adn put something really rude aboout her in your pro.
xoxo, maris
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In my opinion, I'd confront my friend about it, ask her why she's saying this stuff, and ask her about the people talking about you. Ask her if you've done something to upset her, or if she's jealous, or mad, just ask her whats up.
I'm sorry if you don't like my advice, I'm just telling you what I'd do in that situation.
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You shud not take any notice of her if you know ure not immature its fine and if she says anymore i should say something to her because she is not a good friend if she does that is she?
hope it is helpful!!!!! thank you
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