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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused
okay im 14 and not a virgin, i really dont appreciate you posting your opinoins on us, and degrading us, this is an ADVICE column, we arent affecting you, so what do you need advice on, it seems all your doing is talking bad about us. and no i am not a hoe i have only done it with one guy, and no we were not going out, but i cared about him alot. Yeah in the end it ended up sucky, but damn why do it matter how old you are when u do it? age aint nothing but a number newaiz, if you ask me your either just a really prude girl, or a nerd or cant get none, so stop hatin on those who can! But you want to know why, because he was an older guy who i cared for alot and we wanted to, and i did it so he would stick around, yeah it sounds dumb but ive become so much stronger from this and have learned alot. so next time stop worrying about other ppl and worry about yourself!
I was talking to my boyfriend and he got a boner. I happened to glance at it and he noticed me looking and got real embarrassed. I can understand why he'd be embarrassed but now he's scared to talk to me anymore. I don't think it's gross or weird. It's natural and I wish he could see that I don't care. He doesn't have to feel ashamed or anything around me. He makes me horny too. TMI? Sorry!
just tell your boyfriend, that your not weireded out at all by it, and you feel the same way sumtimes just he cant "see" when your feeling that way, let him know your own the same page. Hope i helped!
I've never gotten along with my dad's side of the family. We see each other once a month and they always ask the same dumb questions. "How is school?" they ask and I say fine. "Do you have a boyfriend?" they enquire and I say no. Then they ponder ALOUD why not. Well, Today we went over there and I was nervous because this time I actually have a boyfriend. I was tempted to lie and just sit through hearing all my attractive qualities again. But instead of asked if I had one, they asked "Who's your boyfriend?" I was so mad that they just assumed that I had one! (Nobody had told them I did.) They just assumed I did and out of the blue wanted to hear all about him! Well I hate that side of my family and I NEVER want them to meet any of my boyfriends. They'd be totally embarrassing and would probably scare my bf off. So what do I do? I don't want to tell them anything about my boyfriend, I don't want them to think they'll get to "meet" him, and I don't want to tell them that they are nosey. What should I do? They probably think I'm rude because I did'nt even tell them his name! But I think they are rude for invading my business and assuming things. I don't care if they are teasing or not, it's sooo mega annoying! HELP!
you shouldnt have to lie to your family, i know it gets on your nerves but their probally jus excited to see you. When then ask about your boyfriend just be like yeah i have one but its nothing serious yet.Even if it is, you can always say it isn't so they wont pester you about meeting him, and if they do just explain that you guys are not in that stage of your relationship yet, and maybe when it gets more serious then you'll consider it. Even if it's a partial lie, itll get you through dinner.
well theres this guy...we'll just call him bill...well i rlly like bill and i think he likes me too...he's moving to florida and the end of the school year which is in june...im really upset b/c i rlly liked him...i want to leave him with a good im pression today so that he'll go crazy and like me even more...i was thinkin of my friend askin to take a picture of us and then after she'll be like wait one more..and when she counts to three ill kiss his cheak in the picture...what do u think?
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since halloween is coming up me n all my friends are going to my friends house and my friends coming thats a year younger than us buts hes rlly our age....since we like eachother how could i get him to make out with me
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Hi I Have A Question. ((Duh!)) Umm, Although I Lover Her ALOT, My Mom Is The Most Irresponsible Immature Woman I Know, And I'm Not Saying This Because I'm Mad At Her Or Anything, I'm Saying It Because She ****'s Up Everything!! Everyday She Forgets To Do Something Or Whatever. Example: I'l Ask Her Nicely To Wake Me Up In The Morning For School, And She'l Do So, But 5 Minutes Before School Even Starts. Here's Some Other Things That Really Bother Me.
-She'll Forget Her Keys In The Car.
-She'll Yell For Me Really Loud In The Store When She's Too Lazy To Walk To The Next Isle And Tell Me To Come.
-She'll Blame Her Problems On Me. i.e.= She Doesnt Take The Wet CLothes Out Of The Washer, Then They Smell Really Bad, And She'll Say, "Well If You Didn't Keep Me Up All Night Makin Me Help You Study I Would Have Remembered" And I Wouldnt Even Keep Her Up All Night. Having Her Do Something With Me Like Helping Me Study For 5 Minutes Is Something That Happens Only Maybe Once A Year. She' Be Too Busy Sleeping.
-She Wears Clothes That Dont Fit Her, And She Dresses Like A Hooker With A Mental Disability. MANY Disablities Actually.
-She Got Her Hair Cut Like A Guy, And It's So Embarassing. Her Whole Appearance Is Embarassing.
I've Been Dealing With Her...Awfulness For Quite Some Years Now, And I Can't Take It Anymore. So Much..Ughh.....I Can't Handle This Anymore, And Sometimes I Even Contemplate Suicide Because My Life's Not Worth Living When She Messes Everything In It Up. SHe Will Go Buy Me Candy To Make Up For What She Did, But That DOesnt Help Me With My Tardy To School, Or My Label "The One With The Retarded Mom." I Hate It, I Hate This. Will You Be My Mom?
Wow, that seems tough, Im really sorry. But maybe you should try confronting her one more time, and if she doesnt improve her actions tell her you you love her but want to go live with another relative. That may convince her, and if not you can always go live with another realitve. Its not fair that any one should have to live like that, your the kid and shes the adult even though us teens have to take on some responbility, she has to take her share too.
OMG...i really need to help my friend she needs help fast! she is 14 and she had sex with her boyfriend and she just found out that she iz pregnant. please dont leave advice like "oh she shouldn't have done that because she is a slut" and stuff because we really dont need to hear that and she isn't a slut because she really loves her boyfriend! she doesn't know how to tell her mom and she has no clue what to do she is just crying and crying and i'm trying to comfort her but what should i say
Just keep telling her it will be okay, and I dont think she is a slut at all, a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do. Theyre a few options but first she has to ask herself, a few questions. Like does she want to have this baby? Would she consider an abortion? Or would she consider adoption? Or would she keep it? If she decides against having it, theyre are a few options, that may sound cruel but I know people who have done it. So they dont have to tell there parents, they jump on trampelons, hang up side down, fall down stairs do everything they can to cause a miscarage. Or your friend could write a letter to her mother (who would probally be most understanding) saying that shes a teenager know and nos what shes doing, its her body, and this wasnt meant to happen but she got pregent. Her and her parents may fight, but shyt happens. Eventually shell be forgiven. Her and parents can decided whether shell have an aborition adoption, keep it or whatever. Best of Luck to Your friend BTW if i was in that situation i would b glad to ahve a friend like you, : )
OK I have this "friend". Really she used to be my best friend, then I went away for the summer and she really started irritating me by talking about all these hot guys she's saying and how they all hit on her and how when I come back I get the less hotter one because she saw them first. WTF is that?! Do any of your friends do this? And plus, I KNOW for a fact that all of them do not hit on her because 1) She's honestly not that attractive. I'm prettier than her, and I don't really think I'm all that pretty anyway. 2) Whenever we went out together, which was quite alot, nobody ever hit on her. She'd always approach the guys she knew first.
Well anyway, back to what I was originally saying...over the summer things got different. After I got back things were not the same between her, me, and our other mutual friend. The mutual friend and I would still get online and call each other and hang out and stuff. But the main girl barely wanted anything to do with us. The one thing that set me off was one day we were all supposed to go to Ryan's (a steakhouse) which is 30 minutes away but this "friend" called and bailed on me (telling me she had a headache and didn't want to drive) like she always ALWAYS used to but I always took it from her. So I was pissed and asked my other friend to go hang out so we went to Wal-Mart and guess who pulled up right as we were walking home?
Yup you guessed it. So the other friend asked for a ride and the "friend" looked kinda irritated then hesitated. Since then I haven't spoken to her till a few days ago. Today she was suposed to take me to pick up my check from Subway, but she didn't. I called twice, left a message on her phone and on AIM but nothing. I knew she wasn't going to come which is why I made plans for someone else to take me.
My problem is, she wants me to go to her birthday party on Friday and since she's been such a terrible friend to me and done nothing but made me feel ugly when we were out together (by saying the hot guys were looking at her not me), and never keeping promises or plans...should I go? I mean normally I'm such a loyal person but I think she's just gone overboard with this. I'm sick of it.
I'm so sorry this was long...I just thought you all should nkow the whole story. Thanks for answering and I will rate you a 5 if you even put one sentence just because you read all this! :D
Ok First your "Friend" is being a bitch to you, which isnt right. Im kind of a what goes around comes around type of person, so i think you should str8 up say to her. I dont think you really want me coming to this party because youve been treatin me like shyt, and if i go youll probally treat me bad therr to. So I would just go to the party give her a card, and say well im leavin now and leave. It will leave stumped, and realise what a bitch she was being, if she was really your friend at all. Good Luck hope i helped
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Hi. My name is Toni and i'm a girl. My friend has been putting things about me on her profile and they are really mean things. I saw them and they made me feel bad and when i was alone, i cried for hours. I can be a dramaqueen, but who isn't one at one time or another?
Also people in her guestbook were calling me a bitch and saying that i was immature and they dont even know me! Should i tell my friend? Thanks in advance!
Toni
If this girl is really your friend she wouldnt be doing this to you! I friend doesnt treat you like your nothing! Stand up to her stick up for yourself, no matter what kno one should have to deal with humilation or being hurt. Just bring it up casually " WHy did you put those things about me on your profile, i dont appreciate it" or somthing. try not to me over dramatic bring it up, see whats up, just dont let people treat you that way.
I really like this guy, and he says he likes me too or atleast he did. Well the other day, he didnt talk to me at all. I called him and he didnt pick up, i texted him and he diditn answer, and then i talked to him online and he said he was goin to some party when actually i saw him at our schools football game. When i saw him he just smiled at me and walked right on by. I dont understand it, last weekend he wanted to be my boyfriend and then this weekend he doesnt even talk to me. What should i do, call him and ask him whats goin on, or just wait for him to call me since he didnt pick up his phone last time i tried.
Please help,
Wow, this sounds just like a guy I use to know. Is his name Alvaro or Junior by any chance? LoL. Well it might be that hes embarassed after expressing himself, and just avoiding you because he doesnt want to sound like hes soft, guys want to be big and tough. So that may be the guess hes simply embarassed. Or maybe he was just caught up in the moment last week, and was just looking for some fun, n then realized what he said wasnt true, i kno i kno that harsh but somtimes its true (( Hey it happened to Me, Or i think it Did, I dOnt KnO)) but i HoPE it All goEs weLL and HeS juSt shY.
there is this one kid who i started liking, because we have alot in common, we listen to the same music, dress the same, and i assumed he liked me too because of the way he smiles at me, and plus we're going to a show together. well yesterday he told my best friend that he likes HER, which doesnt even make sense because she's not even his type. and she doesnt even like him back. i'm so confused cause i had no clue that he likes her. but my best friend still thinks theres hope that he could start liking me, but it just doesnt make sense. ps, he doesnt know that i like him, so should i tell him?
Boys can be soo confusing! I hate to bring bad news, but have you ever heard opposites attract? Just because your very similar doesn't mean he wants a girl just like him, because it would be boring, itd be like having your self around all the time. I mean you and your bestfriend are really differnt but your still Best Friends, See? HOWEVER that may not be the case, he MIGHT have told your friend that, knowing it would get back to you, to see how you reacted, if you were jealous or not. Boys minds can be crazy. If you feel there might still be a chance, tell him how you feel, but dont go on and on and on, as us girls tend to do. Wait till after the movie, see if he flirts or not, that would give you a good idea, on how he feels.
i am having an italian night and i'm having my friends ova!! what should i do for italian night?? how should i decorate and what kind of games can we play there is gonna be 4 girls and one guy!! suggestions??
Heres some advice from a lil italian grl...hehe...I say you should have some pastas for entries, and canolies for desert ((YuMMy))...Download some Italian music off the computer, even just classical gondola music. Deck the house out in Green White and Red, with lots of food around. Some games if your going for a corny type thing would be like pin the paddle on the gondola man, or just have fun dancing to the italian music, you can also look up some Traditional Italian Dances online and try those. Hope You have fun!
omgggg!! ok i can never do ne thing with my bf he invited me to the mall tongiht i cant go and i wanna but cant and i feel bad tellen him cuz the reason we broke up last time was cuz i was always too busy. then my mom prob wont lemme over hus house tommorow cuz he doesnt trust me..helpppp im stressed out in the dumbest way
Even though your a busy girl, maybe you should set asside time for him, talk to your moma n him about it. Tell him how much you care, and you cant help your busy shecdule but u really wanna spend time with him. Instead of going to his house tomarrow, why not have him come to yours? So your mom can see your trustworthy. Or try going to a movie. If he really cares about you, he will understand, that some times theres just nothing you can do.
my voice maked me uncomfterable because im a girl with an incridably low voice, like whenever i talk to a guy, they always ask if i have a cold and some people make fun of me because of my voice. i just wanna know a way that maybe my voice can sound a litlle higher.plz!!!!
Believe it or not, your not the only one with that problem, well sorta. My friend Lanie has the opposite problem she has an incredibly high pitched squeaky voice. People make fun of her because she sounds like shes 6, but she learns to deal. One day youll realise its just a voice, Lanie got over it, and now that shes confident people like her. So smile.
its my friends birthday on sunday.. n im going to her party saturday to sunday.. i have no idea what to get her!! shes a punk girl who likes soccer.. so if u could give me ideas thatd b great!! i'll rate u!!
hEyy...I always appreciate presents that are made because you can tell time and thought were put into them. So maybe you should go out and buy a pink and black soccer ball, and in either the pink or the black diamonds cut out pictures of you two and/or a bunch of your friends and cut slits in the diamonds and insert them in. If that doesn't work out you can always make a photo album based shaped like a soccer ball, with a pics of you and your gang. Be creative! Sincerly Mz_Laudie Hope I helped!