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I really like this guy, and he says he likes me too or atleast he did. Well the other day, he didnt talk to me at all. I called him and he didnt pick up, i texted him and he diditn answer, and then i talked to him online and he said he was goin to some party when actually i saw him at our schools football game. When i saw him he just smiled at me and walked right on by. I dont understand it, last weekend he wanted to be my boyfriend and then this weekend he doesnt even talk to me. What should i do, call him and ask him whats goin on, or just wait for him to call me since he didnt pick up his phone last time i tried.
Please help,
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i would call him one more time and if he doesnt answer then do wut he is doing act like u dont want to talk to him ne more and then see wut he says.
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call him and yell at him!! Tell him your feelings are hurt because hes acting all wierd. Maybe hes mad at you or something because his behavior is really really wierd. I dont know why someone would do this in their right mind-- but hold on tight sweetie, its a stupid guy thing i could just SEE happening. We all have our bad days... maybe this was just one of them? You might find he still likes you hes just shy or something... geese idk good luck hun!
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Wow, this sounds just like a guy I use to know. Is his name Alvaro or Junior by any chance? LoL. Well it might be that hes embarassed after expressing himself, and just avoiding you because he doesnt want to sound like hes soft, guys want to be big and tough. So that may be the guess hes simply embarassed. Or maybe he was just caught up in the moment last week, and was just looking for some fun, n then realized what he said wasnt true, i kno i kno that harsh but somtimes its true (( Hey it happened to Me, Or i think it Did, I dOnt KnO)) but i HoPE it All goEs weLL and HeS juSt shY.
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Well first off you shouldn't be that clingy. Like calling him and texting him and freaking out because he's not talking to you. Guys don't like girls that are clingy. Meaning they don't like girls that are always around always calling them trying to figure out where they are what they're doing who their with. That kind of thing. Just wait it out and if it does turn out that he doesn't like you, don't get upset. Just move on. You'll be fine and you'll find the right guy. I tell all girls this and all gay guys...lol... most men are assholes. It's been proven time and time again. I finally found the right one. lol Hope this helped. Just calm down please!!
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don't take this the wrong way, but it sounds like you're being a bit clingy. Guys don't like clingy girls and it could be driving him away. My neighbor was dating this girl he really liked and broke up with her after four hours because she was being too clingy already. Guys are scared of commitment. They want to know they are still going to have some freedom and some space if they date you. Believe me, no matter how much they like you, they don't want to be around you 24/7. That's just the way guys are. What you need to do is back off for awhile. Go spend time with your friends and live you lie. Have fun. If he really likes you he'll see what he's missing and come around. You've got to show him you don't need him as much as you're acting like you do right now. When he sees that you've got your own life and you won't need him there for you every minute of the day, he will probably come around. Guys need girlfriends who understand their needs. Just let him do what he wants for now and see what happens. If he doesn't come around, forget about him. He's obviously not the type of guy you are looking for.
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He is brushing you off. I don't know what changed his mind between last weekend and today, but when a boy ignores you, it a sure sign he doesn't want to be with you. If you continue to call him, you will start to look desperate. Big the bigger person and forget him, or maybe he'll call.
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