Gender: Female
Location: South Carolina
Occupation: sales rep
Age: 16
AIM: xxlydlecxx
Member Since: September 27, 2004
Answers: 21
Last Update: October 9, 2004
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I watch alot of movies..well..alot of love movies. The movies where ppl fall in love. And the more i watch those movies the more i want that in reality. I want to be in love..does neone else feel that way?
Or am i just stupid for even thinking that :/
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your not stupid at all. EVERYONE wants love. it just takes a while to find it and for it to be true. Dont worry one day you will find tru love
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I'm not sure but how can you tell the difference of love and like.Because i like or love this one boy but i dunno if i love him and most my friends tells me i do even one of my teachers! so my question is how do you know when u love someone and how do you know if they love you back?thanks in advance for even concidering to read this. (link)
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you ccan tell if you in love with him if liek you dont get to spend one day with him and you miss him like crazy or god for bid but if yall broke up you would go crazy! The only true way that you could find out if he loves you is either ask him or write him a letter tellin him how u feel and see wut he says. How long have yall been dating?
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This may be kinda long, but I need to ask someone. I just started taking birth control pills 3 weeks ago. I think I may be pregnant but, I havent missed my next scheduled period. Since I just started taking the pill, that messes up my cycle for this month. I have other signs of possibly being pregnant. Being on my pills the nurse told me I should be getting my period around the 13th of this month. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active..in fact every night. I know we shouldnt do it, but it is unprotected each time. Is there a way that I could find out now if I could be pregnant..like take a pregnancy test tomorrow and find out? Im really nervous and want to know if I am now. I need to know what to do soon. Thanks. (link)
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If u think you mite be pregnant then you should stop takin the pill b.c if you are then it could kill the baby. But i would just wait till next week without takin the pill and then get a test.
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So i broke up with my ex bf for like the 3rd time..we have been on and off since jan.. now we are going out saturday but its just to fool around, no responsability, no stressing out, no pressure... i have strong feelings for him and i know he ha for me too but for some reasons we can't have a long term relationship.. we call each other, talk online, admit to ppl we still have feeling for each other etc.. what is your opinion on this? is it wrong for a 16-17 year old not to want this MEGA SERIOUS relationship right now, even though i really love this guy? thanks.. *pls support ur answer*
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Its not wrong at all for yall to do that. Me and my boyfriend just recently broke up and we have been datin for over a year. I love him with all my heart and i want to get back together but before we started dating we just started out as friends for benefits. Well then it turned into sumthing serious. But it seemed like when we werent dating things were fine but when we did start dating we would fite alot more. Maybe later yall too could try to work things out but if not maybe yall were just meant to be really good friends. I hoped i helped
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im kind of going out with a guy now, but how do i kno when the time is right to kiss him first? Does anybody have any good ideas of when and where is the best time? lol Thanks alot!! (link)
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its would be a good time like when u two are all alone. just reach over and give him a kiss. Like maybe when yall are watching a movie or sumthing
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ok well everyone knows how guys are trying to grow their hair all long n stuff. well- if a guy looks at u then does the little "swoosh" thingy with his hair and fixes it, could that be a sign that he thinks ur hot?
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nope. that is just a sign that he is fixin his hair.
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my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!? (link)
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ur friend is such a loser! there is nothin wrong wit wearin a tampon. many gurls wear them and they are not hoez. u need to tell her to get a freakin life.
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Hey all, it's Siren...Okay. Usually I pose my issue and ask for opinions, but I actually have a problem this time. Sorry about the length...I can't help it.
Here's the issue at hand:
My boyfriend's family is going to Mackinac for halloween weekend, and leaving him home alone. He's invited me over and would not object to my spending the night. My mom does, though. Here's how our conversation went: "Hey mom, how much would you object to my asking you if I could spend the night at my boyfriend's one weekend?"
"I...would...no. It's not appropriate."
"Just like, one weekend..."
"NO. You're not his wife, you're not engaged, it's not appropriate."
(The worst thing about that is we technically are kind of engaged. He proposed, I accepted.)
She's refusing to even CONSIDER it. How do I get her to let me do what I want? I mean, she lets me stay over at my guyfriend Sean's house when he has parties and we all drink...that's WORSE. My bf was actually at one of those parties, but she doesn't know that.
So...help me out? Bottom line is I want to get her to okay it. I don't want to lie, and I don't want to sneak around. I hate keeping things from mom. How do I do this? (link)
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how old are u?? first of all u should just sit down and have a talk wit ur mom and let her kno that u are not a little kid and that she should trust you. let her kno that u arent goin to be her little gurl forever
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I really like this guy, and he says he likes me too or atleast he did. Well the other day, he didnt talk to me at all. I called him and he didnt pick up, i texted him and he diditn answer, and then i talked to him online and he said he was goin to some party when actually i saw him at our schools football game. When i saw him he just smiled at me and walked right on by. I dont understand it, last weekend he wanted to be my boyfriend and then this weekend he doesnt even talk to me. What should i do, call him and ask him whats goin on, or just wait for him to call me since he didnt pick up his phone last time i tried.
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i would call him one more time and if he doesnt answer then do wut he is doing act like u dont want to talk to him ne more and then see wut he says.
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i saw my first love at a football game and i think i might still have something for him. he always wants to see me and hook up but the hook up thing stops me from seeing him. 2 of my best friends like him, one obsessed and the other is a hook up girl. me and him have liked each other on and off for about 5 years but i want to be with him again.. what should i do? (link)
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you cant help who you love. ur bestfriends should understand that, he was your first love and you still have feelings for him and that u still want sumthing between yall. Then you need to tell him strait up that you want to be with him too.
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Hey Im Kristen. I just wanted to say that you give some GREAT advice ;) lol Anyways, I also hava ?. My mom has been REALI rude lately..I mean shes NOT actin like a mom..She is acting like a frickin RUDE teenager!! lol I know this sounds Crazi, but its def. tru! I tri ta talk to her, but she just says mean things bak to me, or she ignors me ..I dunno wat ta do..She was never like this before!! :( Shes always down grading me and saying that i look fat n stuff..I know im not SKINNY, SKINNY. lol But im not FAT! >:( Does your mom ever act like that?? PLEASE answer this..I dunno if its jus me, or it reali is HER.lol THANKS SO MUCH..ILL RATE YAll GOOD! ;)** (link)
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Lets face it no moms are perfect wut so ever but maybe she just hasnt been in the greatest moods lately and that is why she is actin like that. Maybe you should either sit down or write her a letter and talk to her bout the stuff that she is saying to you.
rate me
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my girlfriend has posters on her wall of a bunch of celebrities that she thinks are "hot". She claims to me all the time that she doesnt check them out or think about them in any way but i think she is lying to me. I dont know what to do now. Is she lying to me about checking other guys out or what. She claims they are stupid little pictures, well if they are so stupid why are they up? (link)
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You sound just like my boyfriend. There can be a guy on t.v that i say looks sexy and he can be like oh you like him.. GET OVER IT!! you guys seriously think that we will actually meet the guys on tv. I wouldnt worry bout if she has posters on her wall they are just silly little posters.
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I was talking to my ex and he said that my bestfriend "buth" said something about the guy i liked. I think it was something like, "he doesn't like her like that, and they'll never got out!" I don't know what to do. I'm totally lost in waht i should do. Should I ask her if she said something like that or what? (link)
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I would ask her if she said it just to make sure. And if she says yes then ask her why and if she says no then dont worry about it. Maybe ur ex just said that b.c he wants you back.
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If you have sex and the next day you get your period how high or low are your chances of being pregnant? There was no conterceptive used.Please let me know what you think. (link)
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dont listen to wut the others are sayin.. say you can have unprotected sex tonite and then tomorrow you start that does not mean that you are not pregnant. It takes two weeks for conception and also two weeks before you can find out if you are pregnant. So you will just have to wait a lil while to find out. **You also can still be pregnant if you are on your period** hoped i could help
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I'm 15 and I'm a guy and I'm also having trouble with one of my BEST friends... I keep thinking that we would be great together because we get along soo well and I help her out with her problems and listen to her when she is down.. but I can't bring myself to tell her how I feel. I feel that she would be uncomfortable around me if I brought it up and it also doesn't help that she has a boyfriend. (link)
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If you two are really bestfriends i would really wait until things wit her and her b.f dont work out. I mean you wouldnt want to ruin a friendship. Then later tell her how you feel and see wut she says
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My friend who is a guy (tom) told me that my boyfriend (jon) had been in touch with one of jon's ex's. He said they'd been sending each other dirty texts and that jon had said if his ex didn't live so far away he'd break up with me and go out with her. I asked jon about it but he said Tom was lying. I want to believe him but why would Tom lie to me? Tom keeps trying to get me to break up with jon but he's one of his best friends, what should I do? (link)
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This one is kinda tough. Its one of those moments when you think should you believe wut you hear or believe wut he says. If you really like him or even love him then you would believe him. To be in a relationship you have to trust each other trust me ive learned. Maybe ur friend likes you and that is why he keeps telling you stuff. just sit down and talk to ur b.f.
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Okay, this is a weird question, I'm sure...but I figure I may as well see what y'all say.
Okay...my boyfriend kind of has a thing for "dirty talk" and I think it's totally ridiculous. I start laughing whenever he says something and expects me to respond. I think it bothers him that I keep giggling, but I can't help it! To me, it just seems so totally fake and stupid...
I mean, I've tried playing along, but I just feel so awkward and stupid, saying things like...that...
Should I try to do something about my giggling problem (lol)? Should I tell him I just can't do it? What do you guys think? (link)
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There are just some people who enjoy that kind of thing and then others dont, but just be strait and tell him that you dont like to do that and im sure he will understand.
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My cat has a bad habbit of tearing up the toilet paper rolls. I have tried putting the rolls on backwards so the paper won't roll off when she plays with it, but she is still tearing it up good. I end up thowing away 1/4 of the roll when I go into the bathroom. What can I do to prevent my cat from doing this? (link)
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dont let the cat in the bathroom just keep the door shut that is what i do with my cat.
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OMG...i really need to help my friend she needs help fast! she is 14 and she had sex with her boyfriend and she just found out that she iz pregnant. please dont leave advice like "oh she shouldn't have done that because she is a slut" and stuff because we really dont need to hear that and she isn't a slut because she really loves her boyfriend! she doesn't know how to tell her mom and she has no clue what to do she is just crying and crying and i'm trying to comfort her but what should i say (link)
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I know where you are coming from One of my bestest friends got pregnant last year she couldnt help but cry but i was there. And no it is not ur friends fault wut so ever she didnt make a good choice but we all make mistakes.She and her b.f really need to sit down and have a long talk about what they are goin to do. Then they both need to talk to her mom. or maybe she could write her mom a letter and leave it for her to read. All she needs to do and take her time and im sure things will work out. I hoped i helped
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ther is this boy who i know he keeps asking me out but i dont really like him. he is my friend and i dont want to hurt him. also everyone else makes fun of him and they call him gay. he is really nice but i dont know if i should go out with him what should i do. (link)
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You just need to let him down gently and let him tho that he is a really nice guy but yall two would just be better off friends.hoped i helped
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