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Not Just Yet
So i broke up with my ex bf for like the 3rd time..we have been on and off since jan.. now we are going out saturday but its just to fool around, no responsability, no stressing out, no pressure... i have strong feelings for him and i know he ha for me too but for some reasons we can't have a long term relationship.. we call each other, talk online, admit to ppl we still have feeling for each other etc.. what is your opinion on this? is it wrong for a 16-17 year old not to want this MEGA SERIOUS relationship right now, even though i really love this guy? thanks.. *pls support ur answer*
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Its not wrong at all for yall to do that. Me and my boyfriend just recently broke up and we have been datin for over a year. I love him with all my heart and i want to get back together but before we started dating we just started out as friends for benefits. Well then it turned into sumthing serious. But it seemed like when we werent dating things were fine but when we did start dating we would fite alot more. Maybe later yall too could try to work things out but if not maybe yall were just meant to be really good friends. I hoped i helped
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its normal that you cant be in a long term relationship, your going through probably a lot of stuff in high school, just say you want to be with him but take it slow.
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no it ok. not many people are ready to settle down and have a "MEGA SERIOUS" relationship. its like why settle down now when there are other people you havent even met yet? not many teens want to settle down like that. hope i helped.
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My opinion on the matter? Maybe you're just not ready for commitment. I mean, 16/7, its a stressful time in any teens life, I don't blame you for not wanting to burden yourself with a guy just yet, at least not long term. And he might be the same; Not sure he's ready for the commitment. This time in your life, as far as love goes, I think is a time for testing the waters, finding out what you like or don't like in a guy, and then finding one who fits your critieria.
Or maybe there is some underlying issue that niether of you wants to consider or talk about, maybe in your pasts, or something.
You don't actually mention if you've ever fought over somthing that resulted in you breaking up, but if you have, maybe it was that. Or maybe you just needed a break from each other.
Is it wrong? No. I belive I would just be repeting myself if I 'supported' that answer.
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it fine. not everyone wants to be in a relationship. You may have strong feelings for each other and may always have them but sometimes things just dont work oput the way they seem that they should. its no big. i wouldnt stress it.
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