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i saw my first love at a football game and i think i might still have something for him. he always wants to see me and hook up but the hook up thing stops me from seeing him. 2 of my best friends like him, one obsessed and the other is a hook up girl. me and him have liked each other on and off for about 5 years but i want to be with him again.. what should i do?
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you cant help who you love. ur bestfriends should understand that, he was your first love and you still have feelings for him and that u still want sumthing between yall. Then you need to tell him strait up that you want to be with him too.
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i think you should tell him how you feel about him.. maybe he feels the same way about you.. dont worry about thoes other girls you never know how he feels about them.. you should just go for it.. and if it doesnt work out... dont worry theres always other guys out there ! hope i helped !
-->> Danielle <3
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if your friends are true friends they won't get upset over a guy, although they might be mad because they like him too, if they are good friends. hope i helped
-katie-
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the only thing u can do is tell him...talk to him about it...if u do u'll feel 100% better n if he doesnt want a relationship hes not tha guy 4 u...
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the same thing is happening to me right now. All I think about it him. But if they are your true friends then love shouldnt get in the way of your friendship.. well guys shouldnt.
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When he tells you that he wants to hook-up with you, then hook-up with him! Especially since you two have already liked each other for about 5 years, you're probably destined to be together! Your two friends might be a little angry with you, since they have crushes on him, but just follow your heart and you won't go wrong! =)
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talk to the one who is the hook up typa girl, cause then its not fair for you cause she just wants a hook up one night thing prolly, and u want a life time thing kinda. For the other one,thats whut is going to be difficult. Id also talk to her about it. BEcause really you have first dibs on the guy!! i mean he was ur first love, u guyz have liked eachother for 5 YEARS!! thats not fair to you that right when one of ur other friends likes him u gotta back off. they should be the ones backing off u know? so definetly talk about it with both of them. and tell them that u are still inlove with him but u dont know whut tto do.
love kristin
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