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Q: oK: so i have kinda oily skin... and whatever i do... its still oily! what can i use/do to make my complextion shine free? thanx!
use proactive.. it really works.. or you can use rubbing alchohal*.. i used that for a while until i got proactive lol.. hope i helped
-->> Danielle

Q: Does pro activ really work? any body ever tryed it, how long did it take for you to have clear skin.? any dis-advantages?
yeah ive been using proactive for 2 months i think? give or take a few.. well i put it on every morning before school and night when i go to bed.. i noticed changes in my face in a few days.. it might be different with you but who knows.. i say try it.. its not that cheap though.. and like when you go get it.. they tell you that you have to get like the whole package with everything.. well THEYRE WRONG.. lol.. i only got the face cleaner thing that take oil off your face and clears up bloches.. and it works for me.. so the answer to your question.. yes it does work lol.. hope i helped
-->> Danielle

Q: I was dating this guy, and I was really starting to like him. We had "relations" and it became intense for a minute. But my best freind saw him in the mall, and every since then some how he got he number and they have been talking on the phone since. I stopped liking this guy because I felt he didn't respect me or my best friends friendship. Come to find out my best friend want to have "relations" with him and is talking to him on the phone. She really isn't telling me everything. We told each other that a man could not come in betwwen us, but I think in this situation it is diffrent. I mean I stop liking this guy because of her, and now she wants him. Is she being a friend or a freak?
the same exact thing happened to me a few months ago.. except they kinda hooked eachother up. well she knew that ive liked him forever.. and like they just started talking and w.e and it was just then that she started liking him.. and she went out with him too and shes like "oh a guy could NEVER ruin our relationship" yeah thats what they all say.. well that all changed and all this stuff happened and when they broke up.. she came running back to me.. and then they went out again and we werent friends again.. and were not friends now.. she keeps lieing to me when i ask her stuff about her and him and when i find out she lies even more and says she didnt tell anyone.. meanwhile everyone told me the same exact story except her.. so if you wana loose your friendship with this girl.. then tell her off and be like your a horrible friend and shes the one going off her word that a guy would never ruin your relationship.. but if you wana keep the relationship.. then just leave it alone.. bcuz this type of thing can really screw up all your friends.. it happened to me and my friends.. were all not friends with that girl anymore... and shes still going out with him.. but ill tell you this.. i think shes a "freak" bcuz thats just not something for a firend to do to another friend.. just remember "chicks before dicks" thats what a true friend relationship is.. friends do go behind what they say.. and that girl isnt a friend from what your saying.. hope everything works out.. and sorry this is so long lol ..

-->> Danielle

Q: Some of my friends are really scared to kiss a guy! They don't know "how." What should I tell them??
you should just tell them that they dont have to be scared about anything and when their time comes then it will just be natural.. theres no real way to kiss.. it just comes naturally.. they'll see when their time comes
--> Danielle

Q: I've known this guy for like 3 years, and liked him on and off for a while. I like him, and just found out he's going to ask me out. What should I do?
well if you like him.. and he likes you.. and hes going to ask you out.. i dunno about you but i think you should go out with him lol.. it just makes sense to do it
--> Danielle

Q: i really like this guy. hes really cute and hes SOOO funny. but people r always calling him fat. hes NOT fat at all so its really weird. hes really cute and his personality rocks. i dont want ppl saying shit about him tho. what should i do?
you should stick up for him when people make fun of him.. its not nice that they make fun of him if he is or isnt fat or whatever.. if i were you i would DEFF. stick up for him no matter what.. no one talks about my friends like that :) haha.. well i hope i helped
--> Danielle

Q: see i dated this guy that we'll call david and it didnt work out.... but now he always smiles at me in the hallways and i always get chills in my stomach and i like run out of breath should i tell him how i feel?
yes i think you should deff tell him how you feel.. maybe he feels the same way about you.. but just bcuz he smiles at you in the halls doesnt mean he likes you.. it could just mean hes saying hi with a smile or just being friendly.. but still i think you should tell him :) .. good luck i hope i helped you
--> Danielle

Q: hey ummm there's this guy and i liked him and mah friend asked him if liked me 2 but that was like 2 weeks ago and now i dunno if he still likes me wat should i do??i rate!!
i think you should go and talk to him about it and see what he says.. remember its not the end of the world if he doesnt like you lol.. good luck i hope i helped you
-->Danielle

Q: ok whenever i ask a chica if she will go out with me she always says no well not no but we are really good friends the uasual thing, and i havn't asked out a girl in a while and i am afraid to get hurt again, my life seems pretty good so far, but there is this one chica that i like but i am afraid to get hurt, so here it is

how do i get her to like me and for once in my life be able to feel the love that most people feel and get a yes from her.

thnx to all

i think you should just be yourself around her.. hang out with her alot.. call her and talk to her online if you have a sn... and just becomes real close with her.. and then start hinting out that you like her maybe give her huggs and stuff? i guess lol.. and then just one day tell her you like her and ask her out.. and if she says no.. dont worry about it theres lots of girls out there that im sure you start to like.. good luck.. hope i helped you :)
-->> Danielle

Q: i need help & fast. how do you scrunch your hair ? i used moose but minez not working so great. i need help & fast !
if your getting outta the shower or sticking your head in the sink or w.e.. make sure its wet lol.. well anyways.. you can either brush it or dont brush it.. then like flip your head over and mess your hair up and just like idk make it messy? then what i do is i just put a whole bunsh of hairspray in my hair.. it works for me and my type of hair.. idk what your hair type is so lol.. well hope i helped
-->> Danielle

Q: Ok, technically, this SHOULD be under some sort of Technology thing, but they didnt have a sub-category for it.

Ok, the last couple days, someone will leave me a voice mail, but I can't access it, because when I dial my voice mail I get a busy signal and the screen says "Call Failed: Network Busy"

Last night at almost midnight I was able to finally get through after shutting my phone off then on again. Today, however I have no such luck.

Any suggestions?
that happened to me once and i bought my phone into the place where i got it and told them what was going on .. and they messed around with the service thing and then it worked? haha idk what they did but they fixed it.. try going to where you got you phone.. hope i helped..
-->> Danielle

Q: When you get your first period is it normal if it just lasts for 2 days?
yeah from what i know it is normal.. that happened to my best friend.. she got it for only 2 or 3 days and then didnt get it for a few months.. and then after that it started getting normal i think? so yeah i think thats pretty normal.. it happens to alot of people.. dont worry about it.. if your still really worried try talking to someone ( girl ) that you feel comfortable around. hope i helped you!
-->> Danielle

Q: hey do u have aol instant messenger that i can ask u questions about this on?
yeah.. tender hearts x

Q: ok see i knew that i would be seeing my boyfriend on friday (last friday) so i didnt eat rly anything all week maybe 3 things..seriously! and i only drank water and see when i saw my boyfriend he said i looked thinner!!...i was happy and i was wondering what are other bad things that'll happen if i keep up what ive been doin?? plz dont say..you'll die or get sick!! it made me feel better about my self cz my stomach wasent as big almost flat
you dont have to starve yourself to loose weight.. if you starve yourself it can become a real big problem.. and trust me you dont want to get yourself into that bcuz ( i know you dont want to hear this ) but if i does go too far you can truely get really sick and possibly die.. you can just watch what you eat ( healthy things ) and excersize alot.. well not like alot alot just a few times a week.. maybe everyday if you wana loose weight that badly.. hope i helped..
-->> Danielle

Q: yo im new to this advice thingy, can u please explain how it works? i mean how did u reply to that person's question about her dad not lettin her be with a guy and i did too? i tohught people ask me questions and onli i answer them??
hey !.. when you go into the view questions thing.. and you read the questions.. you can answer them if you want.. you dont have to.. but if you want to you can.. and when you answer the question it goes into your advice column.. you can make up your profile and stuff by going to profile settings.. and make your column look good in column settings.. hope i helped..
-->> Danielle

Q: What should I do? Me and my best friend let's call him Harry, are no longer friends, because I have a big jealousy issue, I hooked him up with my friend, while liking him. So it bothers me when they are together and I can't stand being around him knowing he's not mine. So I have been mean to him alot, and as a result of that, we no longer friends cause I kinda blew up at him with all my fustration and stuff, cause it was all built up inside... but now I feel bad know that our friendship ended up on bad note, and now I feel like we'll never be friends again. What should I do?
I was JUST in a situation like that like.. a few weeks ago.. it was horrible i did the same thing you did with hooking your best friend up with someone and you liked them or w.e .. but this is what i did.. i talked to the person i got in a fight with over the ( guy ) or girl which ever one your in a fight with.. anyways.. i talked it out with them and i just explained to them how i was really hurt about them hooking up and everything and i apoligized about the things i said and i asked if we could just forget about the whole thing and not fight anymore... thats what i did and it worked bcuz now all of us are real close.. try that maybe it will work for you.. good luck.. hope i helped you..
-->> Danielle

Q: wELL...i LiKe a GuY a YeAr yOunGeR...aNd hE dosnet know me... really but i know who he is..and hes smokin! since hes a year younger and we dont have ne classes it might be hard 2 get 2 know him... any suggestions?
i RaTe well
thanx alot
I think you should just go up to him one day if you see him in the halls or something and be like hey whats up? or something like that.. and then just gradually get to know him and hang out more and maybe he'll start to like you too!.. good luck.. hope i helped..
-->> Danielle

Q: OK...uhmm i have this guy that i really, really like and he treats me like a princess and like im the most precious thing in the whole entire world! but the thing is...my dad doesnt like him b/c he herd sumthing about him and now he has that assumption about him. I REALLY REALLY wanna go out with him and go to our skewls formal but i feel like i cant go bhind my dad and what he says...what should i do? please help me!! thanx!
well maybe you should talk to your dad about whatever he heard about this guy.. and tell him how you really like him and wana go to the formal with him or w.e.. maybe your dad will consider you going out with him or to the formal and maybe he will change the way he thinks about this guy when you talk to him.. hope i helped.. and have fun at the formal !
-->> Danielle

Q: i saw my first love at a football game and i think i might still have something for him. he always wants to see me and hook up but the hook up thing stops me from seeing him. 2 of my best friends like him, one obsessed and the other is a hook up girl. me and him have liked each other on and off for about 5 years but i want to be with him again.. what should i do?
i think you should tell him how you feel about him.. maybe he feels the same way about you.. dont worry about thoes other girls you never know how he feels about them.. you should just go for it.. and if it doesnt work out... dont worry theres always other guys out there ! hope i helped !
-->> Danielle

Q: If u liked a guy so much that u were in love with him, but then u haven't seen or said anything to him in a few months, would u even take a chance to try and make it work? (o and by the way he kinda liked me too the last time i talked to him and stuff).
i would DEFFENTLY go and take a chance if i liked him that much.. just try and start talking to him again and chill and stuff.. then maybe you two will hook up :) ... hope i helped you > Danielle

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_ * D.e.E * _

Im tugging at my hair Im pulling at my clothes
Im trying to keep my cool I know it shows
Im staring at my feet My checks are turning red
Im searching for the words inside my head
Cause Im feeling nervous Trying to be so perfect
Cause I know youre worth it Youre worth it Yeah
If I could say what I want to say I'd say I wanna blow you...
away Be with you every night Am I squeezing you too tight
If I could say what I want to see I want to see you go down On one knee
Marry me today Yes, Im wishing my life away
-with these things i'll never say-

when i think Of yOu my stOmach aches by the sight Of you my bOdy shakes knowin i cOuld never have yOu hurts like hell fOr just One night with you my whole life i wOuld sell

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and m0ments that mean iit all . s0 waiit
f0r the 0ne b0y ` wh0 wiill make just an
'-�?�»�?�» ordiinary m0ment bec0me 'l|[ majiical ]|l'

Be wh0 yOu Are `nd say what yOu
feel beCause those that matter d0n`t
miind andd thOse that miind
d0n`t matter

you know what i want ? . . just once i want to
be someones reason for waking up . someones
reason for going through another day . just one
time i want to be the one being wished* for . the
one who makes a guy say ''i`m so lucky to have
her''* . . to put it simply . i wAnt to mean to
somebody w h a t y o u m e a n t o m e

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