ok whenever i ask a chica if she will go out with me she always says no well not no but we are really good friends the uasual thing, and i havn't asked out a girl in a while and i am afraid to get hurt again, my life seems pretty good so far, but there is this one chica that i like but i am afraid to get hurt, so here it is
how do i get her to like me and for once in my life be able to feel the love that most people feel and get a yes from her.
thnx to all
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SheaStadium answered Monday October 4 2004, 5:06 pm: Well I can tell u what would turn me on with a guy
1. Act confident
2. Be funny, not shy
3. ACt like everyone wants to go out with u, the more u act like u r hard to get the more shell want u
4. when u walk by her in the hall be like hey beautiful or hey sexy
5. compliment her without going overboard, be like new shirt? or have u lost weight?
6. use pick up lines like this one: I know milk does the body good but damn how much did u drink?
7. say mean things while smiling so she knows its a joke. Be like damn ur such a slut! but smile so she knows ur kidden
8. probly most important make her feel good about herself
Uniq_The_Geek answered Monday October 4 2004, 4:27 pm: wow, thats hard. well, u cant really make a girl like u, so sorry. what u can do is show her the real side of u. if she sees the side thats a jerk or the side of u that hangs out wit da boyz, she' is prob. gonna think that dats da way ur gonna act with her.if she likes romantics, then show her a peep of the romantic side of u. whatever she likes, just try to add that to ur flavor and if she still doesnt like u, then she's not worth it. or maybe she's playin hard to get. good luk...
tender_hearts_x answered Monday October 4 2004, 2:50 pm: i think you should just be yourself around her.. hang out with her alot.. call her and talk to her online if you have a sn... and just becomes real close with her.. and then start hinting out that you like her maybe give her huggs and stuff? i guess lol.. and then just one day tell her you like her and ask her out.. and if she says no.. dont worry about it theres lots of girls out there that im sure you start to like.. good luck.. hope i helped you :)
-->> Danielle <3 [ tender_hearts_x's advice column | Ask tender_hearts_x A Question ]
AnGeLtHuGsTa answered Monday October 4 2004, 2:30 pm: If you really like this girl, don't ask her out just yet. First, you need to get to know her, hang out with her. Just spend time around eachother to get to know one another. And when you think your ready, try asking her out! [ AnGeLtHuGsTa's advice column | Ask AnGeLtHuGsTa A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Monday October 4 2004, 10:17 am: Hang out with her a lot!!! And build up some confidence. Just because a lotta girls have said no dont mean that they all will. Have faith in yourself or it will never work. Then invite her to hang out a lot, and flirt!! Drop the hints how you feel for her and if she starts flirting back, thats really good signs. Also, call her up a lot.
BrOwNEyEdGiRL answered Monday October 4 2004, 1:17 am: The best advice i can give to you is just be yourself! if she doesnt like you for who you are shes def. not worth it! i hope i helped you out...let me know how things go!~ [ BrOwNEyEdGiRL's advice column | Ask BrOwNEyEdGiRL A Question ]
impossible_x3 answered Sunday October 3 2004, 11:50 pm: Well, first off if you are saying chica in front of them then stop because that makes it seems like you don't want a relationship with anyone. Second thing is don't be all over her. If you are friends then just start hanging out together like at the mall or somewhere public so you get comfortable hanging with each other. If you aren't friends then start with eye contact and build but try not to be to obvious and all over her. Girls don't like to rush things. Just slowly start to get to know her by hanging out, and talking on the phone, and the internet. Then from there see where the relationship as friends is going. If you see that there is a spark between you two then ask her what she thinks about you, and ask her if the friendship you have could build and eventually be something more, but don't ask her out! Remember: Don't rush things! Good Luck babe!
xluvinux answered Sunday October 3 2004, 11:24 pm: show her how much you like her. try to flirt and make her laugh. be nice and act more as a boyfriend than a best friend. dont keep asking her out, wait until it seems like she likes you as well. you cant make her like you, but you can show her all your good qualities. keep working at it, and good luck! ;)
//lauRa [ xluvinux's advice column | Ask xluvinux A Question ]
ProfessorsPet answered Sunday October 3 2004, 10:51 pm: My brilliant answer:
If you're not friends with this girl already, you need to do a few little things to show her what a great guy you are. You don't have to do a lot, just make a few nice comments to her, or make sure she sees you doing something nice for somebody else. If she has any sense, she'll realize you're a great guy and will love to go out with you!
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