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HeY! Megan here! im 16 years old and i have a boyfriend of 1 year and 4months...I Love You Jordan! anyways...feel free to ask me questions about anything you could possibly think of and i'll do my best to help you out!

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OMG...i really need to help my friend she needs help fast! she is 14 and she had sex with her boyfriend and she just found out that she iz pregnant. please dont leave advice like "oh she shouldn't have done that because she is a slut" and stuff because we really dont need to hear that and she isn't a slut because she really loves her boyfriend! she doesn't know how to tell her mom and she has no clue what to do she is just crying and crying and i'm trying to comfort her but what should i say (link)
mistakes happen but sooner or later shes gonna have to tell her mom! she cant go thru this alone....this is a big deal and it could change her life in many ways...does she want to keep the baby? i mean first she needs to really put into thought what to do cuz her choice will effect her entire life. if she does keep it she needs to think about how she can support the baby and if shes gonna finish school(which is a MUST)...if she doesnt think she can handle it, she could have it and then give it up for adoption..or she could get an abortion...how far along is she? her mom will probabyl be very mad at first but of course you know she loves her daughter so she will help out! the guy better stick around too since it was 50% him....juss be there for her..good luck! and tell your friend to hang in there! i hope this helped!!!...if you need anymore information about anything you can write me back and i can help you out!


OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!! (link)
No that is def. not okay! 14 is way too young! i dont know what your friends are thinkin but dont follow in their steps..thats really stupid of them and im sure guys will eventually think they are pretty slutty....i mean...you should wait until marriage but if you feel like you cant...at least wait until you get alittle older and truly love and trust the guy....dont give it up to just anybody....this is a very important part of a girls like...you dont wanna regret the experience! hope this helped!


this is really screw up cuz like these 2 girls like me they r best freidsn..yet they both r my rxs and 1 of em r my best friends ex g/f to..yet now his g//f broke up with him and now she likes me..she has asked me to amny things sucha s the haunt and homecoming...I dont know what to do jsut because Idk if I like her..techncailly I cant tho becuz my best friend si still in love with her...he likes her so much...yet she likes me so much..she doesn't care if i like ehr or not she is like boseesive..and I alrdy got ym eye on a girl too..plus I alrdy got a date fore the homeocming..and it will b the 3rd hmeocming I've gone too... (link)
never go for your friends girl! drama drama drama! be a good friend and let her down easy so you wont hurt her or your friend! basically follow your heart and i know you'll make the right decision...good luck!


ok whenever i ask a chica if she will go out with me she always says no well not no but we are really good friends the uasual thing, and i havn't asked out a girl in a while and i am afraid to get hurt again, my life seems pretty good so far, but there is this one chica that i like but i am afraid to get hurt, so here it is

how do i get her to like me and for once in my life be able to feel the love that most people feel and get a yes from her.

thnx to all

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The best advice i can give to you is just be yourself! if she doesnt like you for who you are shes def. not worth it! i hope i helped you out...let me know how things go!~


im 16 years old and some x's when my boyfriend gets really mad he hits me. he doesnt do it very hard but it scares me some x's cause i dont know if hes going to just flip on me or what. everytime he does it he says hes sorry and he loves me and hugs me, but im really starting to get scared..ive been with him for 5 and a half months and i love him but i dont know what to do anymore...Please Help!! (link)
If he really loved you he wouldnt hit you for no reason. There is no excuse for that kind of behavior...you need to get out of the relationship before it gets even more dangerous...also..you need to tell someone about this so he doesnt have a chance to hurt anyone else! hope this helped!


i have seen my friends boyfriend with other girls kissing on them and i told my friend right away but she doesnt believe me, she said that i am jealous ... also she is supposed to have sex with him and i dont want her getting hurt .. is there anyway i could get her to believe me? (link)
have your friend confront him! he will probably freak and not know what to do! has anyone else been with you when youve seen this? if so have them back you up too, and most importantly...tell her how you feel about him and that you dont want her gettin hurt.


ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me



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dont go out of your way to be noticed....and dont try to be somethin your not....that is def. not a way to get attention...at least not positive attention....just be yourself and the guys will stand in line for you!


Ok my friend is 12 years old and she's drinking and i don't know how to make her stop. she just started because she thinks she 'needs to' but i think its because this other girl does. please give me ideas or help me or something (link)
tell her how you feel. shes only 12...that is way too young to be drinking, there is no excuse for that.....tell her that you believe that shes only doin it because the other girl does...she will start to feel ridiculous and eventually stop...juss give her time!


im 14 and went out w| this guy during the school year and i still cant get over him. even when i liked other guys and went out w| them, and just recently i thouight i was over him but every time i see him i like him again,and since hes like my best friend i see him alomost everyday, do you have any advice to help me get over him? (link)
Just Keep busy doin other things, hangin out with ur other friends and if he ever just wants to hang out just you and him, make it a point to always have something with you 2....i know its hard but you can do it!




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