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over him?
im 14 and went out w| this guy during the school year and i still cant get over him. even when i liked other guys and went out w| them, and just recently i thouight i was over him but every time i see him i like him again,and since hes like my best friend i see him alomost everyday, do you have any advice to help me get over him?
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i have the same problem so i know exactly how you feel! 1st of all, even thought it may be hard, you need to stop hanging out with him if u truly want to get over him. theres no way you'll get over him if your with him all the time. 2nd, if you still have strong feeling for him, why not go out with him again? especially because you are bestfriends. its even better to be with a guy wen you are close friends, but then again its harder to break up eventually. so, if he feels the same about you, be with him again! if he deosnt, you need to stop hanging out with him and get over him, because thats the only way...
hope i helped!
<33 Jordyn
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it will take time lots of time...but u should let urself go out and meet other ppl...and dont show him that u fall for him everytime u see him...eventually u will heal and meet someone knew...
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Hey!! You just need sometime alone, to be away from guys, so you can get over him! But just try to be good friends with him!
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I think you need to let him know that you are just friends.....the reason i say this is "guys want what they cant have"...yea considering your 14 is intersting b/c my best friend was and hass been my best friend since we were in 5th grade and im going into 10th and i still loe him adn i still talk to him. If he is your best friend be "friends" and thats it....b/c if you are wanting to rush into something then it wont work and if it wanst meant to be then it wont happen and you will find someone else
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Just keep yourself busy with other friends, and force yourself to realize that you're not going to have a future with him.
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since you've remained friends with him it's going to be hard to forget about him. Try hanging around other friends, or meet new people (a new future boyfriend perhaps?). Just don't completely ditch him. Keep yourself busy but just remember that it's ok to still be hung up on this guy. You'll probably never completely get over him but eventually it'll all work out.
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Just Keep busy doin other things, hangin out with ur other friends and if he ever just wants to hang out just you and him, make it a point to always have something with you 2....i know its hard but you can do it!
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I used to be the same way with one of my best friends, I liked him for three years, but we never actually dated. I started realizing that I was getting over him when I was putting my thoughts and time into something more productive, like sports. I still get feelings for him every now and then, but I think to myself how great of friends we are, and that I don't want that to change, and that helps me forget about those feelings. I know it's hard, and it takes some time, but you can do it. Good luck!
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they always say you never really forget your first love but that doesn't mean that you should still be with him - it also doesn't mean that you should cut things off...if you like his company, spend time with him so that you don't miss him ~ who knows, maybe you'll realize what you don't like about him if you spend more time with him! lol
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