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okay....i have had a really fucked up life... see i was adopted...and when i was little my adoptive mother has always threaten to send me back with my biological parents...but i feel like it would be better because then i would know someone loves me. and i hate how my mother never lets me see thm, i mean i know that they gave me up for adoption but i would think about my kid everyday and just wish that i could have them back in my arms again, and is it to hard for my mother to let me fulfill that wish for them. and everytyme i think about my real parents i fall into depression, and i dont know what to do...can you help me?
another problem....recently my best friend has started to hate me... i mean i dont think i did anything wrong except be there for her, but she became best friends with this girl that i have never liked, i mean shes a slut. and now shes turning her into one...but anyways. everytime i think about her i think aboout all the fun times we had and everything and i begin to cry. and i know shes over me but i dont think i can let go of somehing that meant so much to me. and she doesnt even talk to me. and it makes me sad. how can i find a way to get my mind off of her?
other problem...lately my mom has been taking up drinking to comfort her pain. because my aunt has recently passed away. and ever since then shes ben a real bitch and been bitching at everyone. and yesterday she made my 26 year old sister cry. i mean what can i do to block all this out??
i mean no one knows about any of my problems....i have always put on a mask and put on a smile but it hurts on the inside.. and latel i have been trying let it all out but every time i do someone starts bitching and says im always trying to get attention and that i dont have problems and im making it up... and
lately i dont know what else to do than cry.. so can you please help me?? i could really use some advice...
signed,
lost and abandoned
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Dear lost and abandoned at 14
okay...one at a time
1) i understand that you must really want to see your biological parents...and im sure they want to see you...but maybe ur adoptive parents are protecting you...why dont you sit ur adoptive mom or dad down (which ever is more understanding) and ask her about ur biological parents...that all i can say
2) if your best friend is just going to ditch you and im sure uve said sorry millions of times...then u should try to move on...i understand u cant let go of someone whos ur best friend when they mean so much to you...and for one last time...write her a letter telling her how u are afraid she will be a slut...and that u love her...and if these 2 "best friends" are going to different schools they will probably break apart cuz it doesnt sound like they have a real bond...so just write one last letter explaining everything u feel and leave her the choice to call you or not
3)dont block it out...maybe ur mom needs someone to talk to...once again just seperate u and her from everyone else...and give her someone to cry and talk to...because just like you need a friend so ur telling me she probably needs one too...
4)you can talk to me...my sn is kiss XmeX craZii...but im pretty sure i know who you are...dont worry its okay im here for you
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I just met a girl two days ago and i like her, we have a lot in common, and we talk a lot online but i dont know how she feels. What should i do bailey? (link)
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well you only just met...so give it some time...get to know her better and become closer...maybe ask if you can call her...and then after a few weeks tell her how you feel...better out then in...
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im 14 and went out w| this guy during the school year and i still cant get over him. even when i liked other guys and went out w| them, and just recently i thouight i was over him but every time i see him i like him again,and since hes like my best friend i see him alomost everyday, do you have any advice to help me get over him? (link)
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it will take time lots of time...but u should let urself go out and meet other ppl...and dont show him that u fall for him everytime u see him...eventually u will heal and meet someone knew...
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Okay, its me again but this question is a bit different then the rest...Okay my boyfriend of 4 years thinks that he's a bad boyfriend cause he has a tendency to like check and see who calls my cell phone and everything and I told him that i feel like he has to check on me and like he don't trust me cause he'll ask me about a number if there isn't a name with it and all and i mean I either dont know who it is or its one of the girls on my dance team but I told him how i felt and now he feels like a bad boyfriend when he really isn't he's the best in the world and I tell him that all the time but is there anyways that I can show him that he's not besides just telling him i would highly appreciate this if you could give me some ideas cause i love him with all my heart and i dont want him feeling this way.Thanks a bunch...
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he probably is afraid guys are calling you and u should show him that he can trust you...does he have any reason not to trust you? cuz that might be the problem..explain that you love him and he doesnt have to check on you because ur a "big girl" and can handle urself...i dont know what else to say...
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Hey Everyone ! Ok ths is a good one, How come when your single you have the hardest time finding anyone to go out with. But as soon as you have a BF and become Attached Everyone in the world wants to date you. How many times has this happen to you guys? LOL its agravating. But I love my man so no huge complaints here. Have a great day everyone ! xoxoxoxooxoxoxox (link)
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omg this happens to me ALL the time...i have a boyfriend right now and everyone just seems to want me...its the thrill of wanting what u cant have that probably makes ppl want you*!
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Why do some people try to be EVERYONES best friend? I mean that gets kind of annoying!! And how do you tell a best friend that their behavior is bothering you,if you know they might take it the wrong way.?
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Dear confused
some people arent trying to be everyones best friend...they just want everyone to like them...or are trying to be nice...and if a best friend's behavior is bothering you...try to point it out to them in a nice way instead of yelling...and if they get mad because ur trying to help them in ways to be less...annoying..then that is their problem...because all ur trying to do is help...
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i have stretch marks...do u know any way to loose them? and how do I loose weight? (link)
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sometimes u get stretch marks cuz ur butt is growing...or something else is growing...and just eat healthy and excersice...maybe run a mile a day...but start small with a run around the block and build up to a mile...eat salad and cut down on soda and ice cream...it will help alot!!
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