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He thinks he's a bad bf


Question Posted Friday August 13 2004, 9:04 am

Okay, its me again but this question is a bit different then the rest...Okay my boyfriend of 4 years thinks that he's a bad boyfriend cause he has a tendency to like check and see who calls my cell phone and everything and I told him that i feel like he has to check on me and like he don't trust me cause he'll ask me about a number if there isn't a name with it and all and i mean I either dont know who it is or its one of the girls on my dance team but I told him how i felt and now he feels like a bad boyfriend when he really isn't he's the best in the world and I tell him that all the time but is there anyways that I can show him that he's not besides just telling him i would highly appreciate this if you could give me some ideas cause i love him with all my heart and i dont want him feeling this way.Thanks a bunch...
-Cass-


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storageanddisposal answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:19 pm:
Well, maybe he does this because he's afraid that you're getting bored with the relationship. Try new things with him to reassure him. Talk to him about how much you love him, and tell him about how important trust is in a relationship. I think that's the best way to go with it.

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VBabi13 answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:50 am:
*Cass*
Hey! well your boifriend seems to love u too! But the trusting needs a lil improvement? why does he feel this way?Have u done anything to make him do this? I'm not tryin to point fingers at you, sorry.Tell him how u feel! well for him to think this "bad boifriend" thing! everytime he says it, tell him to come to u, N u hug him give him a kiss! or when he does suttin sweet or nice to u, then give him a kiss N tell him how much u appreciate it!U seem to care so much1 dat's so awesome! Well trust is one of da key to a good relationship! remember dat!tell him how much u care for him, tell him how much u like/love him,care for him, trust him, respect him! all of this will make him realize "oh, she feels this way for me, i should do it too" u kno wut i mean?well if u need anymore dropp by my inbox! Hope i helped! Good luck, take care
-Phuong

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BaiLeY69 answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:53 am:
he probably is afraid guys are calling you and u should show him that he can trust you...does he have any reason not to trust you? cuz that might be the problem..explain that you love him and he doesnt have to check on you because ur a "big girl" and can handle urself...i dont know what else to say...

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