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Question Posted Friday August 13 2004, 1:25 am

ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me


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XxTBSgirlxX answered Sunday August 29 2004, 1:10 am:
thats just really slutty and only if u want to be known as a slut do it but i prefer u not to i think thats the worst way to get noticed..


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MerceaFromPoetry answered Thursday August 19 2004, 2:17 pm:
Please, have self respect and ask yourself if you want to be noticed for your thong or for you? It is unfair that girls get the label of slut but that is how it happens in highschool so you can't change it. You will get a reputation and it will not be one that you will end up beign satisfied with. Respect yourself and get noticed for the right reasons and for who you are.

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angelic23chika answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:02 pm:
go for it but wear some low rise jeans soo eeveryguy will se it

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LilMia811 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 1:47 am:
your not gonna get any attetion, but negative attention if you do that. people in school will probably think you are being a hootchie. girls will laugh and talk about you and guys will think you are easy. dont go sitting down and doing that on purpose just for attention.

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napalm3400 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 1:38 am:
Are u hott, if ur hot and want some action then go right ahead.

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Scorpios1112 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 2:32 pm:
Its alright if you arent noticed yet.. you still have 4 years to get noticed. You might not want your thong tohang out though because people might come up behind you and snap it or make fun of you instead.. you dont want that to happen.

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blondebtqueen answered Saturday August 14 2004, 6:50 pm:
well... i think that's a kind of silly way to get noticed, but hey everyone has different ways. Just wear some really low-cut jeans and a thong that isn't as low... you pretty much have no choice but to let it show! how it works out for ya! *~*Trust me, you'll get noticed some day... I used to be the same way, nobody noticed me and i felt kinda like a loner, but then i got into highschool and i actually have guys whistling at me and everything*~* -Macy (rate me!)

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Chellz8 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:01 pm:
well.. i mean if you really wanna be looked upon as a slut .. but i unno i think its embaressing when your thong hangs out.. theres other ways to be noticed... like be outgoing and go and meet new people.. be loud and crazy.. where really cute outfits and get all done up for school and everyone will turn there heads and notice you..:) ;) XoXoX RaTe PlEaSE!!

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Sweetie2oo4 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 3:04 am:
that's why would u want ur thong to hang out? that doesnt get you attention..being a nice person, friendly,outgoing does ..the only attention you'll get from having your thong showing is from girls..calling you a hoe & guys laughin at you..

yahh iduno wut to tell yah..


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SweEtxvxMisEry answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:26 am:
why would u want it to hang out?? why dont u just try a new style or something..die ur hair...most ppls thongs/underwear hand out on accident..not on

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MaNdASzHElP247 answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:22 pm:
ok well first off i wouldnt go around having your thong stick out of ur pants. honestly if your desprite for attention thats not the kind you would want. TRUST me.. if you really want attention try making your outfits diffrent than other girls'. You know like Bows are really in right now so tie something around or pin it,stripes too. well ya you get the idea. Im really big with clothes lol so you IM me on AOL (wildncrazii09) or leave a message in my inbox!
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MummuM answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:16 pm:
Honestly, I don't think you should be sticking your thong out just to be noticed. If people can't notice you and like you for being you, forget them. But, please don't be sticking your thong out just to get notice, a lot of people find it kind of sick. =)

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Babyzee answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:47 pm:
if u wanna b notice let it hang out and u can do it in a few classes that u r comfortable wit and if u feel stupid or something then u don't have 2 do it nemore or if someone says something just don't do that nemore *STEPHANIE* :)

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blAckxteArz3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:35 pm:
everybody wants to be noticed go ahead let your thong hang out and if anyone saids anything tell them to lick you ass!

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bLoNdEatHx3arT answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:59 pm:
hmmm...well, if wearing thongs and showing them off is all you, then sure go ahead. but be prepared for people to, umm, talk of course. but seriously, if you're just doing it to be noticed, try doing something else because it doesnt take a thong to get noticed, and im sure youre an awesome chick, so it wouldn't be hard for you to be. but really, if you chicken out then, hun, its a sign. =)


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UhOhItZbLaZeT answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:51 pm:
i wudnt do it unless u wanna b labled....people will like you for u...not for ur thong

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JLB209 answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:49 pm:
NOOOO just be ur self always be very cute when guys are around and wear make-up and stuff and fix ur hair pretty everyday tahts really it!

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jesikuh977 answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:20 pm:
hunnie u dont need ur panties to hang out for u to be popular lol i usually try not to let mine hang out cuz of pervs! but u should have people like you for you not ur panties =D just be urself!


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dressmeNdiam0nds answered Friday August 13 2004, 6:21 pm:
you dont have to have your thong showing to get people attention. if you want the guys to notice you then flirt and talk to them mayeb once in a while show some thong but you dont have to do it

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liddylflirtx3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:00 pm:
Wearing a thong won't get you noticed for the right reasons. People will think your a slut or something, and that could ruin your just-made reputation! Wear thongs if you want to - but don't be that cheesy as to have them hang out! No one wants to see it! =)

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CandKx3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:01 pm:
yea its fine if you do that, trust me its no big deal, make sure guys are in back of you thou, because if there and girls rumors could fly, and thats not always good. xox

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xxxxxx answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:43 pm:
if you are skinny i guess its ok but if you are fat people dont wanna see that. but why would you want to show your thong to be noticed? thats stupid. it makes you look like a slut.

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xogiggles37xo answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:32 am:
i dk y you put it under sex questions but... um its kinda like you desperate for attention from guys and thats really not right... well a good way to sho guys you wear thongs... if you really want them to know that you do... but w/e. wear a pair of cute brazillian jeans. if their not dumb they'll know that you are. its not like they needa know what color thong your wearing.

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x0x_l_iNnOcEnCex_l_x0x answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:15 am:
Okay, having your thong hang out in class is an easy way to get in trouble, and an easy way for GUYS to notice you... If you want guys to notice you like that, than wear your thong proudly i guess... if you really want that, don't be scared.

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Jamie008 answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:42 am:
OK i wouldn't j/ let ur thong hang out cuz then u might end up getting laughed at :) so start with wut u wear maybe show a lil more skin in ur stomach area then go wit the way u act if u act more confident then u'll seem alot more fun 2 be around!!! Good Luck XoXo Jamie XoXo

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x3sweetbabiigrlx3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:36 am:
I really wouldn't recomend doing that if you want to be noticed. Unless of course you want to be laughed at and all of that..which i highly dbout that..But if you want to be noticed more..start off with your fashion..Then work your way up with the way you act..and whe you get into school try and get in activities that are popular.Or try and talk to more people that are popular or aren't in the "low class" and you will be noticed..


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mxpimpette26 answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:35 am:
not trying to sound mean but that makes you sound a lil sluty! don't do that! do something else for someone to notice ppl out or something

hop ei helped


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alisonmarie answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:09 am:
Think about why you want to get noticed - for your inner witty wonderfulness, or because you let your underwear hang out for all to see?

Think about what messege it sends. Really, I would think a fabulous gesture of another kind would get you noticed for the RIGHT reasons.

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BeezKneez answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:33 am:
Trust me... not many ppl wanna see ur thong hanging out. Alotta ppl might think of u as a slut... and u don't wanna be noticed that way. Instead, join clubs and activities or sumthin and that will get u noticed in a much better way than if u go around w/ ur thong hanging out all the time.

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sexiiKt answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:54 am:
I dont think you should show off you thong to people i mean personally i chill wif alot of guys and they think that when a chick shows her thong or her thong is showing that its sluty and guys arent intrested in sluts *well sum arent ne ways* but maybe you should try another way to be notcied lyk change your style and not have your thong hanging out but i mean if thats the attention you want then go fer it babe but im just saying you dont want to go to high skool and every guy think that you are a slut NOT the rep you want!

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xo_dream answered Friday August 13 2004, 4:51 am:
Sorry, but nobody wants to see your thong hanging out. That is NOT the right thing to want to be noticed for.

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kevin1986 answered Friday August 13 2004, 3:20 am:
Baby,I don't mean to be rude,but not everybody wants to see your underwear. Would you want to see my boxers? I think not. A guy is more likely to respect you if he can't see your thong and one will notice you. Don't worry about that.

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FernGully answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:43 am:
I don't entirely understand the desire for this. I just want to go up to the girls I see with their thongs hanging out and hand them a cookie and say 'Congratulations, you are wearing a thong.' It is just underwear. Wouldnt you rather be noticed for something worthwhile? Like your intelligence, or your wit? Talk to people instead, rather than displaying your underwear for everyone to see. It makes you look trashy. I'd much rather someone have respect for me and for my personal qualities, rather than be attracted to me because I am scantilly clad.

Why not try talking to people and acting like yourself? People will notice a confident person who socializes well rather than pointing and laughing at the fact that your under garments are exposed.

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falling4you0315 answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:22 am:
wow..not a good thing to do. You dont wanna be remembered as a skank :)

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BrOwNEyEdGiRL answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:16 am:
dont go out of your way to be noticed....and dont try to be somethin your not....that is def. not a way to get least not positive attention....just be yourself and the guys will stand in line for you!

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Mackenzie answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:07 am:
Some people will even think it's pRettie disgusting, but otheRs will likeit. It'll get attention, that's foR shoRe, but not all of it will be positive. Just be awaRe of this! Hope I helped!! =D

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OrangeLuverr answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:01 am:
Why would you want ur UNDERWEAR to stick out? thats a realy trashy look and people always tell you to cover it anyways, i mean thats not the type of attention i would want to get noticed by.

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fOrev3r_x_yOurs answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:52 am:
i agree with everyone else.. people will think its totally grose and probably make fun of you.. =( sorry if that doesnt help.. you get some tyt clothes that show off all ur curves n such.. or focase on tha part of ur body you like.. say you have nice breast.. ( not tryin to sound grose ) show them off.. but not to much.. you never wana get tha name as a slut.. you knoe wat they say " if you got it flaunt it " but yeh.. hope i helped * aSh

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berrybum324 answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:49 am:
b loud..make lotssss of friends..joke and even talk back to the teachers..but having your thong hang out of your gna make u look lik a slut which will onli lead to guys using u for ass...try somehting else cuz u dun wna get hrut lik that..sryy . . . KaT *

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xo_Meg_ox answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:46 am:
no offense, but i think that's not the way to go about getting noticed...i mean you WILL be noticed, but most likely ppl will be grossed out or laughing...wear form fitting clothes, but thongs sticking out just aren't attractive.....that's my opinion tho, sorry if it's not what you wanted to hear

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Lena answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:46 am:
No dont do that! they will think your a whore/slut/prostitute or something! Just make more friends =) or have like a HUGE party and invite like everyone! and make sure its fun! thats like the best you can do! just dont do that.. whats "having your thong hang out" gunna do you ne good? just make MORE friends! <3

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NotConfused answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:45 am:
wat u do is wearing jeans or something where u put ur hands on your hips pull it up there or set it on top of where ur hip is so then the cutie behind u notices trust me !!

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followtheformat answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:44 am:
I think you should find another way to get noticed. Whenever I see a girl and her thong is hanging out, I notice it, but I think it's disgusting. Everybody I know thinks this, too. If you really want to get noticed, just start talking to people. Dye your hair pink. Please, don't resort to making your underwear hang out just so someone can notice you.

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