im 16 .. i like my best friends brother .. hes coming to my school this year and he's cute and can be sweet .. but i think he only thinks of me as his sister's friend .. but the problem is he's 2 years younger than me .. i know it's weird but i cant help it .. i like him as if he was just one of my friends and is the same age as me but then i have to remember that he is 14. my best friend knows i like him now. she doesnt want me going out with him or anything though .. i mean its not like im going to anyways. i kno that at school it would be weird because he'd be a freshman and i'd already be a junior. i know everyone would make fun of me or say that i couldnt get anyone my age or something .. one year younger isnt a big deal but 2 years .. i dont know what to do because i've liked him for a long time and i want something to happen but i dont know how its going to be at school thats starting really soon. pleaseeee help me ! i rate really good !
you should see if you like him .. you should respect your best frneds wishes bcuz it is her brother..but if he likes you then maybe you shud take a chance..age doesnt matter adn who cares wat ppl sey espicially if you want it bad enough..but not ever jut assume he deosnt like you untill you find out . . . KaT *
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I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.
Desperate for my life back and confused!!
even tho u love ur baby that doesnt meen it wud b better off living with you..w/e is better for the baby becuzits only a babe and didnt do nething rong so if u cant support it dun let the baby pay for ur mistakes..but anyways..i know you love your baby and you gave up your life for it and it will be rewarding at one point keep working hard to give your baby the best life if you think that you can handle it..becuz its going to be hard..but sooo worth it..and the father mite not wnt to give the baby up either . . . KaT *
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See I have boys that are my friends and their best friends , but they both have a crush on me , but when they both found out that each other liked me and they stoped talking to each other, I like one but the other I don't want to hurt ,what do i do???!!!
stey away frum both of them..you are not worht their friendship..thats just not fair..sry if that sounds meen but a boys friendship is really important to them just like a girls..and they shudnt end it becuz of a girl..so tell them that u dun lik eithr and mayb wen the one u dun lik gets ovr u then u can try wit the one u lik..but if not..stey away . . . KaT *
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hii.. im the gurl before that was askin about Nathan and smokin weed. i dumped him, but i got really stoned one night, and fell asleep.. and woke up naked but he wasn't there. I know we had to of had sex, cuz i was REALLLLLLLY sore down there.. and was bleedin but i didnt have my period, now i think im pregnant cuz i havn't got my period this month... i am s0o0o0 scared!! i've been non-stop crying.. like im only 14 years old!!! and i cant believe that happened... he is denyin anything happened but i dont believe him. Please, pretty please give me some advice on what to doo!! please i need help, i ratee!!!
signed,
scared and want help!
omg..well go to the doctors..or take a test..dun tell ur parents untill your positive..and u have probally been stressing out because of this .. for a long long time which means ur period could b delayed becuz of it..mine was once for 7 moths..cuz i was sooooooo stressed..so dun assume ne thing unless ur sure..and if u were drunk or w/e and u still sed no..taht is rape and u can press charges and he'll have to pay you money which can help for the baby if u r pregnant..and if he seyes nothing happened..maybe nothign did..but if ur pretty sure something did..then sumtin probally did..just take a test to make sure..hope i helped . . . KaT *
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OK this relates to the other questions ive asked. I'm really shy around girls and its hard for me to not studder when i talk to a girl. I get all sweaty and clammy when i have to talk to a girl i like. My mind goes blank and i cant think what to say. Got any pointers on how to fix this?
ok breathe lol i mean as bad as it is for u..its probally worse for the girll..because if your so shy the girl is even shyer..and nothing will ever happen..go for it and dun let anyhting hold you down..soo mcuh good will come from that . . . kAt *
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15, female
hi ummm... i think im bisexual.. ive already told 2 of my friends but my other best friends are kind of scared of lesbians and stuff and i dont know if i should tell them... im afraid to cuz i know they'll treat me differently and maybe even not want to hang out with me anymore... plzz help me cuz ive known i was bi for a while and i kept it 2 myself until i told only 2 of my friends who i knew wouldnt be bothered by it... like i dont like any of my best friends or anything but i just know im bi.. this isnt a joke or anything i really need help with this..
if u really are bi then ur best friends will understand..you cnt help the way u r and ur friends shd understand that..if they dont..then that is not rite and theyre not ur tru friends . . . KaT *
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im 14 and a female.. i kind of have a fear of commitment.. i always have, like my longest relationship has been a couple months.. i mean anytime i get a great bf or something and im happy, i get some excuse to dump him.. usually its a good excuse like i wont be able to see him much in the summer or i wanna be single to hook up with other people.. its weird though cuz its mostly like an on and off thing like sometimes ill just wanna be single and other times i get sooo lonely.. right now im lonely and i like these boys and everything but im not sure if anythings gonna happen with either of them.. im not even sure which one i wanna be with... but besides the point, i need advice basically on how not 2 be afraid of commitment cuz ive tried not to be b4 and the same thing keeps happening..
well i dont there this is a certian way not to be afraid of commitment..its just u eithr r or not..but like take a chance..i know you get bored and you make exuses my best friend is just like that..she acts like shes never happy but ends up regretting it..and thats what i think your going to end up doing..just try really hard to stay with one boy and maybee at some point you will overcome your fear . . . KaT *
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Ok my friend is 12 years old and she's drinking and i don't know how to make her stop. she just started because she thinks she 'needs to' but i think its because this other girl does. please give me ideas or help me or something
noo tell her she doesnt need it..i sused to drink every fken day before skool to wake me up and during skool and everything then i made sum stupid promise wit a boy saying i wouldnt drink for lik a couple of months or sumtin and even thru all the urges..i did it ! i was soo proud of myself and now thta its ovr..i just dun wna drink at all ne more..lik sumtimes i do but i realli just dun wna..no one needs alcohol everyone can live without it .. and u dun havta drink to b friends wit othr ppl or to hang out wit them..it ruins ur kidney and ur blood and eveyrhting my best frend gave me pamphlets on it .. try to make her stop as hard as u can..becuz she is young and still is growing..and its not good at all for her . . . KaT *
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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me
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b loud..make lotssss of friends..joke and even talk back to the teachers..but having your thong hang out of your pants..is gna make u look lik a slut which will onli lead to guys using u for ass...try somehting else cuz u dun wna get hrut lik that..sryy . . . KaT *
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are carrots good 4 u
haha wen i was a baby like really really young prob lik 2 months old i just got out of the hospital cuiz i was a veyr sick baby..i liked carrots and my mom thot they were good for me..cuz they r..and she gave mwe them for breakfast lunch n dinner and snacks alllll the time bcuz i luved them and i wud cry for them..then aftr about a month strait of being like obsessed with them..i turned orange..like my skin turned dark orange like a carrot and my mom rushed me into the emergency room but i gues in carrots theas a artificial color that can change ur skin color and it takes awhile to change back..but they are good for you..just not to many lol . . . KaT *
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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me
ok well first..you gutta make sure that it is rite..dont rush into having sex..let it b special and make sure it feels rite if you have your period then you can get pregnant at ne time if you have unprotected sex..or even protected sex sometimes..just make sure you know wat your doing and try to stay protected . . . KaT *
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Does it mean im afraid of commitment when i dont want to go out with someone because im afriad some one/something better will come up? also, how can i finally start to like guys again after being hurt so many times, like what can i do to trust guys again..?
i know exactly wat your going thru..i went out wit this one boii but i didnt wna or i was lik hesistant to it becuz i thot somehting bttr cud come along but the truth is wen ur going out wit someone you shud lik that soo mcuh at that time that nothing bttr exist to you..its not being afraid of commitment unles you are just using exuses so you wont have to face the fact of having a boyfriend becuz u dun wna fall for ne one else..no matter what you do you cant make yourself trust ne one..lots of girls never heal from getting cheated on or hurt so badly..you just havta wait untill you find someone soo right for you and lik that is your best firned so you already trust him and you already found the best..so then theyre wont b any exuses or ne thing to be afraid of ..hope that helped . . . KaT *
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hello
i am a lesbian but i dont know how to tell my friend that i really like her "that way". im pretty sure shes a lesbian too. please help me. i am desperate to get some ass.
love margaret k.
umm i dont know what you should do .. but mybe you should ask xhulia and jen churchill out becuz they are lesbians too ! haha you guys are gayyyyy and your not cool leeving messages in this cuz ur making mocary of the hole advice shit . . . KaT *
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ok well sunday my friend came home from vaca. and the guy i liked and he liked me kinda liked her.(if that makes sense)so anyways he told me that he would be better off with her than me. so i said ok and decided to move on cuz i new that we could never be. so i did. and on weds. i told him that i liked someone else. and he just started like flipping out. cuz i thiink he was jealous and he is over my friend and likes me again. but its to late and i told him that. i told him that i already like someone else. but then he told me that he wasnt gonna let me throw me and him away. and hes really mad that i like his friend and everything. i duno what to do. cuz i really dont wanna hurt my friend. but then the guy i like i already told him everything that went on between me and the other guy. and i already told him know ahwile back when he asked me out. please help me.
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so basically..he can like your friend..you hve to sit there and let him like her and "move on" buit then wen ur happy and u move on he gest to spazz on you and tell you . you cant lik ne one..nooo thats bullshit you have to tell your friend if he was really your friend he wud want you to be happy you moved on like he told you to do and now his mistake just cost him a relationship wit you and if he doesnt stop yellen and spazzing that yolur happi it cud cost him a friendship with you too..hes no better then you and he cant sit thea and tell you to do and not to do shit wen he can..thats messed up . . . KaT *
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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him?
it does make it all sticky and gooey and shit but it all ends up coming off anyways so it really doesnt matter..w/e you want to do basically and i dont think the boy will really bother about wat your lips taste like wen hes maken out wit you lol . . . KaT *
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Hi i am having a problem with my ex boyfriend becouse he brok up with me becouse he liked his ex boyfriend but when he told me it was a big shok and then he flew away the next morning and i was all a lone and i had to dill with it on my owne but my friends wore very helpful to me. I still love himbut i want to get over him help me
there is nothing that really anyone can say to make oyu get over him.i mean obviously he doesnt deserve you but that cant chnge the way you feel i mean the best thing for you to do is spend some itme with yourself and think .. you really dont need him and hes really not that great relize that you dont really love him and go out and meet new people eventually you will get yourself over him..only you can do that tho . . . KaT *
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My hair is too plain and i am going back to school soon and i want something different then just in a pony tail does any body have step by step hair tips to give me a better look?
i am desperate!!!!
ask xolilcutie186ox she is the best at hair ideas and just hair in general . . . KaT *
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Ok my b/f j/ dumped me cuz hes older and he said he'd feel like a fuck up if he took my Virginity...but he still talks 2 me and calls me baby and tells me he luvs me and misses me but do u think hes being honest or j/ sayin that so he doesnt hurt my feelings please help!!! im so confused thanx
ya i think he deff still likes you..i mean if he dumped you just because he didnt want to take your viginity..he deff should have talked to you before dumping you but that is sweet that he cares soo mcuh about you..but you get to decided who takes your virginity not any other boy..and also it depends how mcuh older htis guy is..and if its like rape lol but i dont think he is just saying that to make you feel better i really think he still likes you . . . KaT *
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ok theres this kid i like ben.. ive liked him 4 a lil bit but then he went out with this girl danielle n he liked her sooooo much even though b4 they went out he said he liked me.. now he jus told me they arent going out anymore but he still likes her sooo much... idk wut 2 do cuz im not sure if feelings are still there 4 him.. i think there r but im tryin not 2 have them cuz i mean hes still not over danielle.. then on the other hand theres this boy travis hes my ex and i still like him i think, but over the summer he's kind of changed.. more in a good way tho.. so basically im jus confused in general with my love life.. i dont know exactly know what kinda advice i need but this is something i need to get off my chest.. i mean im just kinda lonely right now and im fine being single and everything but do you think anything will happen with either ben or travis? if you can help me tht'd be great.. thanx 4 listening..
well..i think that this boy ben..he sed he likes you but then goes out wit danielle..tahts gay..and then this boy travis..well whyd you guys break up if you still like him then i think travis is a better idea because he has changed and grown up and mahyb this time something will actually last between you guys..i mean something could happen with either ben or travis but i think that you should go for travis..plus ben is still in luv wit danielle and it takes a boy really long to get over a girl mostly and if travis likes you give him another shot..hope i helped . . . KaT *
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see well okay at the store my mom had to run in for a few things, well my x b/f came to talk to me ,(with his new gurlfriend!) and I couldnt
talk i was speachless!, But he broke up with her right there and then , and in front of her he asked me back out and I couldn't say anything to answer!!should I or shouldn't i?? and he said i was hott in front of her.!!!!
PLZ Help!!!
AS SOON AS U CAN!!!
if you still like him go for it..it doesnt matter about the other girl..your not friends wit her and you dont really owe her anything..so if you like him go for it . . KaT *
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