ok well sunday my friend came home from vaca. and the guy i liked and he liked me kinda liked her.(if that makes sense)so anyways he told me that he would be better off with her than me. so i said ok and decided to move on cuz i new that we could never be. so i did. and on weds. i told him that i liked someone else. and he just started like flipping out. cuz i thiink he was jealous and he is over my friend and likes me again. but its to late and i told him that. i told him that i already like someone else. but then he told me that he wasnt gonna let me throw me and him away. and hes really mad that i like his friend and everything. i duno what to do. cuz i really dont wanna hurt my friend. but then the guy i like i already told him everything that went on between me and the other guy. and i already told him know ahwile back when he asked me out. please help me.
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berrybum324 answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:48 am: so basically..he can like your friend..you hve to sit there and let him like her and "move on" buit then wen ur happy and u move on he gest to spazz on you and tell you . you cant lik ne one..nooo thats bullshit you have to tell your friend if he was really your friend he wud want you to be happy you moved on like he told you to do and now his mistake just cost him a relationship wit you and if he doesnt stop yellen and spazzing that yolur happi it cud cost him a friendship with you too..hes no better then you and he cant sit thea and tell you to do and not to do shit wen he can..thats messed up . . . KaT * [ berrybum324's advice column | Ask berrybum324 A Question ]
dotdotdot32 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:40 pm: sounds like he wanted you and your friend. you shouldnt let him stand in your way. if you really look at it... i can see that its like your doing to him what he did to you... and i can understand feeling guilty about that. but while this guys feeling maybe fragile... as all guys feelings are. but his feelings are going to be hurt for the simple fact that you dont like him, whether or not you like someone else. so i say don't let him dictate whoyou can or can't see, after all you didnt do that to him, now did you? [ dotdotdot32's advice column | Ask dotdotdot32 A Question ]
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